Humble Q: all those who want to forgive Jagya

on top of that there are numerous topics on JAAN reunion (i was actually going to list them all but it is impossible becuase there are just too many) i cant understand how can people even think about it. Thanks for posting this as the same question was going through my mind

i am not supporting Jaan reunion but i am extremely confused whats the issue if his family forgives him and accepts him back when he shows himself redeemed ..😕don't get me wrong but the family is not filled with saints ...they have zillion of mistakes with Anandi and Jagaya both at many points even to their daughter sugna too 😕 so i don't think there is a big issue for family not to forgive him 😕if he has done wrong he had done many right works to them which they are ignoring .so why they can't give him a chance if they can't give him a chance then first punish themselves properly for how many mistakes they have done ..

Originally posted by: mahi12

i am not supporting Jaan reunion but i am extremely confused whats the issue if his family forgives him and accepts him back when he shows himself redeemed ..😕don't get me wrong but the family is not filled with saints ...they have zillion of mistakes with Anandi and Jagaya both at many points even to their daughter sugna too 😕 so i don't think there is a big issue for family not to forgive him 😕if he has done wrong he had done many right works to them which they are ignoring .so why they can't give him a chance if they can't give him a chance then first punish themselves properly for how many mistakes they have done ..

Jagdish made 2 mistake i.e First he was having affair with gauri while he was married to anandi.

Wonderful post... You Just hit the nail... Shot them point blank...luv it.. How I wish this cd b posted a month ago... Cd hv saved 4m Lot of head ache...

Originally posted by: anu rulz

mahi i wud not have an issue wid the same IF he had truly been redeemed..bt he hasnt..she is still the self-centred jerk whose world revolves around himself...he has no issues screwing over anandi all over again when she (as he knows it) has moved on..he has no issues dumping all blame on gauri AND he seems to only want to come back coz he has no place to go..the family is not of saints, believe me, i know tht..bt they made a genuine effort to make good their mistakes, even DS..bt i dnt see any remorse in jagya even now..

anu thats why i used the word redeemed if he shows himself redeemed ...when he will show he is redeemed properly then ...but i am sorry perhaps if i misunderstood TM 's post but i found out what TM is saying why he should be forgiven even by his father and i am saying why not if he shows himself redeemed ...definitely not before that ..if the family even then not give him chance then i will say family is wrong here not Jagaya ...and he is blaming himself he is not dumping everything on Gauri but himself ...even today he did so ...

Not interested with Jagya anandi reunion.

if anandi might have done same, would have jaya accepted her? Never.

In addition to this, I would like to add another question - if the same thing would have happened to your daughter or sister, would you accept such a person or expect your daughter/sister to do the same?

I believe in repentance and forgiveness - but not in 2 episodes - he hurt the family over a period of 5 yrs at least - he shud not be given forgiveness so soon. Also, he need not be let to live in the haveli jusy coz he is forgiven.