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Mixed reaction from me...Let me set my base line for expectations before I come to my conclusions on the episode. First of all, let's not call it a date night... It was 2 beautiful people catching up over dinner...They were meeting each other at an Italian restaurant that was surprisingly called Purple Orchid. But then those of us who don't look for logic, what's in a name? Just yest, my friend told me she was at a dentist place in India called Eka danta...Go figure! I would insure my mouth before setting foot in that clinic...


Compared to 2 days of Arhiless episodes, this definitely was jackpot...Yes, expectations hit rock bottom. clever move by CV's to put out the promo and lower expectations...15 mins or so of Arhi, are you kidding me? I thought the other couple walking hand in hand would occupy the screen space on date night... They looked like they were overdoing the date night and Arhi were underplaying theirs? But then we the fandom also want Arnav to not lose his ASR edge...Remember, no mush is good? So parts of this worked for the ASR fans and parts of it worked for the Arnav aka mush fans. If you look at it thru this perspective, you may well enjoy today's episode...



What we really want is ASR romantic, yet not romantic...The man with swagger...But why are we always thinking ASR? Do we ever think what would someone like Khushi want? Does she deserve a little bit of feel good romance after going through so much for this man she loves? Does she deserve to feel like a princess like he now is treating her? I am sure she would love this attention however short lived... Doesn't she deserve a little bit of happiness? So they struck a right chord trying to please both Khushi and ASR/Arnav camps...


But there were some BS-SI aspects that made an entry which had no business in IPK...The director is responsible for this slip...Sorry BS fans but BS needs to stop mumbling and speak clearly...Barun does the angry ASR perfectly but the fun side of ASR is clearly not working...I blame the director solely, he settles for less...Barun has the range but practice makes perfect...Sanaya's ASR portrayal wasn't up to the mark either...Looks like the 2 had way too much fun doing this...& it clearly showed...A lack of focus clearly evident...No anda, tamatar puleeje....Did it make the cut for you? That is what counts, this is just my opinion & I stick to it...😉



Onto the episode - Beautiful entry by Khushi; ASR hears the all familiar payal; he quietly looks up...Khushi is a tad bit nervous, does he like what he sees? He on the other hand has always been drawn to this side of Khushi, the woman. A girl who is aware of her femininity...He isn't ashamed to admire what he sees...No words needed, his eyes said it all...


Khushi in character, this is all new to her. She has never been on a date, never done a reservation...In her enthusiasm to do something nice, she messes up the dates. But she is unfazed, she makes the Lucknow connection & manages to get a table...ASR was proud of her, he had the by now familiar look... "I should have known". He lets her pull up the chair; she was not going to be left behind.


She will treat him like a king, it was her privilege...Shows her simple thinking...She knows pulling the chair for a lady meant something special, she was going to make him feel just as special...Simple but very sweet gesture...ASR plays along without getting upset for embarrassing him... What was captivating throughout the date night was he didn't mind her taking the lead neither did he loose his cool... Arnav Singh Raizada is in love and it showed...He didn't hesitate to express it either...


Cute scene when the waiter returns with the food ... "Suniye, yeh half plate hai?...bakhi ke kha gaye kya..." She doesn't like the food...Which brings him to the next question...If she absolutely didn't like anything about the place, why was she here?


Khushi: Arnav Singh Raizada ban rahi hoon. Agar aap Khushi Kumari Gupta ban sakte hain toh hum bhi Arnav Singh Raizada ban sakte hai


Arnav: I love you the way you are Khushi...



That was straight from the heart...A few days ago; she said "hum aapko badlna nahi chahte hai..." Tonight he took her on her word...If she was willing to accept him for who he was, he was going to accept her just the way she is...She didn't have to put on a sophisticated facade...He had loved Khushi Kumari Gupta; the Singh Raizada only came later...Khushi Kumari Gupta showed him what love meant...


Khushi's ASR act showed how comfortable she is around him...For me. It wasn't really a date night...It was just how they are settling into each others life, accepting each others flaws and openly expressing their feelings...What was so hard for ASR to express is now so easy all because of one girl, KKG...With all her quirkiness, she has made him comfortable in his skin...He is now willing to open up...



He cleverly has her drink the kaala khatta...A naive Khushi actually thinks she is drunk...Nice piece of acting by Sanaya...This girl can really do anything...ASR is amused by her antics but he gets the underlying message...This girl will do anything to see him happy...She has proved it over & over again...Will it come handy when the going gets tough?



She doesn't get discouraged, she wants to give it one more try...The champagne...There too she messes up with the bubbly in somebody else's soup...ASR does not get angry but quietly takes charge, apologizes to the man for his lady love...When KKG is around there are multiple dhamakas, he has grown to accept that and lovingly I might add...Mimics her to make her smile and quietly asks her to finish the dinner...What a transformation for a man who charged menacingly under similar circumstances...He seals the gentleman act by paying the bill...What a class act...


Jo sach hai, who mooch hai came true tonight...Yes, Shikari Shambu going for the kill...Can't wait for the halwa tomorrow & the fairy lights...KKG dressed like that, its going to be a long night for ASR...Will he or won't he make the move? Lights off & Action...Time to show what you got, Mr ASR...Bahut hogaya bramachari ka jalwa...

Pics-Ippy, Ashii.PrinCess


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Posted: 13 years ago
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We have the first official date of Arnav and Khushi, initiated by Khushi. Arnav stunned seeing a beautiful Khushi dressed in black, recovers quickly and allows his girl to take the lead. He slips into the background thoroughly enjoying and marveling the girl he has so fallen in love with, seeing her go out of her comfort zone for him, to make him happy. He stops her at the right time and lets her know that he loves her the way she is and would not want to change anything about her.

Acceptance, key to a relationship- acceptance of the partner as they are, in essence and being accepted for who you are. Arnav and Khushi have accepted each other wholeheartedly without ever attempting to change the other. Khushi has fallen in love with Arnav knowing fully well he is her Shaitaan and Rakjumar. Likewise, Arnav has fallen head over heels with Khushi, with her crazy antics, her quirks, her bollywood love and of course her ever beautiful, kind and forgiving heart.

What a comparison in the lives of the two siblings today :

Arnav and Khushi - A couple who according to society are not married because they have not taken the pheras, yet do not hide from anybody, no fear in declaring feelings for one another. They meet on common ground, with their unique identities intact, allowing the other to blossom and grow - a relationship of equals.

Anjali and Shyam - A legally wedded couple who meet in the sly, whose relationship is filled with lies, deceit and selfishness, avoiding reality,living with the constant fear of the truth being revealed. Anjali still controls the money while Shyam does his sugary best to control his Rani Sahiba and hence tries to gain an upper hand in their relation.



Musings : What is the hurry, why are we constantly rushing to beat the Mayan calendar? 🥱 Couldn't the date be complete with Arnav dropping Khushi back at home and maybe a 2 min conversation?
Edited by savvy05 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tonight was better than the mind f**kery that was SO last week! 👍🏼

Sari Thank you for yet another wonderful edition of the SG's Hangout! The show would not be the same without it...and honestly now...the Show and the Hangout go hand in hand...Dono gum hojaye to humari Saansein ruk Jaati hai 😳

Today was about romances...new love and old love...love found and love lost...love where new trust blooms on one side and on the other side old love evolves...a lot happens today and a lot doesnt...😉

A very unlikely date night...ASR takes the back seat and let's his lady love do her thing...and man she does it pretty darn adorably...she messes the date up...but she convinces the restaurant to accomodate them very charmingly...she doesnt have the money or the name to carry it all but she is Mrs. ASR and she knows her way around with words to have her way...😆 All she want's to do is please her man the way he is pleasing her and showring her with his love...she want's to return the love back in his way...the ASR way...and the comedy of errors and the imperfections of this perfect or perfections of this imperfect couple are showed on screen. SG's after a while this was mighty adorable to watch...

He doesnt ever want her to change...just the way she never want's him to change...in her Khushi lays his Khushi...and thats how he beautifully narrates to her...in the end the champagne fiasco brings it all back...when he act's like her...his girl...his love ...the woman that made him laugh after eon's...the woman that makes this fire within him come alive...the girl that he wants to have and hold and love and cherish...the girl who he want's to marry...the girl he is so head over heels in love with that he will give her the wedding of her dreams to please her...make her smile and erase all the tears in her life. He wipes her tear away and now again we wait until tomorrow to watch it all over again...hai...

Today's Goodies:

-Sanaya looked Amazing!!!!

-It was very cutely done...Poorly executed but pretty adorable.

Today's Funnies:

-Anjali and Shyam sit in ASR's office...🤣

-Who the heck sells Kala Khatta in an Italian Restaurant????😕

-They took Purple Orchid so literally...walls are purple...and there are orchid's everywhere!😲

-Ab AR Design ke lobby mai dono Date kar rahe hai..

-NK's Halwa and Jalwa...🤣


Today's Ajeebo's/Satyanash.:

- Shyam Anjali...🤢

-Dadi Anjali...Double 🤢

-Sobti boy ke baal...ab inka mai aur kya kahun...😈

-Direction and execution and editing and camera work fails one more day...Team IPK you work SO hard...really appreciate it...but yaar dont phero pani on the kiya karaya by this poor display...something needs to be changed up...get the A team back...it's a deal breaker right now...overall good show but it needs the umph to return pronto! 😃

Song of the evening...😉

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aSDDJh_8uLw[/YOUTUBE]

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvtFrRLNJCo&feature=fvwrel[/YOUTUBE]

A Special note

Not too long ago...I found a hangout that i fit into...one that helped me share what i felt about this show...where i read other's posts and it make me smile that i am not alone in a funny weird frustration of a fictional show. I have said it before it is a television show and purely fictional in nature. One that has become part of our Monday-Friday lives and one that we discuss 7 days a week.

We've made friends and confidant's in here and while we have a difference of opinion we need to keep the element of positivity,respect and mutual admiration alive here. On day's i have nothing good to say i try to avoid the hangout because i dont want to bring the hangout down because like the show we have our fragile and sore moment's as well.

My only request is let's give everyone a chance. Yes another chance of not judging the book by it's everyday cover. There is a story somewhere here. Yes it is lengthy and complicated and some days needs my blackboard but one day hopefully in the far future itl all be good. 😃 Good, Bad or Ugly. Love the episode r hate it...we are in this together. All for one and one for all. SG's for life 😆
Edited by -Vee05- - 13 years ago
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Hello Sari and SG's!

Great post Sari and i agree with most of what you said!

I liked the episode; it was not spectacular; it was not the hot romance I anticipated and secretly hoped for over the weekend😉 but more of a cute get-together between an unconventional couple. There were lots of gaps in logic and I would have loved it if the ARHI scenes were not intermingled with the romance of Double D that I could care less about. I hated the flip flop of scenes from Arnav's (currently un-groomed) but super handsome face to Shyam's face that for me is best avoided.

Liked how Arnav turns around on hearing the tinkling of her payal; how he totally checks her out from head to toe and looks on smitten; how she blushes under his gaze and smiles at his silent approva😊l. The goofy Khushi made a big comeback today; and for ASR it was about moving past being embarrassed or angry but being amused and just completely at ease in the company of this jhalli girl he has grown to love. If this is what the CV's were trying to portray it came across very well; while I would have liked a little more attraction and passion displayed between the two the focus today seemed more on an enhanced comfort level and complete acceptance of the other👍🏼.

The entire sequence of Khushi sweet talking the waiter into giving them a seat while Arnav watches his wife's nautanki yield the desired results, to her discreetly trying to copy his moves, to the "Italian kabab"🤣, to finally openly declaring that she is trying to be ASR; all had the classic Khushi element intact. She acknowledges that she wants to do something special for him, he appreciates the effort, tries to make her feel at ease in his world, spices up her bland food and plays around asking her to drink some wine. Small steps that they are taking towards and for each other; their actions an open acknowledgment of how far they will go for the other. The essence of today was him reaching out to hold her hand to say "I love you the way you are Khushi, tumhe badalne ki koi zaroorat nahi hai" and "main tumhe aisi koi cheez harne ke liye nahi kahoonga jo tum nahi karna chahati". Both big statements for ASR; but it came so naturally to him today❤️. The champagne scene had the makings of being terribly OTT but thankfully was toned down and it led to "tum kisi aur ko tuhara mazak udane ka mauka hi kaha deti ho" which I loved😉. I love that his Arnav side has come to the forefront with respect to Khushi but I did not much care for the scene where Arnav tries to appease Khushi by his small mimic act, he is ASR; not NK.

I would have really really liked it if the scene was not brought to such an abrupt halt again to end the episode on the creep's face😡. A drive back with them sneaking glances at each other, with RV in the background, a small thank you for a special evening, a little flirting, a tender hug or good night kiss would have made all the difference in the overall impact.

Kostins: The direction seems lackluster, is Arshad back from his vacation? Is there a new writer on the block? Why does Sanaya needs those atrocious clips when her hair is already tied back?

Are we in for a fairy lights 360 tomorrow since Khushi sure looks gorgeous in the precap and Arnav seems to be dressed in his fairly lights round 1 attire

Edited by meens80 - 13 years ago
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Hi Sari,

I am out of rant at this moment as I had an earlier oppertunity to do so in other threads. With all that negativity out of my system caused by an episode that had a huge potential of making history but let down by extremely poor direction , i am happy to report on this thread with a positive frame of mind.
There were several things that worked well today and to start with are the beautiful looking couple in black. Some did not like his hair some her hair ..but i thought they looked very handsome together. Arnie looked mesmerised and rightly so . she is the worthy Mrs Arnave Singh Raizada.
Khushi being khushi has the wrong reservation date . True to her style she charms her way to get a table. Atta girl , loved it. When has Khushi ever backed off without trying , isn't this the way she won Arnie's heart. It was very nice seeing Arnie stand back and let her do the talking. 😛
I also have to give it to her for her gumption to enter a fancy resturant ( whatever !!!) and not be nervous of looking foolish. How many times have I looked up a wine list and stuck to a regular in case I make a mistake with any other drink ?? Khushi did it with gusto ...menu item 1, 2, 3, 4... good thinking .
The food and the kaala khatta was adorable and i wished they had some meaningful conversation over their food. And then came the best part of the episode . She telling him that she is doing this for him and he responding " I love you the way you are !!!! " Here again I will have to applaud the good intentions of the cvs that they did dare to address the difference in their upbringing and he made it clear that she does not have to change because of him. they both come from different backgrounds and it is known and acknowledged.
The scenes thereafter went downhill for me strating with the Bubbly and the Bunty-bubli joke. The cork flying was not required and Arnie imitating Khushi was definetly not needed or apprecaited . This is where Sari you say the director lost grip between the characters and actors.
The entire Anji-Shyam in the background was totally unnecessary which neither added to the story nor the episode. Mr & Mrs Jha both hiding from Arnie looked pathetic...really pathetic. Why is anji afraid and if Shyam thinks he is not doing anything wrong by meeting his wife outside RM then why is he hiding. Found it really very cheap. As a wife if I though my husband was right why would I let him hide under the table 🤢
Today I hope was the last day of bad direction as in the past few days and I hope we have our resident Arshad back. The PH needs to get a grip of their show else die hards like me too may dwindle very soon... Where is the Love Story Gul ? Where is the super hot jodi we all voted for ? Get them back before it is too late.
Take care ladies.
Edited by premparbat - 13 years ago
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After a disaster Friday, the CVs managed to redeem themselves with this episode. I know this episode had its flaws and could've been better but given what was shown Friday this time they put forward an effort to deliver a decent episode. I liked it!

So Anjali continues her latest habit of lying through her teeth to Arnav, not an ounce of guilt anymore just fear of getting caught. It is really disappointing what has been done to a character who was once a fan favorite. I was looking at older episodes and when you compare that Anjali with today's, the damage is evident. There were other routes to go with this track if they didn't want to take her character negative, this just ruined her completely.

Scene shifts to Purple Orchid where Arnav arrives first with Khushi arriving shortly afterwards being noticed by the sounds of her payals. Arnav is taken back by how beautiful Khushi looked and who could blame him?

Now why am I not surprised that things immediately start going wrong on their date?? This is Khushi we are talking about and she has never been your typical lead, things always need to be spiced up and indeed they were. Khushi made the wrong reservations but in Khushi style manages to convince the waiter to get her a table. Arnav looks on with a smile probably thinking pagal but cute, this is his Khushi.

I liked the 360 with the chair scene, Khushi who in the past did not understand Arnav was just being a gentleman now lets him and in turn returns the gesture, found this incredibly cute of Khushi who really put forward an effort to do something for Arnav.

As the date continued things continued to go wrong for Khushi but Arnav did not let this bring her down, he appreciates all she is trying to do but lets her know she does not need to change for him just like she doesn't want him to change for her. I love you for what you are couldn't be more true for these two, who would truly do anything for the other.

Ok the part where Arnav mimics Khushi, yes it was Barun but for this scene it worked. Throughout the episode we saw Khushi trying to be ASR so why not show ASR trying to be Khushi??? There are going to be times where things will be different from the past, since this is an entirely new phase to their relationship. CVs do need to tread carefully here though as these scenes won't always work.

The date was over and one would hope we got a scene where he dropped Khushi home but such luck instead they cut straight to the next day. I don't think it would have hurt to show one more scene with Arnav and Khushi and leave Shyam plotting for the precap, infact it would've worked out better since the last part of the date wouldn't have looked so rushed.

So tomorrow focuses on the godh bharai and I must say Khushi looked gorgeous! I'm so glad they spared her from another multicolored fashion disaster with a bad hairstyle - she looked stunning. I am still not for the combined godh bharai and mehendi rasam but if CVs manage to balance like they did today, it may not be so bad. .

Edited by .Mandy. - 13 years ago
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What a wonderful, lighthearted cutie fwutie candy flossy, pink bubblegumsy kinda episode. Loved it loads. Right balance between the colour coordinated leads and the colour clashing not so leads. I can rewatch again and again again. Its one of those stress busting feel good type epi.

We start of from Friday. Di cornered by Chotte and sweating essential pani that could have been used for her tears until Dadi saves her. Both these ladies lying to Chotte, while living on his turf. They have not seen what we have seen. Chotte in a banyan and his head in a sack, lying at DHV's feet. Do we remember? Yes we do! Someone show these two dhokebaaz women that awful pic!😡

Onto happier grounds.

So Chotte arrives at the purple Bubbly hotel and waits for Chotti. Chotti enters and he hears her Payal ki awaz and turns around. Aww he recognises her Payal awaz. Heeehee.😳

So he looks at her notices shes dressed in his colours and stares in awe. Bas karo Chotte, aise na dekho usse..I'm grinning like loony Di...☺️

So Khushi gets her dates mixed up and has to suck up her way to bag a table. While Chotte looks on at his pagal half-biwi antics. Of course she gets her own way.😆

Chotte pull out the chair for Chotti but since she is in the favour returning mode, Chotti pulls out the chair for Chotte.

Excuse me while I roll on the floor laughing. And Chotte doesn't even say anything. LOL.

Next she tries to order of the menu.

Chotti asks for a Kebab. I know! Shyam-i- Kebab. Geddit? No. Heres another one. Kebab being a symbolism for the impending arrival of Di the kebab.

Chalo chado. So she picks stuff at random. But Chotti! They could be snails or something??? oh wait they're French and you asked for Veg. Ignore then.

Chotte tries to make small talk and she out of the blue shuts him up with a "What the!"

Yes truly. What the Khushi Kumari Gupta -almost singh Raizada???

"Jab hum baat kar rahe ho toh don't you dare..." Oh right. You are being Chotte. Go on. Chotte needs someone to Chotte him. Lage raho.

Until someone in blue arrives at the purple door. Uurgh. Yeh yahan bhi aagayi..Kabab mai haddi.🤢

Whatever. Boring! Ippy is ignoring them...👎🏼

When Khushi tries the food, it makes her want to puke. Till chotte saves the day and pours some (is it salt, pepper, chilli?) Whatever it is onto the food. And Khushi gobbles away.

When Arnav asks her what on earth is she doing? She tells him that if he can be her for her then she can be him for him.

Till he challenges her indirectly to drink wine, which is actually blackcurrant juice and Chotti does for Chottes Khushi and even psychologically becomes talli.😃

Until Mishraji the ever smiling waiter who loves his job, tells her its juice and snaps her out of her talliness.

Next moment was just pure Awww.😳

"I love you the way you are Khushi...Tumhe badalne ki koi zaroorat nahi hai..."

I can't. My feelings. We love you both the way you are.*sniffles*

And he said I love you because he wanted to. Not because he was coerced into it.

And look at our Chotti, the Khushi on her face.

So one last attempt from Khushi even after Arnav tells her to leave it. He pops the bubbly into Khan Bhai's face.(epi 1. Sheesh Mahal seller) and knocks his specs into his soup.

Mishraji apologises, Chotte also apologises and notices Khushi is upset and cheers her up by being her.

I loved this scene. The way the guy went all outs of his comfort zone to cheer her up is amazing. Yeh pyaar nahi toh kya hai. Beautiful! Maybe he was Barunish. I just saw Arnav in love.😛

I'm going to leave it at that. I have no idea what to write further and I don't even feel funny facing mushfest.

But precap looks awesome. And can't wait for the epi tomorrow.

No VM today. I took too many pics today and overheated the lappy and it needs time to cool down before I can upload the vid. So kal sahi.😃

Edited by ipkbs - 13 years ago
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sari'can i hug u for your ur post'.omg post it was'.as usual more omg factor in ur post than the episode per se'.loved the last para'.oh i so wish that brahmachari's vrat is broken by khushi's sexy jalwa n all'.n in the fairy light set up'im almost begging the cvs'.lol'.without bungling it ofcourse..coz the orig fairy light is just too special'.😊
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Whattay Refreshing Episode!!

I Laued it!!

It had freshness, it had lots of Arnav and Khushi, it only had Anjali and Shyam as a backdrop.. (quite literally), and they had NK and jalwa!! Really, was there anything to not feel good with today? I think not. They did a good job today.

I'm not going to get into the deep dynamics of the Arnav-Khushi scenes, except that it was simply adorable. Khushi pulling a KSR.. I had said we could get glimpses of that, but the kiss didn't happen :(
ASR has now become Arnav for Khushi. He's head over heels in love with her and his mannerisms, note I said mannerisms and NOT personality, reflect that when he's around her.
His personality will ALWAYS have traits of ASR. The anger, the charm, the intimidation, the confidence that emits out off him will always remain. So those of you who are worried that Arnav Singh Raizada is now a Mushie pie, worry not. ASR was, is and will always remain on the surface, even with Khushi occasionally. But, whenever he is with Khushi, it will be the head over heels in love with man Arnav that we will see.

I personally think, with Shyam's confirmed entry into the house as "planned" by the trio on Godbharai, the focus on the past has now stopped. With Dadi and Garima in the house, I personally feel will be a red-herring of sorts, because right now, the track can only deal with one issue in the backdrop and that right now will be Shyam-Anjali and the baby. The past will be visited after the marriage is done. Well, at least the stuff involving Arnav and Khushi.

NOTE:-

I personally want to call this out, because I feel that most of you ladies here at the hangout have become a good group of cyber buddies and I'd hate for us to go distant. We need to see this story and show together till the end.
And, having said that, there has been a very repetitive critical phase this hangout has taken. And there is a difference between "constructive criticism" and "condescending criticism".

This is our dose of 20 minutes of entertainment daily. Yes, we get to live our M&B fantasy here, but that's all we take away from it. I don't make an income off the show. The creatives, the actors and the crew do. So believe me when I say, they know what they're doing, and they know when they're failing. Wednesdays for them every week must literally be a day of judgement. This is a show that used to be in the top 5 and have slowly slipped down, it definitely is more heart breaking for them to see that their creativity is being over taken by a halwai and an actress who really cannot express herself that way. If we find it frustrating, just how exactly would they feel?

There is a reason there isn't such an extensive bank of episodes (+ 2 episodes perhaps) with this show, and there is a reason not all spoilers are reliable. There is a high probability of an abrupt change in track at any given minute. That means, they know and are confident of what they want to and go ahead and execute.
When we started watching the show, we knew the Shyam-Khushi-Anjali dynamics, so we knew what we were going into. We knew this would become a story temporally where the focus would be shared. If we were fine going into the show with that, then there really is no excuse of the brutal criticism that comes.
I'm sorry, but its not always cool to criticize actors. Criticize the characters, but there is no need to always pick on Abhas and Daljeet or any other actor from the show. Everyone is doing what they are told to do. If someone doesn't shave or has become too muscular or looks tired, its fine to mention that 1, 2, 3 times, mentioning it 10 times will only hurt someone's sentiments ultimately.

I completely agree with wanting to come out here and vent and constructively criticize what is happening in the show, but to come here and make this hangout an active punching bag for the creatives and actors is simply not right.
I can assure you that the creatives and actors scout around the forum and I believe we are all on the same page to agree that we would hate for this hangout to be associated with "immaturity and hateful posts". Believe me, after the past week/s, the CVs are probably going "nothing can keep them happy so fudge them". And all of us here do have some good constructive opinions which will only be taken seriously if the thread goes back to being how it was, a place to actively and maturely discuss the goods and bads of the show.

I'm sorry if I sound harsh and have hurt your sentiments, but this is something that is needed to be said and something I feel strongly about and I would love to get that zing and positivity back at our hangout.


Edited by sugar_babe - 13 years ago
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Loved your take sari. You make it seem more magical.. every single time.

Yes it can't be called a date.. it was more of "lets get to know each other outside our comfort zone" kind of an episode.

If we consider the episode along those lines, then may be many expectations one has from a date night is toned down a bit.. and may be makes it a better episode to appreciate.

For me, he had me when he says "tumhe arnav singh raizada ban ne ki koi zaroorat nahi.." . So true.. imagine the havoc that would create among phangurls if we had to deal more than one .. 😆 As it is, "saasein rukhna" is happening at a very regular basis.. More ASR and uff.. can u imagine that? There was another gal at the adjacent table who was checking him out.. 😆

Anyways.. the highlight of the episode were the following lines.. by ASR... when he tries to convince her that he loves her for what she is..

"jo kuch bhi mai kar raha hoon, roka, shagun, mandir, mai sirf iss liye kar raha hoon kyonki mujhe in cheezonse koi itraaz nahi.. yeh sab mai tumhare liye kar raha hoon..
aur yeh sab tum mere liye kar rahe ho..restaurant booking, italian food, wine, par yeh sab tumhare soch se bahut alag hai.. "

There is a depth of meaning in these words. He may not believe in temple and all the other tidings that go along with it, but as he admits.. he is not against it.. he doesn't have problem with some one else doing it.. koi itraaz nahi hai.. because he always has been in a family wherein puja and related stuff was always part of the day. But in her case, all the stuff that she is trying to do, she is against it.. its not something that she was exposed to in her life.. so she has no clue about these things .. so for her its more a learning curve.. whereas for him its just a matter adjusting .. That was so beautifully put.. and I loved that part..

And that was the essence of the episode.. To be able to accept each other warts and all, and be comfortable with each other. I loved it.

Also loved how Arnav brings back a smile on her face, when she feels as if she has let him down. And the joke, where in he says she doesn't give any one else a chance to laugh at her, she does a good job of it herself.. that was priceless.

The rest of the characters in the episode.. are nameless, faceless people who flit in and out... and so I ignored it. Don't care much for Shyamali romance or happenings..


The precap showed Khushi in a beautiful lehenga..now to see ASR's reaction to that one..
Edited by maaloo - 13 years ago

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