Originally posted by: orianthi
Hold on. If Adi does her Sardakhai, wouldn't that mean that he marries her? Isn;t the sardakhai like a wedding ritual and since unlike other Thakurs he is not married so Sugni would be his first wife.
Hey seems like u'r not watching this serial or may be just start watching recently. Let me clear this to u, "Sar Dhaki" is an evil custom only. We can't even compare it with Marriage at all. Sar dhakai is a legal way of prostitution. When a bedni do her first rai then thakurs bid on her, like in this serial sugni did a rai now thakurs bid on her then it will be sugni's decision to whom she wants to sell herself. She will get a mangalsutra and sindoor to wear but no saat phere will be done plus she has to sleep with the thakur but cannot call herself his wife,She will be his mistress only and thakur can dump her any time and then she can go to sell her self again,this will continue till the bedni is alive.