I am one of what Jai calls the 'old school' ...in fact, he and I may be the only two left in that school !! Everyone else has graduated 😆 !! But I still want Arman to come together...and the reason i do is that Archana will never stop loving Manav, and she will never ever feel good, or have a chance at happiness without him. I don't think she could ever love someone else. Yes she's crying all the time now, but if he leaves this time, (3rd time he would leave her, 4th time he would try ) she will know it is probably different this time and he won't be back.
So she's caught between a rock and a hard place. His warmth one day and coldness the next really bothers me, but i dont' think it bothers Archana that much. I think she knows that's how he is and she would rather take the chance that one day the warmth might stay, than to never be close to him at all.
I think she deserves better, but i think she would never accept another, so i want them to try to work it out one more time. But...they would BOTH have to be honest with each other...and all the things we viewers know need to happen. They probably had this relationship in this incarnation cause they had things to work out...but they're not doing very well at it.. 😆 they will probably have to do it all over again next life.
As far as Purvi goes...i don't understand why people feel she has no right to expect a relationship with Manav. Of course she does. She is an adopted daughter of Archana, and Manav is her mother's husband until further notice. Until then they are family. He is like a "step father" if people like that better...she has every right in the world to expect a relationship with him, and in fact he led her to believe it was a warm one even if a bit awkward. But yesterday he was acting like the "wicked step father !! " 😲