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Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Actually Naava , today I realized one thing and that is that Manav has never accepted Purvi as his daughter ( in his heart ) .It was always Archana who was pushing this relationship down his throat , weather he liked it or didn't .

Ok, one day ( at holi ) he did make some promises with Purvi but I think at that time he just liked Purvi a lot as a sanskaari, sweet and obdient daughter of her mother ( whole he loved at one time ) .

If you think about all the times , it was always Archana who was forcing Manav ( indirectly ) to accept Purvi as his daughter .

I do not blame Archana at all for doing this .Purvi is an orphan and has no relatives accept Archana and Sulochna .Sulo is old and if anything happens to Archana , she wanted Purvi to have someone who would be there for her and who could be trusted ...and for Archana the only person she could think of was Manav ., that is why Archana is always encouraging Purvi and Manav's relationship ..

But now what has happened with Arjun has changed everything ..Manav who was himself not that sure about Purvi being his daughter is just not interested anymore ..And he cannot be blamed at all.After all Ovi is his daughter and his first priority ..

I think Manav had stopped loving Archana a long long time ago . Archana still believes that he does ...

But maybe now after seeing him behave this way with Purvi , she too will finally accept that it is indeed all over between them .

Archana should move on in life now .She should stop expecting Manav to be Purvi's father because he is not her dad .She is Purvi's father and also her mother . Purvi does not needs anyone else .

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Welcome back Tanya dear with the BU..⭐️..Hope you had a awesome Ramzan celebrations..
Today's epi highlight was Archu - Vishnu confrontation..

Thanks Jai ..I had such a lovely Ramzaan and also having a great Eid ...😊

I liked today that CV's showed some intelligence in Archu - Vishu confrontation at least..No matter what the bond of a mother and her child cannot be erased..Its a connection sent from the above and today Vishnu felt that a bit..

No way I am defending Vishnu here,just that the point where he realizes seeing Archu that there is something about her that makes him feel that he has known her for a long time was good.That little show of that emotional bond was well done by CV's for a change..

I also liked it a lot and glad tha tSoham feels something , after all he was around 5 when he was kidnapped and taken away from his mother ...He remembers the love that his mother gave him in that brief period ...

Vishnu was at its best I guess when he was irritating Manav by his gestures.. 😆..Guess Vishnu - Manav patching up is going to take a long long long time..Ankit is making his presence felt in PR through his wonderful portray of Vishnu/Soham.

I think this guy is a good actor ..I love the way he smiles at Manav 😆, bahut badmaash hey and he does wear the amulet , something like his dad used to wear ...

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naava

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Posted: 13 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Actually Naava , today I realized one thing and that is that Manav has never accepted Purvi as his daughter ( in his heart ) .It was always Archana who was pushing this relationship down his throat , weather he liked it or didn't .

Ok, one day ( at holi ) he did make some promises with Purvi but I think at that time he just liked Purvi a lot as a sanskaari, sweet and obdient daughter of her mother ( whole he loved at one time ) .

If you think about all the times , it was always Archana who was forcing Manav ( indirectly ) to accept Purvi as his daughter .

I do not blame Archana at all for doing this .Purvi is an orphan and has no relatives accept Archana and Sulochna .Sulo is old and if anything happens to Archana , she wanted Purvi to have someone who would be there for her and who could be trusted ...and for Archana the only person she could think of was Manav ., that is why Archana is always encouraging Purvi and Manav's relationship ..

But now what has happened with Arjun has changed everything ..Manav who was himself not that sure about Purvi being his daughter is just not interested anymore ..And he cannot be blamed at all.After all Ovi is his daughter and his first priority ..

I think Manav had stopped loving Archana a long long time ago . Archana still believes that he does ...

But maybe now after seeing him behave this way with Purvi , she too will finally accept that it is indeed all over between them .

Archana should move on in life now .She should stop expecting Manav to be Purvi's father because he is not her dad .She is Purvi's father and also her mother . Purvi does not needs anyone else .

What a sad post Tanya...like everything PR was supposed to be...gone. I'm not sure i feel that way in my heart of hearts, even though i say similar things sometimes, and i can see why you say this. Is there really no love left in any of the relationships of PR. Maybe you are right and im still Charlie Brown with the football. 😕 😆

Actually i am on my way to bed, really tired tonight and will look again tomorrow to answer maybe.

I was worn out BEFORE i saw the epi...so can't blame it on PR. hhh

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#44

It is sad but people like Archana need to wake up .She is just too romantic for her own good ...

Here I am not saying anything bad to Manav .I don't think he is doing anything wrong in pushing Purvi away because he was not even there when she was dopted ...and now he has to think of his daughter Ovi first ...why would he think about Purvi ..

In fact I would like Purvi and Arjun to back off and let Manav be ...stop trying to make him look like Purvi's father .He is not interested to be her daddy or to be Archana's husband . Let him just take care of his own family .He too has his own set of problems ..Ovi is not giving him an easy time at all .

Manav does not dislikes Archana or Purvi .Despite of Archana asking for a divorce and alimony he has said many times that she loves her daughters and he does not know why she is behaving this way ...Also he knows that Purvi is not the kind of girl who would hurt Ovi knowingly ...

But he just does not cares anymore ...He has too much on his plate .His first priority is Ovi and that is all he thinks about now ..

Good night Naava, sweet dreams ...

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
It is sad but people like Archana need to wake up .She is just too romantic for her own good ...

Here I am not saying anything bad to Manav .I don't think he is doing anything wrong in pushing Purvi away because he was not even there when she was dopted ...and now he has to think of his daughter Ovi first ...why would he think about Purvi ..

In fact I would like Purvi and Arjun to back off and let Manav be ...stop trying to make him look like Purvi's father .He is not interested to be her daddy or to be Archana's husband . Let him just take care of his own family .He too has his own set of problems ..Ovi is not giving him an easy time at all .

Manav does not dislikes Archana or Purvi .Despite of Archana asking for a divorce and alimony he has said many times that she loves her daughters and he does not know why she is behaving this way ...Also he knows that Purvi is not the kind of girl who would hurt Ovi knowingly ...

But he just does not cares anymore ...He has too much on his plate .His first priority is Ovi and that is all he thinks about now ..

Good night Naava, sweet dreams ...

Perfectly said Tanya dear.Nice Analysis Naava dear..Good to see u Naava back again..😊.(GN n sweet dreams Naava dear 😉 )Dears I think its high time Archu n Purvi both woke up..I also think it would be better if Purvi does not involve herself in Arman divorce and try push her mom forcefully to Manav..She should just back off and her main duty is to give emotional support to her Aai in this difficult times..That is the biggest help she can do for both Archu n Manav..

I think no one can or should decide Arman relationship..Let these 2 emotional fools (Arman) decide what they want to and they should make sure that their children are kept out of this.

Purvi should focus back on why Punni is behaving way too sweetly and think about Arjun's words..She should take care of her personal life and be a emotional supporting base for her Aai.

Manav has his work cut out..Ovi is his main priority and its going to take him lot of effort & time by the look of things - first to take Ovi out of Punni's clutches and then take Ovi out of her depression..To add to this he has Vishnu & Balan looming around his corner for revenge.So he is totally booked with his set of problems..

I think its better Manav focuses on Ovi and Archu focuses on Arvi wedding (which is the utmost happiness for Archu seeing Purvi getting married).

As for as Arman's life well since these two have sacrificed everything for others ,what's left to give.I think that these 2 have given up to their destiny and have devoid themselves of the pure undying love they once had for each other for the sake of others.There is nothing left for them to sacrifice now.Both dont have anything anymore to give or take.They have lost everything in-spite of having everything.

So its better these 2 decide about their life without their children getting dragged nor these 2 should involve themselves so immensely like now and create complications for their kids and themselves.Manav n Archu know their responsibilities and priorities now..If ever they feel that they should think about their life and their relationship for a change ,let them decide and think what they want to do ,otherwise guess its better for them to take of their responsibilities.

All I could say is ,I dont feel sorry for these 2 but pity that in-spite of having such a wonderful life,these 2 over did the concept of helping others which has destroyed their life completely..

"First help yourself,then help others" adage never exited in Arman 's dictionary ,it was always help others and never help yourself which is the very reason their life is in such pitiful and distress state.

Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Actually Naava , today I realized one thing and that is that Manav has never accepted Purvi as his daughter ( in his heart ) .It was always Archana who was pushing this relationship down his throat , weather he liked it or didn't .

Ok, one day ( at holi ) he did make some promises with Purvi but I think at that time he just liked Purvi a lot as a sanskaari, sweet and obdient daughter of her mother ( whole he loved at one time ) .

If you think about all the times , it was always Archana who was forcing Manav ( indirectly ) to accept Purvi as his daughter .

I do not blame Archana at all for doing this .Purvi is an orphan and has no relatives accept Archana and Sulochna .Sulo is old and if anything happens to Archana , she wanted Purvi to have someone who would be there for her and who could be trusted ...and for Archana the only person she could think of was Manav ., that is why Archana is always encouraging Purvi and Manav's relationship ..

But now what has happened with Arjun has changed everything ..Manav who was himself not that sure about Purvi being his daughter is just not interested anymore ..And he cannot be blamed at all.After all Ovi is his daughter and his first priority ..

I think Manav had stopped loving Archana a long long time ago . Archana still believes that he does ...

But maybe now after seeing him behave this way with Purvi , she too will finally accept that it is indeed all over between them .

Archana should move on in life now .She should stop expecting Manav to be Purvi's father because he is not her dad .She is Purvi's father and also her mother . Purvi does not needs anyone else .

Well said Tanya 👏. I agree that Manav made some promises to Purvi that he would always be there for her but he didn't really want this father-daughter relationship. It was Archana who always pressured Manav to be there for Purvi. I understand that having both a mother and a father is important for children to have but Purvi's obsession with her Baba was just too much. Manav had made some mistakes just as Archana did but they never showed Purvi trying to learn about Manav and Archana's strained relationship. I wonder why she thought that Manav and Archana would magically get back together again after living together for 6 months? All it did was make their relationship unravel further. Purvi should forget about her dream of her family reuniting. I really want Manav and Archana to get a divorce because their love and pavitra rishta ended years ago. It'll be hard to take in that in another 15 or so days, both claim in court that they are still in love with each other and want to remain together considering all that's happened. Archana should now live for herself. Her relationship with Ovi, Teju, and Sachin doesn't look like it will ever heal (from what the CVs show us) and she should stop making compromises. Purvi will get married away and Archana has nothing to do but live for herself and take care of her mother. She should stop wasting her time crying and get on with life. She's only holding herself back. Manav and his kids should return to Canada and live happily since there is no Archana to make them miserable (as they always think).

Coming to the precap - Why is it necessary for Varsha to give a character reference? Her saying anything will not sway the court since all evidence is against Vishnu. What bull.

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina

Well said Tanya 👏. I agree that Manav made some promises to Purvi that he would always be there for her but he didn't really want this father-daughter relationship. It was Archana who always pressured Manav to be there for Purvi. I understand that having both a mother and a father is important for children to have but Purvi's obsession with her Baba was just too much. Manav had made some mistakes just as Archana did but they never showed Purvi trying to learn about Manav and Archana's strained relationship. I wonder why she thought that Manav and Archana would magically get back together again after living together for 6 months? All it did was make their relationship unravel further. Purvi should forget about her dream of her family reuniting. I really want Manav and Archana to get a divorce because their love and pavitra rishta ended years ago. It'll be hard to take in that in another 15 or so days, both claim in court that they are still in love with each other and want to remain together considering all that's happened. Archana should now live for herself. Her relationship with Ovi, Teju, and Sachin doesn't look like it will ever heal (from what the CVs show us) and she should stop making compromises. Purvi will get married away and Archana has nothing to do but live for herself and take care of her mother. She should stop wasting her time crying and get on with life. She's only holding herself back. Manav and his kids should return to Canada and live happily since there is no Archana to make them miserable (as they always think).

Coming to the precap - Why is it necessary for Varsha to give a character reference? Her saying anything will not sway the court since all evidence is against Vishnu. What bull.

Well said Nina dear, as I mentioned I think only Arman should decide their relationship and not allow their children to be dragged in this mess and also not drag themselves into their children life too much like the way they are doing right now.Nina this over doing/too much help n concern for others logic of Arman has not only destructed their own life but has now complicated their kids lives too.

These two should first help themselves before going out of the way to help their children or others.These two just dont get the fact that the earth is not filled with Archu's n Manav's who would reciprocate back for all they do for others.The day these 2 learn that ,that day they would eventually think about themselves and their relationship.

I am not sure if Archu or Purvi will ever get the reality check..But since Arjun is there for Purvi,I think he will take care of her but once Purvi leaves after marriage ,I am not sure how will Archu will manage..Sometimes I dont have to find answers about Ovi's obsessiveness over Arjun (leaving aside Ovi's emotional blackmailing aspect)and her emotional in-stability ,those traits got transferred from Archu (I am only stating the qualities ,not comparing both at all).

I think Arman will always be like this..Its too late to go back from where they have started..

All I can hope is that one day very soon they stop and look back at the mess they have created in their own life (which is now affecting their children;s life) thanks to the over boarding concept of help others at the cost of your own happiness and life.

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Pranati

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Posted: 13 years ago

#48

Thanks Tanya and Naresh for the great BU! You guys are just wonderful!

I hope Purvi gets some sense into her head that Manav is not her Baba .. not even her "acting Baba".. you know what I mean. Manav confuses me all the time. He shows the greatest support to Archana or Purvi or Sulochana.. and in one second can change gears... Make up your mind Manav...

If he loved Archana truly and deeply, he would go after the cause of the divorce and its legitamcy as well. The way the divorce papers arrived in Canada ( remember) and his first meeting with Archana he comes to know they are not her signatures and later she making up a story.. If he truly felt for Archana he would have not left it the way he has.. he would have investigated.

Manav's attitude and actions just leave me puzzled! I am so angry at him...

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina
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. Archana should now live for herself. Her relationship with Ovi, Teju, and Sachin doesn't look like it will ever heal (from what the CVs show us) and she should stop making compromises. Purvi will get married away and Archana has nothing to do but live for herself and take care of her mother. She should stop wasting her time crying and get on with life. She's only holding herself back. Manav and his kids should return to Canada and live happily since there is no Archana to make them miserable (as they always think).

That is what I would also like to see.

Archana should have never allowed Manav to take the girls .She had lost Soham then and was being blamed for him .There was a lot of emotional strain , she made this huge mistake of letting her husband walk away with the girls ...

She has lived 18 years of her life away from her children , faced their hate , faced humiliation of the worst kind has been punished like anything ...Now enough is enough ...Get this woman divorced and let her live the rest of her life with some dignity and peace .

Purvi has to stop trying to get her mother back with the man who stopped loving her long long time ago ...all this would not have happened if there was any love there ...

She should take care of her own relationship with Arjun because that is a lovely relationship .Arjun has done so much for Purvi , he deserves her love .I know now Punni and Ovi will try and break them up .

I hope they fight for their relationship , I hope Archana fights for them ..Just because Archana's own relationship failed so badly does not means there is no love in this world and there cannot be good relationships ...

By the way I am very happy to see that Soham , despite of all that happened to him remembers his mother presence . I know it is a vague memory but it is a good start ...Maybe there is some light at the end of this dark endless tunnel for Archana ...😊

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Thanee

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Watched the episode not bad I'll say interesting...

LIke how Soham put Manv in his nerves..As if he was boiling can't explode..😆it was funny to watch them..but Archu/ soham were words from an Aai to a son...Baar baar his Aai talk to him (Varsha) her words had no effects on him...when Archu talk to him..I think these words have replace all these yrs Varsha had talk to him..

oh God he has the feelings he saw her...BTW ...how old he was..4/5yrs..he can have some feelings.???.which he can't explain poor boy.." I said poor boy for about what happen to him ..when he was a child"" now he becomes a gunda he must be punish..

The best what i like today..this confirm my feelings..what manv said to Arjun when he thanks manv . I come for Ovi..The kidnapper tried to Kidnap her ..I come just for Ovi..Purvi speechless...just watch her pyare baba what was saying...I 'm not angry ..ovi is her daughter..he has all the right to say that..why blaming him...but What's wrong..and I said it on my posts ..he is giving Purvi False hope..and this is wrong..

Why for her engagement he sent saree for her...but when Arjun invite him..for the marriage..he said I must think about Ovi..of course he must think about Ovi first.I'm not against that...I don't knwo if he really has feelings as a baba for Purvi...I don't think so..or..otherwise I don't knwo where he is hiding that feelings😆.but today he clearly show us that Purvi is not his beti..this is true..but he must stop playing with that poor girl emotions..and feelings...she must not wait for his baba..and Purvi msut knwo that..Archu must talk to her...Stay away from him..familly D..and even that divorce..You don't know how much I want that divorce..

Last time I remember each time I had talked about Arman divorce..I had tension..stress..heart beating..wonderding..discussing..they will dicorce or not..hope not..ect ect all this for last divorce..but this time i'm waiting eagerly...don't take me wrong..I had seen to much..

Not even he took a time asking himself..Archu asking for alimony..why??she is not like this..ect ect..Archu said she didn't sign the divorce paper then she said she signed..here also he didn't see soemthing fishy with all that..

and Archu must stop taking that man like god..18yrs waitng for a man , love a man to end now by a divorce..this is not directly Manv faults but Archu..

bye dears..Like the episode..precap yes its very funny...varsha..gayab😆 Kehi tho..she hasn't been kidnap.????.😆 Gone to washroom.😆.Purvi was there.as she suspected her ..for what I don't knwo???..she hit her on her head..Varsha behauch...don't knwo what to do..call Arjun...who took her in his car..Purvi decide to bring her back home..to show her Aai ..the kidnapper's mother..

Court postpone..till Kidnaper's Aai will be found😆oh god it will be funny..

ok see you all ..tomorrw..bye

Edited by Thanee - 13 years ago