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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naina2127

Aww this is a cute topic :)

One person I know fell in love with someone of a different religion, and was adamant about marrying him. But to be accepted, she had to convert and well yeah, now the families accept the wedding, but she's not allowed to partake in any religious things at her maternal home, any traditions or anything because she's of a different religion =/

The other one - differnet languages but same religion, and everyone was great! He's South Indian, she's North Indian and we had an amazing time at the wedding! Lots of different customs from both cultures included and it was fun, and it's really cute seeing her trying to be more South Indian, in a sense, trying to make more Idli/Sambar type dishes and all that :D But both of the families adores both of them so it's a very happy life as far as I can see. Makes me feel good about love marriages :)



First Case I wont comment much as I really hate religious conversion as it shows backward mind set and non adaptability to different views we really need to give respect to each other

.Alas! people end up making such adjustments just coz they are too much in love

Second one is really cute one trying to make more idli sambhar😆...i really like such marriages as u get see colourful things happening😊

I too know of a marriage in my society where girl is Bangoly and boy north Indian and full shakahari(vegetarian)

The girl loves fishes but since her husband is not used to the smell of it she prefers having it at her parents house. One thing is very cute with the girl she sings very sweet .She told me once it was for her sweet voice bhiya (the boy) fell for her 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
#12
nyceee threadd...

m in favour ov love marriage..i mean if two ppl meett dey fall in true luv n wna spend d rest ov dre lyf wit eachodr no matter where dey live wat family backgrounds dey're frm nuthin can eva cum between two pure lovers tau zaroorr love marriage kernii chhayeh buh apney family apney parents ko manna k samjhaa k n den afterwards bth can adjust wit dre families i mean ofcourse d gals goes wit dulha to his house tu d gal av to adjust a lil moree n if she luvsss her hubbyy so mch dat shes nuthn widout him tau woh kuch b ho reh legey uskey family ko apney family samjhege n she'll live happilyy wit dem..

Family ko hurt kerke naraz kerke shaadi nai ki ja saktey:/i cant

ma two cusins av done love marriages ek ke successful ek ki nai..
ma male cusin had a gf for d past 8 yrs n finally got married to her nw dey av kids n r happyy 5 sal hogaye unkey shaddii ko though d guys family didnt lyk d gal n her family buh d guy manaofyed her mom n got married to hsi ladyy loveee:D hw shweett naaa reallyy impresses me:}

i dunno if i dun find sumone worth spendin ma whole lyf happily wit him n widout whom i wont b able to live tu mai b arranged marriage hee kerungey parents ki pasand se...abi m single:p

SAHI ASHISH HO TU LOVE MARRIAGE KERLOO😆
waise ma mom dad ke b love marriage hai😉n if i fall in lovee tu itna tu kahungey k apney b tu love marriage ki n mashallah itney yrs se chalri hai mujhe b kerne dainnaa😆
Edited by ArhainaKaArhaan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Naina2127

Aww this is a cute topic :)

One person I know fell in love with someone of a different religion, and was adamant about marrying him. But to be accepted, she had to convert and well yeah, now the families accept the wedding, but she's not allowed to partake in any religious things at her maternal home, any traditions or anything because she's of a different religion =/

The other one - differnet languages but same religion, and everyone was great! He's South Indian, she's North Indian and we had an amazing time at the wedding! Lots of different customs from both cultures included and it was fun, and it's really cute seeing her trying to be more South Indian, in a sense, trying to make more Idli/Sambar type dishes and all that :D But both of the families adores both of them so it's a very happy life as far as I can see. Makes me feel good about love marriages :)



v dun choose r religion vr born in a hindu,a muslim or a christian family..
v dun falll in LOVEEE it jst happnnnsss its nah in r handsss...
i dun lyk it wen religion cums between two lovers😭
shaadi ussey kero jissey ap dil se manoo
ussey nai jissey bas issliye kerni hai k family is saying
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArhainaKaArhaan

nyceee threadd...


m in favour ov love marriage..i mean if two ppl meett dey fall in true luv n wna spend d rest ov dre lyf wit eachodr no matter where dey live wat family backgrounds dey're frm nuthin can eva cum between two pure lovers tau zaroorr love marriage kernii chhayeh buh apney family apney parents ko manna k samjhaa k n den afterwards bth can adjust wit dre families i mean ofcourse d gals goes wit dulha to his house tu d gal av to adjust a lil moree n if she luvsss her hubbyy so mch dat shes nuthn widout him tau woh kuch b ho reh legey uskey family ko apney family samjhege n she'll live happilyy wit dem..

Family ko hurt kerke naraz kerke shaadi nai ki ja saktey:/i cant

ma two cusins av done love marriages ek ke successful ek ki nai..
ma male cusin had a gf for d past 8 yrs n finally got married to her nw dey av kids n r happyy 5 sal hogaye unkey shaddii ko though d guys family didnt lyk d gal n her family buh d guy manaofyed her mom n got married to hsi ladyy loveee:D hw shweett naaa reallyy impresses me:}

i dunno if i dun find sumone worth spendin ma whole lyf happily wit him n widout whom i wont b able to live tu mai b arranged marriage hee kerungey parents ki pasand se...abi m single:p

SAHI ASHISH HO TU LOVE MARRIAGE KERLOO😆
waise ma mom dad ke b love marriage hai😉n if i fall in lovee tu itna tu kahungey k apney b tu love marriage ki n mashallah itney yrs se chalri hai mujhe b kerne dainnaa😆



Wow Arhina ur parents have love marriage ! Great Yaar ,I agree with u'r point family ka raazi hona bhi zaroori hai ,hope u get ur Ashish very soon.😉

As for the one LM that failed i would say it happens in AM as well .

Success and failure depends on the partner chosen and not the type of marriage done .
Sometimes even parents may falter to get a right partner.Its all luck and above all how much u are able to adjust and understand u'r partner 😊.

Love Marriage or Arranged... both have risks involved .Its all on ingredient and durability of material used in the Laddo that makes it tasty or stale .😉

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