Puner Vivah 08/14/2012 with eva

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hello Everyone..
How are you all. Miss you peple. I am coming after a long time... was extremely busy at home and at work. lots of happening at the same time and just had no time to spare at all...
So today after watching the episode at 10.30 pm in US, I had to take little time on the conclusion of shocking end of the mumbai trip.
Well all the things were going too smoothly. All the things were happening too soon and too immaurely,
What I mean to say is that Gayatri's insistance was putting lot of pressure on Aarti and she did not have enough time to change the thinking pattern of Yash.
What she could do was put him on the spot and make him do the work or act as she thought to pull him out of the Arpita mode.
Now between the songs and masti and coming back to mumbai what happened must have enraged Yash to the point of no return.
First I thought he is kidding and making fun of his mom by being grumpy but when he pushed aarti so violently we know something really went wrong..
I think the dance and masti were genuine. Also when he thanked Aarti and told her that he will not be gloomy any more and will be normal and have fun. that was all genuine..
So what went wrong within those few hours time for Yash to act so violently???
Did he read the diary?? But I do not think he would be tthis violent by the confession of Aarti or by knowing that Aarti and his mom was in with all this changing process
Did he overhear the conversation of Aarti with mom... no that time he was playing with the kids when Aarti looked back..
So what in the world went wrong to make him act like this?
and also I do not understand... Yash Schindhia is born and brought up in the family where tradition and respect and public behavior has too much important so how come he acted so violently and pushed his wife so hard that she almost crashed in the door post and that also in front of the whole family... Now that behavior is not the behavior of a gentleman.
I love the character of Yash but sorry people I in no way approve this behavior of Yash. This is literally call domestic violence. And in anger he acts like this he is even dangerous to his own children.
How much angry you are... you do not push your wife such a way.. that is a big no no... and this is the second time Yash Schindhia has pushed Aarti so violently.. That time I also said that Yash Schindhia is sick and needs medical attention. 1st time it was in Palak's birthday party...
Anyways the reason for this behavior is the guilty consicious of Yash. As when with Aarti the Arpita Ghost is fading from his memories and that has made him angry at him and angry at Aarti as she is the root cause of that fading memories...
I also think that the way they have given too much focus on the name of Arpita and all went down at Palak's birthday as at last Yash had to screamed and tell that she is not Arpita she is Aarti and no one should forget that and from that moment on Aarti got her name back and all started calling her Aarti.
I think this time Gayatri was putting too much pressure on Aarti and wanted her to change Yash completely and that thought is unnatural and immature... So Aarti tries all she could to make Yash do many things and forces him to participate in normal activities instead of brooding about the ghost Arpita..
Or I think Aarti may have tried to pull down the picture of Arpita???? I am sure Aarti would dare to do that but looking at the violent reaction of Yash it could be possible.
Or Yash got attracted looking at Aarti and then the Ghostly memories pricked his concsious and lo he just exploded..
So now tomorrow we see the explanation and as Gayatri was hoping too much all went down to drain.
I think if Aarti walks out with children then Yash may realized how important Aarti has become in his life and he misses her lively presece and sunny laughter...
what do you think????
love to all Eva
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Eva fantastic analysis and i agree with it...

As you said arpita memories are fading away from him...He is a person of more sensible,matured , lovable and full time masti person...He completly attached and falled to aarthi which whether he acceps or not...that is the truth...I dont think so he is playing...whats the need of it...that too pushing his wife and with diya...But surely this time he can never live a day without aarthi or without having conversation with her...we can take it positive and in negative sense too...Positive is fading away arpita image and slowly yash is coming out to be a perfect husband to aarthi...

Negative is he is too possessive and adamant and he is mainly angry aarthi played with his feelings..It is not prank...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Welcome back Eva after a long time! great analysis!

I agree with you 100%. I too love the character of Yash but do not agree with his behavior. He needs help big time. Aarti needs to stand up for herself now. And Gayatri, what makes her think that what they were not able to do in 3 years, Aarti will in few days. The family never helped Yash after Arpita's loss. Just too many expectations on Aarti.

What bothers me the most that if Aarti succeeds in bringing Yash back, then she is a true wife, and a good daughter-in-law. if not then...double standards. The family never supported Aarti form day one, but now too many expectations...just do not understand!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Welcome back eva!!
Missed u🤗!
I'm having headache b/c of the precap.Not finding any logic behind yash's behavior.I have read in FB that someone was saying that it is prank😕.If its a prank,It is the worst prank.
If it is reality no matter how angry is yash from aarti.He should not push her!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wow Eva, you're back and with a bang of an analysis 👏 been quite a while since i've seen any of your post that i was wondering if you have been deleted too 😆 anyway, really happy to see tour post..
What else can i say that haven't been said yet? I love the part where you stated about Yash's good and privileged upbringing and it is really confusing that he who have all the security in life is the one acting like he's about to lost everything and here's Aarti who is the contrast of him and is riding life like devil may care. I thought by now, the relationship between them is kind of "somewhere in between", only to see Yash display that revolting shove again .. They're not strangers with each other that he should snap w/o tolerance to whatever Aarti did that caused his anger. Shout at her, yes, but not the physical hurting. If he couldn't stand Aarti, i'm sure there's enough room in the house...
I'm debating with myself over the precap as to what could have happened that we didn't get to see again😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well 5 days time is enough to change the whole scenario...
Yash was happy while dancing...He was genuine..and he had no complaints from aarti...But these 5 days mystery is playing important role here...according to me all the reasons which you have mentioned is not the reason of his behavior...there is something else. I am eagerly waiting for tonight's episode.
as far as his behavior is concerned..He pushed Aarti...when i saw the precap, what i saw is that Yash just slightly pushed aarti..and aarti just flew away...I didn't get that scene...but let me not state it here because may be it is just a camera flaw..
I can't judge a person on this thing..the things a person do in anger are obviously wrong. that's why we call it anger..otherwise everything will be perfect in this world..It is an important human emotion. Every one has his/her own let outs of this anger..Some just shout, some just cry, some hurt themselves. Everyone has their own way...Whatever yash did, i will not say it domestic violence.. Yash pushed aarti only when she touched her...If you will just prick someone in anger then he/she would choose that let out way..
Yash is not a person who should be tried to deal with when he is angry and Aarti knows it very well..
Yash is a human being enough to control his anger...otherwise in real life, people do outrageous stuff in anger... whether it is a man or woman...
Domestic violence is deliberate physical harm on someone...which is an example of physical superiority...!!
I don't judge people on their gender... its not about husband and wife..
Just imagine, Instead of Aarti, if pratik would have tried to dig him and touch him, and Yash behaves in same way..would it still be domestic violence?????
We ourselves make women a weaker gender...
I am not in favor of pushing Aarti.. but what I am saying is, in anger these thing are normal..
and I am saying it confidently...because I know it and I experience it.. Being a girl. my anger level is different from all others in my surroundings...but luckily my family knows about it and they don't complain about it... every time after coming out of anger, I feel guilty of my behavior and I try to not to repeat the same but you know what... every time I end up repeating it..That's why it is called anger...
By saying that it is not acceptable, would it make a difference????? Not actually...

Edited by danceismyworld - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think we have had enough of Yash and his Devdas attitude. If he wanted to live in Arpita land he should have become a sadhu sanyasi, left the world and gone to Himalayas, It's high time they stop treating him with kid gloves and worry what will irritate him and when he will explode. All his good qualities and gestures lose the credibility with one idiotic outburst and he has had several (maybe nor all violent but verbal is still hurtful) Someone should give him a reality dose with some extreme options. Life is give and take and it's not always a my way or a high way. Aarti has been more than nice enough to live in Arpita's shadow in Arpita's shrine, with initial in-laws nautanki, step children tantrums, Boa's poison and trying to please a confused and unpredictable child-hubby

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