jagya again :(

I was waiting soo much for todays episode that i will get to see ANSH and all i got were boring scenes from past. I understand anandi is anxious about everything going on in her life and hence she was not shown happy or a bit smiling. But its been like 7 years almost that jagya stopped being her good husband. (min of 4 to 5 years MBBS, 2 yrs MS Plus married life). She saw very different shades and degrading character of him. How he was there at her mom's funeral and the reason. I am not able to understand what it will take for her to just stop thinking about him and rather about other things happening fast in her life.

If she is still thinking about that scumbag at the time when her new inlaws are there to talk marriage. When should we except her to understand Shiv. I don't think she will be in love or at least like and start looking at Shiv as her life partner any soon. Think the CV's are trying hard so that we dont enjoy there marriage. If i find anandi like a machine sitting in the marriage with the type of face she has today then i dont think she deserves Shiv.

I was just waiting for this episode since the PROMO of his parents was shown but now i am VERY VERY FRUSTRATED and DISAPPOINTED :(. They just RUINED the moment for me with those unnecessary scenes. I would have liked if they showed few scenes where she tried to adjust when she came to haveli and how they are all her family and thinking she will leave them or something like that bothering her and that she is scared of relationship.

I want to write a lot more and let out my frustration.
Lastly for CV's If not romantic scenes and be just those we are getting for ANSH (Like cow shed). But please dont spoil them with stupid jagya scenes in between.

What say?

did you notice jagya was also sad with gauri compared to her flashbacks? As to remembering...i think it is sort of natural to remember a previous memory (unless supressed) when one gets in a similar situation. Doesn't mean that the past memory means a lot now...just has had an impact to be remembered when put in the same situation/surroundings.

May be what you said is true but they portrayed it as though she is sad that jagya was not there with her. Jagya moved on and even though he remembers her, he is not stopping from living his life. I think she has to move on and just keep them as sweet memories of her past and not as those that disturb her future. May be my thinking is wrong. But I think the way she always thinks of others before her. Even in jagya case. She should think a little about Shiv to and give it a try and understand him. He is the only one who supported her because of who and what she is and not because she is family. I just wish she moves on and try to take a step forward. I don't mind her remembering the past but i want her to get past those instead of being stuck there for soo long.

I agree, I thought Jagya's behavior at the funeral was the last straw for Anandi, but there she goes again thinking fondly of him. Her behavior towards Shiv is very cold. She is being passive aggressive, she is probably being stubborn since she is being forced into this marriage. Since she cannot say anything to Dadisa, she is taking it out on Shiv in her own way. I think she thinks that now her life is over, it was evident from he music when Choti Maa was making her wear jewelry, it was as if Anandi has to finally face the fact that she is getting remarried and that her life is over. But yes I didn't like the FB about Jagya, she really is holding onto him too much.

So true, Even i felt tht after that jadoo thona scene. I think Jagya every time when realizes gauri's mistakes yell at her like a man with brain and the next moment becomes her puppy. The same way anandi just keeps hanging on or going back to those moments even after seeing jagya stoop so low (Property dhamka, Jail, mom funeral).

They should show that she is scared of new relationships as she is scared history will repeat and not because she is hanging on to those moments. They are making her look so vulnerable when it comes to jagya and not a strong women they potray her as.


Also i think in this four months jagya has to come back to get back with her and she has to realize that he is not where her happiness is and let go. May be then it will help clear her mind on what next in her life after jagya. And if she doesn't even try on her relation ship with shiv and takes him for granted then I DON'T WISH FOR THIS MARRIAGE TO HAPPEN. Just because she suffered doesn't mean SHIV has to.

Sorry for any mistakes i am still mad with this episode and can't stop.