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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: ruffledfeathers

I disagree - for the following reasons:

1. As someone who was brought in to tutor La about rituals, Khushi did not know the importance of pheras before?

2. Such a morally upright girl had and still has no problems enjoying other forms of physical proximity (hugging, holding hands, sharing bed space, etc?). The truth is, both Khushi and Arnav have accepted one another as husband and wife, full stop.

3. If rituals are incomplete according to her, then there is a whole host of them, na? They didn't have a priest, no vidaai, etc etc - where will this stop? Once two hearts have become one, what do rituals matter? And where the hearts are separate, what can all the rituals in the world do?

In my opinion, pheras have been brought into the story in such a poorly written way, that it is actually not gelling with the characters - but I am sure Star Plus will have given its diktats to the Production House for full and complete wedding rituals stretching over the next two months...

Thx for your points and I will try and give an explanation:

1. Khushi taught La about the rituals you do for Gods, prayers and how to be at the in-laws house. Khushi wouldn't even have known about the pheras as she is too young to marry and didn't know the significance of them. I personally knew about the pheras but didn't know until my own wedding what they represent and how important they are.

2. I see this differently that you. She feels that they are a couple hence the reason she holds hands, sharing hugs. About the sharing the same bed - I don't see anything wrong in that. It is a king size bed and they both sleep comfortably so why not. Just because a man and a woman sleep on the same bed doesn't necessarily mean they are intimate with each other.

3. Khushi did mention that they have to have the priest and complete the rituals the right way. As I said in my other post - rituals and pheras and the way people get married is down to the individual involved. Just because you do the pheras doesn't mean that the marriage will succeed or if you don't do the pheras that it wouldn't succeed. Every single marriage is made in heaven and they way they get married has nothing to. In Hinduism people believe that by doing the pheras the newly wedded couple has the blessings of Gods and this will provide them with a good foundation to build their relationship on.

But I do agree with you about the fact that this re-marriage seems a bit rushed by the production house. They could have slowly and subtly put the track into without going head on.

Edited by uktamil - 12 years ago