why not appreciate the small steps?

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sur91

@sur91

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Posted: 13 years ago

Disclaimer: i am neither an arnav lover nor a barun lover. this post is purely my point of view and is not aimed to bash or criticize anyone.

Today's episode got mixed reactions(like always). Some loved it and some though arnav acted like a desperate jerk who has absolutely no consideration for his wife's feelings and only thinks about getting laid.

so for the latter group I have a question:

wasn't thinking about taking pheras(however it was) a big step for a guy like ASR who never believed in any rituals?

if he wanted then he could have forcibly made love to his wife and im 100% sure no one would have been able to stop him.

wasn't talking about feelings a big step for a guy like him who always kept his emotions and feelings locked away in his heart, who thought feelings make a man weak?

Like others, yes I too didnt like the way he rushed everything and forced her but at the same time, these small steps towards a changed arnav didnt go unnoticed by me.

small steps make up a big journey and one should appreciate them to reach the end result.

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Shweta1691

@Shweta1691

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree

Arnav is taking baby steps and hopefully atleast khushi will appreciate it😃

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sur91

@sur91

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Shweta1691
I agree
Arnav is taking baby steps and hopefully atleast khushi will appreciate it😃

i know she will but im dissapointed in some members who want all or nothing

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sur91

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: UnderControl.
Agreeed~

Originally posted by: habiba2073
agreed

thanx

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vijji12

@vijji12

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Posted: 13 years ago

u put it very well i really appreciate u for this.

as u said everything was very rush today.i dont know when he yelled at her infront of family i really felt irritated with him. i felt he was not giving any chance to her to open up.he gave her the dress and demanded to change . yes there is nothing wrong to get close to u r wife but i felt he was in a real hurry to go for it.that is what irritated me most.may be director's fault in presenting the things.he does give her impartence hwen he took her for pheras but he is annoyed with her for that .why does he want everything in his way?like u said he is taking baby steps lets wait and see .

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sur91

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: vijji12
u put it very well i really appreciate u for this.

as u said everything was very rush today.i dont know when he yelled at her infront of family i really felt irritated with him. i felt he was not giving any chance to her to open up.he gave her the dress and demanded to change . yes there is nothing wrong to get close to u r wife but i felt he was in a real hurry to go for it.that is what irritated me most.may be director's fault in presenting the things.he does give her impartence hwen he took her for pheras but he is annoyed with her for that .why does he want everything in his way?like u said he is taking baby steps lets wait and see .

i agree with u and others as well when they say that he rushed things but saying that he forced himself upon her and that he is a womaniser is what infuriated me to make this post. He is changing and the change is clearly evident. i dont know why cant people appreciate the change in him

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Sharmilee Sinha

@sinhactnt

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am sure she does appreciate the baby steps -- otherwise she never would have gotten as close to him as she has.

However, he needs to prove that he respects her wishes. He has forced her into a marriage -- if she wants pheras, then the least he can do is go to the mandir and give her want she so dearly wants in her heart.

We know he loves her -- and she also knows that. However, now he needs to prove that he respects her as well.

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sur91

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sinhactnt
I am sure she does appreciate the baby steps -- otherwise she never would have gotten as close to him as she has.

However, he needs to prove that he respects her wishes. He has forced her into a marriage -- if she wants pheras, then the least he can do is go to the mandir and give her want she so dearly wants in her heart.

We know he loves her -- and she also knows that. However, now he needs to prove that he respects her as well.

yes i agree with u completely and im sure we are heading towards it(atleast i hope so)

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