Anandi: Better DIL than Daughter

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eshabasuthakur

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: sudha100
I agree...A woman must always keep in touch with mayka inspite of all the busy life and even in both happiness and sorrow...
What does a parent expect more than this?
But none of the above happened...during her sarpanch days, her award ceremony, her divorce...
She was their only child yaar...I know its CV's fault that they completely forgot anandis parents but a woman should never do like this...

Nice to see someone who appreciates the value of mayka, especially to an only daughter. I always feel that our society has made this mistake of telling women that their sasuraal has to be their entire world after marriage. Both are important. Just because one has a loving sasuraal doesn't mean one forgets one's mayka. If anything that makes integrating the two families easier!

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eshabasuthakur

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: mahi12
For your first point why Anandi didn't go with Bhago at that time...she just couldn't leave singhs DS had an heart attack remember when she tried to leave first ...she couldn't give more pain to her second and most important one we should understand is that she didn't want her parents to face humilation and problems in village what will they say in their village our daughter is left by her husband and he married someone else and her sasural kicked her out ..she would have been blamed for all and her parents would have faced so much insult ..at that time Anandi was no sarpanch of Jaitser no so famous of doing right works the blame would have been come on her failure ad wife and daughter in law ...if we see her villagers now came to know about whats happened in Anandi Jagaya's life

second of your point i agree ..cvs have written a very bad plot and the first person to be blamed for Bhago's death is Anandi herself ..a huge mess up with her character its just not acceptable at all ..their reasons to justify her too stupid not acceptable at all ...have proven her not a good daughter at all...i am not saying she should have sit in maika or brought her family at singh's house but she should have been giving visits to her parents time to time to give them support if she was going there then she shouldn't have been unaware of her mother's health or her mother would never have reached this condition if she kept in touch with them through phone again did she never talk to her mother and couldn't she guess from her father's lame excuses something is wrong ...why they needed to tell her the way Bhago left haveli in front of her completely broken and shattered she should have guessed it on her own so is she so dumb? no and more shocking was that picture of Anandi and shiv being happy and bhago's reaction man in her lifeless body came life i have seen Anandi happy after such a long time ..mmm Anandi was very happy when she became sarpanch ..veyr happy she got award from CM ..didn't she sent those pictures to her parents ...its pretty stupid to think mother is dying to see her daughter happy and daughter is dancing on stage happily ...😕and that death sequence of Bhago Anandi going out of house bhago running behind her and fell down and died ...😕what kind of stupid scene was that arecvs actually holding Anandi responsible for her mother's death😕whatever reasona=s or problems cvs had they should have written at least some sensible track not let viewers point fingers on anandi like this ,...what lesson one can learn from Anandi here ?😕

Really good point about the effect of her work and power. It's interesting how the villagers easily accepted it must be Jagya's fault, when usually women are the first to the blamed in villages. And that's probably because of the power Anandi has now. They wouldn't have been so supportive earlier.

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Bvfan123

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Posted: 13 years ago

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The reason for Bhago's death is oly Bhago and no one else. She has always been extremely empotional and impulsive. Agreed this was the worst situation ever, but her character was always shown crying and sobbing even before on petty things.

Even Gehna was in a bad situation (worse coz she was married to a buddha at such young age), but I never saw her getting so out of control in her emotions. Even when Gehna left haveli she was almost calm and composed. Thats how a mother of 3 daughters should be.

Anandi's decision to stay back in haveli was right from financial, logistics as well as emotional reasons. If you have lived in Delhi for last 10 yrs you just dont go back to Mumbai all of a sudden. Bhago should have understood this. she should have been happy that her sasra supports her financially and emotionally. Bhago had a 1 cu cm brain that never thought about Anandi's education and career. All she thoutght about was marraige and Jagya. She should understand "what's next" and how best to support her daughter in this time rather than dragging her in the wrong direction.

She should have lived with strong will, believed ina good future for Anandi and should have supported and encouraged Anandi to forget past and look towards the future.

She on the other hand gave up and became a sobbing queen. That's not a strong mother. A strong mother should think of her child and say "Get up, forget the past, move on, Life is a challenge and I am with you whatever happens"

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