One good reason that Justifies Dadi's INDIFFERENCE

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@rickks

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

to KHUSHI...

Okay Dadi is highly upset with Khushi, why only she knows. Though her actions and words are highly annoying, we cannot over look the fact that the reason is deep rooted. She cannot stand Khushi, would not look at her, would not let her talk, enter her room...Inshort its like Khushi is a grahan on the Raizada's...Like a Manhoos...Like an Untouchable...Well atleast that's how its being projected...

So what could possibly be the reason behind it...Even after being told that Khushi was the eldest bahu, Arnav's wife she does not get the respect she deserves forget love and affection.

Lets discuss this here...Please do give in your reasons, your justifications, your analysis etc here...We can make this a discussion Post and i am sure we all can pitch some really interesting diverse ideas...

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IamSwapnali

@IamSwapnali

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ok, here is my take. Basically Dadi is doing what the CVs have planned for her to do!

We all were waiting for the great, never-seen-on-television-kind of redemption track. For whatever reason the CVs do not want to show Arnav feeling guilty or saying 'sorry' to Khushi. Somehow they forgot to make Arnav stand for his wife during Shyam's exposure also. (Maybe Barun was not available for the shoot for a day, but it had continued for three days actually. Maybe Aabhas did not want to give another male co-actor a chance to say a dialogue, or maybe they wanted to show Anjali's jealousy be keeping a loop open, but that track did not work.)

Now Dadi's indifference towards Khushi pisses him off. Every time Dadi says/ does something bad to Khushi, ASR stands up for his wife, and Khushi is so overwhelmed with his actions taht she continues to stare at her husband teary-eyed for as long as Sanaya is able to do so without blinking. Anyway, coming to the point, saying 'sorry' is cliched compared to saying 'So what?' or 'Khushi meri patni hai... blah blah blah..'.

The more Dadi tortures Khushi, the better for Saas-bahu drama audience. Whatever Dadi says to Khushi ASR will come out of nowhere to defend his wife, it will make us - the ASR-droolers happy. Because even if the rest of the family is present, they won't open their mouths to utter a single word to support Khushi. So all I can think of is Dadi is there so that ASR does not have to say the 'S' word. All in all, to keep everyone still in his/ her character, they had to bring in something like this.

Edited by ILoveHussain - 13 years ago

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@Crazy_1001

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Posted: 13 years ago

Dadi's jealous of Khushi one of many reasons:

1. She wishes she could wear those Anarkali dresses, instead of those saris.

2. She wanted Arnav to get married to her brothers wifes sisters husband;s daughter. But he married Khushi instead.

3. Wants to look like Khushi. :]

😆

I know this was meant to be a serious post but I couldnt help myself.

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@rickks

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Crazy_1001
Dadi's jealous of Khushi one of many reasons:

1. She wishes she could wear those Anarkali dresses, instead of those saris.

2. She wanted Arnav to get married to her brothers wifes sisters husband;s daughter. But he married Khushi instead.

3. Wants to look like Khushi. :]

😆
I know this was meant to be a serious post but I couldnt help myself.

No Problem😆

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GodhuliLogon

@GodhuliLogon

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Posted: 13 years ago

one speculation from my part:

Khushi resembles her mom a lot.. so she reminds her of that woh aurat.. so first time when she saw her she felt disgusted..
and obviously khushi's mom is kind of related with the past.
this is the only plausible reason behind this unjustified behavior all of a sudden.

another view:
Another thing could be she first thought her as servant, that time she actually treated her as servant.. so later when she had two surprizes one the marriage of her grandson and this khushi as bahu.. so may be after that she began to hate her ..

I support the first speculation..
CVs could come with a brand new reason though...

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Crazy4IPK

@Crazy4IPK

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Posted: 13 years ago

I really don't see any valid reason behind this meanness.I don't think she is indifferent to Khushi, but she is very mean, vindictive,racist,envious and of course very much unjustified to Khushi.

There could be two reason behind this hate. It's completely my assumption.

First I think Shyam, may be Anjali also is involved here. Recently we are seeing lots pf suspicious activities of Anjali. May be Shyam went to Dadi and portrayed Khushi as an evil woman. Dadi might talk to Anjali for the assurance.We know in what extent she loves Anjali. So obviously she took her word for granted.They might show her Khushi's photograph also. May be that's why she addressed Khushi as a servant at the very first meeting. No sensible person can call a gorgeous girl like Khushi servant. Her constant quarry about Shyam and unreasonable demand to get him back proves it too.

Another reason could be ,Dadi already knows about Khushis past. she may know Khushi's mom was the other woman in Arnav's dad's life. May be that's why she was strongly mentioned about that woman. She may reveal it later.

ok, that's my opinion, so does it make sense?

Edited by sohara - 13 years ago

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shanta

@shali

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Posted: 13 years ago

Viji...me thinks dadi ears gave already been filled by Shyamji... it was very clear in today's epi ...pay attention to dadi's words...

plus the past is is adding up to her dislike for khushi...and this might have to do with her status...form servant to bahu off the house...I doubt that dadi is aware who Khushi is..and her connection to the past...at this moment I dont mind her being such a old hack...

oohhh you should try to make on the weakest link "Anjali"...her character is bugging me more the dadi...cause she might not realize it...but she backstabbing her own blood...creating a big gap between herself and arnav...and we should discus her...

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Crazy4IPK

@Crazy4IPK

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Crazy_1001
Dadi's jealous of Khushi one of many reasons:

1. She wishes she could wear those Anarkali dresses, instead of those saris.

2. She wanted Arnav to get married to her brothers wifes sisters husband;s daughter. But he married Khushi instead.

3. Wants to look like Khushi. :]

😆
I know this was meant to be a serious post but I couldnt help myself.

She may jealous of khushi, coz Khushi is so beautiful!😆

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Swetal

@Arshi2gthr4evr

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ILoveHussain
Ok, here is my take. Basically Dadi is doing what the CVs have planned for her to do!

We all were waiting for the great, never-seen-on-television-kind of redemption track. For whatever reason the CVs do not want to show Arnav feeling guilty or saying 'sorry' to Khushi. Somehow they forgot to make Arnav stand for his wife during Shyam's exposure also. (Maybe Barun was not available for the shoot for a day, but it had continued for three days actually. Maybe Aabhas did not want to give another male co-actor a chance to say a dialogue, or maybe they wanted to show Anjali's jealousy be keeping a loop open, but that track did not work.)

Now Dadi's indifference towards Khushi pisses him off. Every time Dadi says/ does something bad to Khushi, ASR stands up for his wife, and Khushi is so overwhelmed with his actions taht she continues to stare at her husband teary-eyed for as long as Sanaya is able to do so without blinking. Anyway, coming to the point, saying 'sorry' is cliched compared to saying 'So what?' or 'Khushi meri patni hai... blah blah blah..'.

The more Dadi tortures Khushi, the better for Saas-bahu drama audience. Whatever Dadi says to Khushi ASR will come out of nowhere to defend his wife, it will make us - the ASR-droolers happy. Because even if the rest of the family is present, they won't open their mouths to utter a single word to support Khushi. So all I can think of is Dadi is there so that ASR does not have to say the 'S' word. All in all, to keep everyone still in his/ her character, they had to bring in something like this.

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU😊

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chatterbug

@chatterbug

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Posted: 13 years ago

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based on what dadi told ASR today I feel she knows about khushi involvement with shyam being kicked out !

Otherwise why would she say "why punish the innocent ( she means shyam) and not the culprit(she meant khushi)" ! this means according to her there is someone else that ASR supports when he threw shyam out !

so I think she hates khushi for this reason ! So I feel khushi case will come out in the open again next week and hopefully ASR will clear it with dadi ! Followed by marriage and SR 😍

You see I am sooo disparate to go back to my SKD 😳

I am just guessing 😆