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Posted: 13 years ago
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I come to this forum just to check out what is going on with the show as I honestly do not have patience nor time for the utter garbage since February...All the supporting actors have been wasted the could have shown Akash and Payal in a positive light, shown how newly weds even though they married out of love have a tough time adjusting to each other, discovering each other's weaknesses, their strengths and coming out stronger...

I know this statement may upset the staunch followers of this show, but I wonder if the writers of this show really respect women?what kind of sick mentality is this?Are they surrounded by people who treat women in such a degrading way? there has to be a limit to the rubbish being churned out... The main character is nothing but a doormat, a lair and brainless idiot, Mami is a disrespectful and obnoxious moron, Anjali is shown as a dependent manipulative cry baby, Payal the lesser said the better, she is basically used as a prop on the show with no dialogues nor sensible screen time...Nani favours her grandchild over her bahu...no fairness whatsoever...


Is this really the NAYI SOCH? even for a fictional drama it is just too much of negativity towards women...which woman out there would like to see another female, being humiliated in this way...for those who think its gonna get better, I have been reading that it will get better since their marriage, but it seems Its getting way better than we can ever imagine...way better in showing that the women can be manhandled and treated like trash and the audience will keep praising the creators for showing such excellent track...

Before any of you says, turn off the TV or change the channel, I have done that already, but like many of you, I really had liked the show initially and had hopes of it recovering, but the way the writers are hell bent on portraying the women on this show, there are no hopes left RIP IPKKND..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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it seems u watch only ipkknd coz in every serial u get to see these things.People like dadi character still exist in this world and there are many in india . U like it or not ,u want to believe or not,they exist. Satyamev jayate was one such reality show where these things were shown & it was in India itself.The show is not spreading negativity but showing u different shade of some characters.u want to enjoy it or condemn it that is your choice.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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its Gul Khan u cant really help it
wonder from where does she get such blizarre ideas from

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: innocentgreen

it seems u watch only ipkknd coz in every serial u get to see these things.People like dadi character still exist in this world and there are many in india . U like it or not ,u want to believe or not,they exist. Satyamev jayate was one such reality show where these things were shown & it was in India itself.The show is not spreading negativity but showing u different shade of some characters.u want to enjoy it or condemn it that is your choice.


So you are saying that there is no difference in this show and the rest of the shows out there, right!!! I am very well aware of the ills that prevail in our society,but instead of just showing that they exist, why cant they show the solutions too...Wouldn't that have made it a different kind of show...why do we only highlight the problems and do not address the solutions, wouldn't giving a positive message in the track be incorporated...I know next you will say it is not their responsibility, they are just entertaining us, is this quality entertainment?? Tell me why can't a show be entertaining as well as informative...and I honestly believe that it would be far more successful and draw all those veiwers who have stopped watching it...But then again its my view and I am entitled to my opinion just as you are to yours, but thanks for commenting..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harshitha

its Gul Khan u cant really help it

wonder from where does she get such blizarre ideas from


Seriously she needs a psychiatric eval...Does she really believe in the shit as entertainment?Anyways, I spent my time reading too many threads on this forum today, and missed updating my take on the show...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do agree partially with you, respecting women Huh! whats that. sick of it
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Posted: 13 years ago
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To think this show is produced by a woman. Gul Khan is quite a disgrace to women if she's allowing this to happen on her own show. I felt sick watching today's episode. I'd be embarrassed to admit to my friends in NY that I watch this show in the 21st century. Forget feminism. It showed Indians in a bad light...bringing up the servant/untouchable stuff...how much more regressive can you get...its downright pathetic.

Its NOT fun watching Khushi getting humiliated for a whole episode...it happened many times in the past with ASR, a month ago with Shyam and today with Dadi. I've never enjoyed such scenes. Especially when I know the CVs won't write in a scene where Khushi gives it back to them. When will she get some damn respect? She needs to have another Guest House moment...she deserves to lash out and put everyone in their place for a change...that hasn't happened in almost a year!

I'd be far more excited if the precap showed Khushi opening her damn mouth and telling Dadi to take a hike. She is the "bahu" of this house, she has the first right on her husband and this is HIS house...she can kick everyone out if she wants to. This includes Anjali, who is the most shameless freeloader I've ever seen. She won't give up the mansion for her husband but she will find a way to manipulate and bring him back. She's a despicable woman.

Watching Khushi tolerate all this nonsense just makes me more disgusted...how can she take Mami and Dadi's taunts without even attempting to defend herself? The old Khushi would never put up with crap from anyone...she stood up to the mighty ASR, so who is this old hag to scare her? The only saving grace of Shyam coming back to the house is that maybe Khushi will finally say she can't take it anymore and walk out of the house. That's when I will respect her again. Not if she keeps putting up with this humiliation silently. She was never a doormat before, please don't ruin her any further.

I think Gul just can't see females being shown as strong and assertive individuals. It shows how regressive her way of thinking is. It has to be all about the male stepping in and saving the female, as Arnav will do tomorrow. That's lovely (and predictable) but for a change, would it hurt to show Khushi win this battle on her own? For them, it would. I won't even bother giving constructive criticism anymore. Today was the limit. Let them show what they want. TRPs will tell the real story and slap them back to reality. Bas.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ipk is not a moral show. The lead show on SP is full of it, but i agree to u in some extent.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mistakewa

I come to this forum just to check out what is going on with the show as I honestly do not have patience nor time for the utter garbage since February...All the supporting actors have been wasted the could have shown Akash and Payal in a positive light, shown how newly weds even though they married out of love have a tough time adjusting to each other, discovering each other's weaknesses, their strengths and coming out stronger...


I know this statement may upset the staunch followers of this show, but I wonder if the writers of this show really respect women?what kind of sick mentality is this?Are they surrounded by people who treat women in such a degrading way? there has to be a limit to the rubbish being churned out... The main character is nothing but a doormat, a lair and brainless idiot, Mami is a disrespectful and obnoxious moron, Anjali is shown as a dependent manipulative cry baby, Payal the lesser said the better, she is basically used as a prop on the show with no dialogues nor sensible screen time...Nani favours her grandchild over her bahu...no fairness whatsoever...


Is this really the NAYI SOCH? even for a fictional drama it is just too much of negativity towards women...which woman out there would like to see another female, being humiliated in this way...for those who think its gonna get better, I have been reading that it will get better since their marriage, but it seems Its getting way better than we can ever imagine...way better in showing that the women can be manhandled and treated like trash and the audience will keep praising the creators for showing such excellent track...

Before any of you says, turn off the TV or change the channel, I have done that already, but like many of you, I really had liked the show initially and had hopes of it recovering, but the way the writers are hell bent on portraying the women on this show, there are no hopes left RIP IPKKND..

My question - who is this main character (in red) ??
You have taken all other names but not tha main characters name😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mistakewa


So you are saying that there is no difference in this show and the rest of the shows out there, right!!! I am very well aware of the ills that prevail in our society,but instead of just showing that they exist, why cant they show the solutions too...Wouldn't that have made it a different kind of show...why do we only highlight the problems and do not address the solutions, wouldn't giving a positive message in the track be incorporated...I know next you will say it is not their responsibility, they are just entertaining us, is this quality entertainment?? Tell me why can't a show be entertaining as well as informative...and I honestly believe that it would be far more successful and draw all those veiwers who have stopped watching it...But then again its my view and I am entitled to my opinion just as you are to yours, but thanks for commenting..
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i didnot say i enjoyed watching dadi scene in fact it affected me so much that i could not sleep. Because i have never come across a person who treats another person in such a way . I discussed this issue about the untouchables with my husband and he told me that dear, unfortunately there are still people in this world who behave like that.Personally i condemn this action. But i am trying to see how they deal with the new character.Thanks
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