Why should i be left behind? ;) - Page 5

Originally posted by: bebo.

sweety did i say ki did anytng wrong..??? I just gave my view

Originally posted by: moonlight08

The reasons as to why i don't want Chiki to be adopted -

simply because im not liking it.. enough said..😃

this is NOT the solution to the problem of child labour..😃 i know big leaps can be achieved only by small steps, but sincerely, this step is taken in the wrong direction.. i repeat - wrong DIRECTION and NOT INTENTION.. Having said that, Singhania's are indeed trying to do a very very noble deed.. i'd always appreciate them..😊

I comp agree with this point the adoption isnt the solution to child labour at all as many children are suffering from this matter but like you said there intention is 100% right but the direction cv are showing is wrong them only helping one child they could have opened a children home where all these child labour children can stay they can support them by offering them good education and appoint good carers who will take care of the children etc

this isn't the natural flow of the storyline.. Chiki coming home when Mama was making him work was okay.. i understand it.. anybody, and i really mean anybody would have done the same thing.. if not, im sorry to say - he's a heartless fellow..😃

but, what happened after that was NOT natural.. why? the reasons are below..😃

-the letter.. now can anyone explain me, how a 7 year old girl can write a letter of such high standard, if she hasn't gone to school for quite sometime? 'Bhagwan Ji, meri vinti suno' Vinti? like seriously?😕

-let's assume Chiki is an intelligent girl..😃 she knows those words and that letter was very genuinely written by her.. how on earth did Akshara's eyes land up on that letter?😕 she was standing on the door, wasn't she? pehli baat - there hasn't been a Mandir in the room.. 2ndly, even if it was present - in utter darkness, in front of the Diya, Akshara saw that letter? well, sorry - but this isn't digestible to me.. i toh cannot even see things which are right in front of my eyes and even in broad daylight, Mrs. Akshara Singhania saw that piece of paper in utter darkness? strange for me..😃

I was thinking the same how could chikki right a perfect letter then i assumed maybe the girl got basic education and her parents were alive then they died and she got to stay with her mama hence she had to work etc, now i will just say one thing about akshi she is a super girl she knows how to do everything i cant spot my phone in the darkness and end up tripping over things and the girl managed to spot a letter well done she has eyes like a hawk i want her eye sight 😆 i assume they just made the mandir for this particular epi i swear last tym chikki stayed in the room it wasnt there they just wanted akshi to spot the letter and read her thoughts i found it unlogical it didnt flow well for me 😕

the episode dated 31st July, 2012.

it was a very very meaningful episode for me..😃 loved the epi.. even more because it made me think.. it made me think with Chiki's and more importantly, Akshara's POV as well..😊 i was to write it's Hits and Misses but due to some reasons, i didn't.. but sincerely, that epi is worth mentioning here..😊

Character Analysis :

1. Akshara :

she's being over-emotional.. no qualms in accepting that.. the dialogue 'ye dil se sochne ki hi baat hai Naitik' was a little too hard to digest for me.. adoption dil se sochne ki baat hai?😕 i don't think so.. especially after what Naitik said in his defence.. that it really isn't about money.. it's about everything else that would come supplementary to this adoption.. Akshara is shown to be a little rigid here, or i should say she WAS being a little rigid there, considering the fact that the epi has already come and gone..😊

well from beg we have seen akshi is a super emotional girl so i didnt find her behaviour wrong at the beg when she thought to adopt chikki then when natik explained to her it isnt write and the pro and cons associated with this and its a matter that needs to be thought practically then when akshi said the dilouge i too coudnt understand her behaviour at that point, i understand she is a super emotional person but thinking about adoption such a big matter from your heart and not your brain isnt really advisable now

for her, it's not about adoption.. or being sensitive towards child labours.. it's just about her bias and attachment towards Chiki.. if she had thought about these child labours on the whole, she'd have, atleast for once said - Chiki aur uske jaise kitne bacche honge.. okay let us not go that far..

now thats the fact that i am not being able to digest right from the beginning akshi has seen chikki friends also selling toys but she didnt feel bad for them at all she just felt bad for chikki because of her emotional attachment towards the child, and her being forced to work by her mama did once akshi give a thought why those other children are working what there circumstances are yes she cant help them all i wasnt expecting that but some thought and matter into the subject would been great

ek baar ye hi bola hota - Chiki aur uske dost.. Chiki ke dosto se toh she had talked na?😊

i have an answer to what she said to Naitik in yesterday's epi.. when Naitik said he promises to give Chiki best of education and Akshara asked him, pyaar kaha se denge? well - kya pyaar sirf ghar pe reh kar hi diya jata hai?😕 that means those who live separately are not loved? i don't think so..😊

she should look at the things more practically.. such heavy decisions cannot be taken from heart..😊 if she cannot make a decision to keep Chiki away, she should ask family members to take a decision.. there's no need to get involved in it..😊 she should trust her family members and more importantly, her husband enough that he'l make out the best in this whole situation..😊

moreover, if she really feels adoption is the only option, she should have shown the letter to Naitik.. she did not and obviously, Naitik is not an antaryaami to sense it..

having said all this, i maintain it's not Akshara's fault.. when a person thinks with heart, he forgets all the practicality.. i understand that.. it was CVs fault.. they didn't give her enough dialogues through which we could justify her..

agree with u i wanted to see akshara's thoughts more but the cv didnt even show that her actions confused me more yes she wants the best for the kid but even if chikki stays away from them in a child home or gets fostered she still can get there love they can visit her or phone her.

Naitik : i just loved him..😃 even in yesterday's epi, and day before yesterday's epi toh he was a gem..😃

whatever he had said to Akshara, the dialogues were bang on..😃

i know, he shouldn't have told Gayatri about what Akshara said to him.. but i think it was a flash of a moment and more than that, just a gimmick to show G3 angry with Akshara..

another lapse, and drag on CVs part.. otherwise, kya Akshara Naitik ka tiffin le kar office nahi jaa sakti thi?😡🤣

when Naitik imagined Chiki in that child labour, i could see he actually felt for those poor kids, unlike Akshara..😃

i loved natik too his dilouges were spot on yes just to show g3 angry with akshi they had to show him forget the tiffian and g3 going to deliver it 😆 yes he was wrong telling g3 knowing really well how she feels towards chikki but again he was sharing his feelings with his mom nothing wrong in that even though how stupid g3 behaves at tyms, the car scene was again spot on natik helpness, seeing the children imagaining chikki too the way he emoted his emotions were fab after long tym we got to see great acting by him 👏👏

Gayatri : the ever-witch.😃 how much im with her that even i don't want Chiki to be adopted.. how she is behaving is TOTALLY unacceptable.. no amount of defence can justify her behaviour, as of now..

i disagree with this point yes i dont want chikki to be adopted either g3 is being selfish she just dosnt want duggu attention to get divided she thinks akshi wont manage both the kids and not pay attention to duggu which hasnt happened while chikki stayed, again adoption wont be the solution g3 will always indirectly taunt chikki she wont be able to love her i feel

great post kammu 👏👏 now i am going in hurry will come with my views for ur rest points

Originally posted by: yrkkhfan4ever

I m not agree with all you have written about Akshara...

You have not watched that letter that chikki wrote so that Chikk's want to stay with them not with maam because he dont love her.
Thats why Akshara came to know that Chikki can remain happy with them only...