Originally posted by: LadyLaLa
<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3">Nice topic RockerChick.. Neither is there a need to apologise nor post disclaimers to air one's views on this forum.. ..we are all sensible people who could agree to disagree or disagree to agree...😆
A divorce cannot take place when there is no marriage... their marriage was not solemnised the way normal marriages are... Is this marriage for real? where are the witnesses or where is the marriage certificate?
This is how I see it.. They were both bound by the terms of a contract which they signed in February.. sure Khushi had feelings for ASR before the marriage and continues to do so... ASR too had developed feelings for Khushi but, the fateful night put everything asunder.. this proved that ASR neither trusted nor had faith in Khushi...
Khushi had always wanted her prince charming to come asking for her hand.. she had imagined that her marriage will be one of love... all her dreams came dashing to the ground with this contract...
While living under the pretext of a marriage with Khushi, we saw ASR having feelings for her but were they feelings of love...? ..He confessed his love for Khushi when he was kidnapped.. was that an honest confession or was it a signal for Khushi to let her know he was in trouble? If you remember he kept asking Khushi how she knew he was in trouble... It was not very clear if that was an honest confession. sure he behaved like a doting husband on his return but the last few episodes did not show us a doting husband trying to woo his wife but what we saw was the Businessman ASR in action...
he did not miss the opportunity to tell her Aranav Singh Raizada is never wrong.. I wanted to correct him right there by telling him that he made many blunders if he would care to reminisce the past... Now who's the one with the ego?
Yes we are told that he truly loves her.. is it so? if so, why did he not love her before the kidnap track? Were his actions that of a man in love with his wife? Why did his heart not break to see her sleeping out in the cold or when he hurled those harsh words at her.. why did he not suffocate to see her being abused by their families or when he treated her callously?
You do mention here that he is trying to keep their marriage in tact ... did he try doing so before the exposure of Shyam ? This is a recent development... rather than making him apologise for his crimes the writers are making him appear like the victim, while all along it has been Khushi who has been victimised... wasn't it Khushi who was trying to keep her marriage in tact? How long can she live with the pretext?
He did not spare her even after Shaym was thrown out... he was the first to blame her and tell her that he wished they had never met.. Now, does that sound like a person who is trying desperately to keep his marriage in tact ?.. they may be words spoken during the heat of the moment but out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh
If he is trying to make amends, why can't he be forthright with her? Why play these silly games...? He knows how much the institution of marriage means to Khushi...till today, he has not uttered one word to assure Khushi that he will legalise their status.. that this marriage is for keeps and he will fix it.. his actions are more like that of an egoistic husband who wants his wife to return home at any cost... they don't show his love..
Talking of divorces, I too have read somewhere </font><font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3">that When two people decide to get a divorce, it
isn't a sign that they "don't understand" one another, but a sign that
they have, at last, begun to.</font> 😆
<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3">I truly believe that reconciliation begins with an apology...</font>
😆 I thougt better to disclaim than be judged.
Right, fair points LadyLaLa. It is rather difficult to defend this man isn't it? He has everything against him.
ASR has always been the kind of man to dwell less on his past. If he did he would be where he is. His r'ship with Khushi has always been on the peculiar side.
For me this marriage is more real than the one the actual remarriage that they are going to have. Arnav and Khushi got engaged in front of Devi Maiya and they got married in front of her as well. Both Khushi and Arnav along the 6 months have accepted in their hear of hearts that they are pati-patni. What is marriage but knotting a knot? It is from the heart when man and woman unite and feel as one, it is but a gesture of their utmost love for one another. In this regard their marriage can't get more real.
Leave alone the phone ILY, for me Arnav and Khushi don't need words. The ILY was merely a statement which he made because he was at the brink of death. Just a physical memory. I never saw it as more than that.
As for Arnav being victimized when in fact it is Khushi, it was not pity that I felt for Arnav , it was my pity for their love and my pity for their marriage.
I think redemption and regret will come. Right now Arnav only wants to have Khushi with him. He knows that if she doesn't come home now then she will forever leave him. His soul aim now is to keep her with him, the wooing and words of comfort will be nothing if she isn't with him.
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