Aren't ASR's methods same as what Shyam's were?

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posh

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Posted: 13 years ago

to get Khushi back?

Shyam created circumstances that forced Khushi to get engaged to him.

ASR is creating circumstances to force Khushi to come back to RM and forget the contract and become his wife forever without gaining her trust?

However, is ASR justified just because his love is pure? So we think? Because Khushi also seems to love him back? And if forced enough a girl will give in to a guy's whims?

Isn't that what thousands of road-side romeos believe? Tease a girl enough and she will begin to like it?

I am not comparing ASR to a road-side romeo but his ways seem no different at the moment.

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zenjoe

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Posted: 13 years ago

I made a post earlier about comparing Shyam and Arnav when Arnav hurled abuses at Khushi for being the reason for shyam fiasco. But later I dumped that post coz I lost ALL respect for ASR that day. I felt with that accusation by the poolside, Arnav actually gave a worse blow than Shyam's -'Khushi ji ne ham pe dore daale'. Shyam saying all that crap was SO him but the same coming from a person like Arnav whom Khushi loves was a severe blow.

Now also, Arnav is behaving like Shyam forcing her and using open blackmailing into 'winning' Khushi and making her do things she doesn't want to. It breaks my heart to see that the day has come when I am comparing ASR and Shyam 's behaviour and finding them similar!!!! 🥺

But this is what CVs have made of Arnav these days.

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FairyLiquidSoap

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Posted: 13 years ago

Very well said👏 and the only difference is ASR is hot and sexy and ergo anything he does is perfectly alright after all is he not ASR?

They justify many of his wilful actions as love in which case the MMS of a girl and their intimate moments sent in revenge the acid thrown on girl's face for rejection, the morphing of a girls photoand debasing her character on FB or other social networking sites for spurning all done in the name of love are also perfectly justifiable They too were in love so what makes their act different?

I fear this serial has set some highly impossible implausible and imaginery standards for love romance and intimacy that those who have fallen for this concept and deeply in love with this fictitious character are going to be terribly bruised and broken hearted when reality shows them a thing or 2 My only prayer is it does not lead to extreme choices and tragedy

It really made me feel very sad to watch the character of KKG being pushed down to another low when the CV's very shrewdly wrote the dialogues to look like she was the one who had forced this contract marriage down his throat and he was the poor victim in all this thereby ensuring his noble sacrficing portrayal is kept intact and no odious comparisons can be made to him and Shyam But yes take away the candyfloss and flowery dialogues and you see no difference between the 2 but in one case it is made to look like blackmail and the other love beyond imagination and all done for her good It is in the packaging and presentation that makes one think otherwise

And at the cost of sounding controversial I really doubt Shyam would have dumped her by the swimming pool to sleep and he did have far greater insights into what makes her tick and tock her likes and dislikes and her thinking -great redeeming qualities😊

Once again lovely thought provoking post

P.S. If the roadside romeo looked like ASR then I am sure the phangurls would forgive him his trespasses and in fact might even take out morchas to protest over and for his innocence and unlawful confinement and never mind if he had been caught redhanded , you cannot lock up a fine looking specimen like that

Sometimes i despair over the future of our gender will we ever change

Edited by FairyLiquidSoap - 13 years ago

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LiNdASoUmZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

I can understand ur feelings n respect it bt its nt ok to compare a villian n a hero, Asr is different then other saas bahus heros who show their luv to their wife in an open,bt asr show his luv whn his wife is sleeping, our show name is Ipkknd who there's the hidden meanings behind it,both pyaar n nafrat equally.

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gkoolans

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Posted: 13 years ago

i agree with u all to some extent...but...i think what needs to be considered heavily over here are the intentions...

shyam always knew KKG was out of reach..she had no interest in him. she only respected him but never once gave him a come on. he used his under handed tactics to snatch her and make her his...

ASR on the other hand since day one had a connection with KKG. there was always a soft spot for ASR from KKG's side and vice a versa.they both love each other and are 'in love' with each other as well. due to the circumstances ASR is going through desperate measures to make KKG heal. he knows they belong together. whatever the reason for their earlier marriage they both know they belong together. so ASR would stoop to any level go to any lengths but his intentions would be totally different from that of Shyam's. ASR hold KKG precious and treasures her. he wants her to be with him so he save them both.

there is a saying 'God Keeps the veils' , i felt if the the truth about their marriage doesn't come out then it is ok. at times what is private between to people can remain their secret because putting it out there would hurt alot of people...some times being honest about things is not the best path to take.

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OmNaMaSteOm

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Posted: 13 years ago

very good point u have made & swathi (fls) perfect response

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Cool_doc

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Posted: 13 years ago

shyaam hurling abuses at khushi was his last straw after betrayal by khushi.

he was ready to leave anji for khushi. he even didn't care about arnav's wealth when he ordered the kidnappers to kill him knowing this would transfer the property to anji.

shyam has always respected khushi except the last day.

On the contrary, ASR has been cruel and inhuman to khushi since day one. even after almost killing her in guest house he didn't stop humiliating and blackmailing her.

If shyam hurt khushi once, asr hurt her its 10 times.

But i dont find any of it to be justified in love and we can,t call it love on part of ASR or shyam. but if we had to compare, shyam would be a clear winner in manner of treating khushi.

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Kookiemonster

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Posted: 13 years ago

The problem here is that just because the guy is hot , rich and sexy, people are willing to forgo anything.

Even if tomorrow he kills someone , ASR phangirls will say that he killed the man because of his love for Khushi.

Blind adoration is just too much here and ppl can't bring out the difference between right and wrong.

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.x-bumblebee-x.

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Posted: 13 years ago

To some point yes a little .. But The difference is that ASR has never hidden his EGO face .. From day 1 he showed her what he is Like .. the gussa, i don't believe in God..everything goes my way type of guy ..

He never Hid these traits about himslef to her .. and he has shown his sensitive/vunerable side (without/with him knowing that she is watching) ..= the reason why she fell for him .. knowing behind this angry guy is a little boy trapped ..

whereas Shyam From day one Lied .. Trying to act like a angel /Hero compared to ASR ..he had his goody two shoes face on ...gaining their trust and helping the family .. ect ..But when she found out about his game.. he Turned OUT more dangerous that ASR .. he attempted to murder 3 people for the 'girl' he loves ..ARNAV so FAR hasn't gone to that extent .. !!

Blackmailing wise .. At first i was really hated it .. it .. like yesterday he realised that she wasn't going to budge after blackmailing about her family being on streets .. ect .. she didn't give in .. he knew he was losing .. hence using the bluff card .. ASR more direct on blackmailing and she knows he blackmails from day one ..!!

Shyam More subtle approch of blackmailing then turned more evil on it ..!!

(Anyhoo .. Sorry for the rubbish i wrote .. ill probably edit later as im half asleep and probs didnt make any sense .. and Im NO Die hard fan of ASR.. Im a fan of Rocky ;) aha )

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FairyLiquidSoap

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: kookie2020
The problem here is that just because the guy is hot , rich and sexy, people are willing to forgo anything.
Even if tomorrow he kills someone , ASR phangirls will say that he killed the man because of his love for Khushi.

Blind adoration is just too much here and ppl can't bring out the difference between right and wrong.

believe it or not but that was the rationale used to explain away his apparent wringing of one of the kidnappers neck

while many including myself were appalled by the crude senseless visual of ASR killing a man even in a soap there were others gleefuly spouting the same thing you wrote the guy was bad and had it coming he did for KKG and this is ASR he will never be punished for he is right

lines get blurred between fictiion and reality of the 2 and yes also right and wrong and sometimes i wonder too how blind can women be that they dont even wish to see a blatant injustice happening all because it impinges and impedes on their personal fantasy

Lovely reply😊

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