16th july - i can't stop myself writing it EDITED - Page 3

Originally posted by: vula.kv

awesome post pari👏very well said sonie😭

Originally posted by: aadk

B'ful post pari di.No one who hs wchd dt epi cn stop himslf/herslf frm speakin abt dt.Rati di was just fabulous in dt epi.N i agree wt u dt itz nt easy to tell ur loved ones dt itz just a matter of a few days bfr u wud b parting awy frm dm foreva.Sharin our pain alwys eases us,but wn d sm act wud end up hurting our near n dear ones,dn we refrain ourselvs frm doing so,no matter whether in d process we slowly end up breakin frm within with each passing day..N di al our bst wishes 4 ur frend' speedy recovry.

Originally posted by: Warz-Barun-Rati

aww pari...great post.👏

u made me change my views on this current track. I always say she should tell it. but now i think ur right...she can't..coz she don't want to be the reason of other's tears n pain...aww i just love ur post pari...really...thanks for making it🤗

Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

awesome post Pari 👏

Originally posted by: shiin

Pari di a very beautiful post!
As u said di it is very difficult for a person in dat position to tell d ppl she loves dat she is in such a position!
D pain Dey r undergoing...v cannot imagine...but I would pray to God to alwaz b with dem as thier strength!!!
Di u asked y God gives pain to gud ppl naa...here is d answer ;

v very often feel y God does such tings to good ppl...y giv dem suffering...n so much pain...d nly reason is God knows dat nly d ones who r good hav d strength to bare d pain and still Dey will never lose faith in God , and Dey will b living examples for d rest!!!

Originally posted by: -Yukti-

a very emotional and realistic topic pari...

Originally posted by: Earnshaw

Hi Pari,sorry to hear about your friend's condition,but I can just say that,have faith;sometimes miracles do happen,and it changes our lives forever.

Thanks i Too believe and wish because God can never leave any true heart disappointed.

About the acting of Rati,I would just say that,she is splendid;she is a born actor.There is no question about Rati's performance;and no could have played the role of Indira better than this actor.

Yes its really true 100% that the scene was beautifully played by her and she was successful in bringing the real feelings of people who suffer such phase alive.

But regarding the story of "HD",I would say that,art should represent life with creativity,not imitate it.

Brilliant reply i loved this line, audience expect to watch something new and creative, if HD cvs start working on this area certainly the show will be able to catch the attention from large section of people, i came across many hit show, all i realize is that they maintain a continuity and many of the hit shows are successful in not only in catching attention of viewers but also maintaining perfect balance between audience expectations and their script. HD needs to follow the trend of maintaining freshness and vitality in the show.

In short, this is a sitcom,which is meant to entertain us,take us to a world where we can live the moments with joy.Because the newspapers,the media,i.e.,the news channels,are quite enough to present the "real" world to us;and our everyday experience of life also gives the grim picture of life.

👏👏 The points you are keeping it here are so true and reliable that no one can deny it, i am totally convinced by it again 👏 for it, you were true we have news channel, news papers and internet which is sufficient enough to attach ourselves to real world, and we definately watch the show for entertaiment. u have mentioned it so true that we watch to forget the pains. Do u know why i started watching this show??

it was because i myself was very detached with my life and wasnt able to enjoy it, because of the pain i got from some people, and this show in start helped me a lot to forget my pains and that is the reason i still watch it, because when i was depressed this shows freshness made me forget my all problems, so i will say you are indeed true about this statement that we watch shows to forget the pains no to re-live it.

Therefore,after being face-to-face with reality everyday,I believe no one finds it thrilling to indulge our senses with sadness."HD" is a drama not a reality show,and the writer has perhaps forgotten it.

yes it is quite true HD is a drama not a reality show where we expect to see those things which may let us forget our real life problems and leads us into a new world where we can forget our issues and enjoy another world, but you are right now HD has forgotten its motive, the way they are proceeding the story line keeps the viewer in dilemma that what all is going on. we arent able to see continuity between two episodes now this is a major issue.

You mentioned that you and your friend got emotional with the present track of this show,but this emotion raised pain in you,not pleasure.And I'm sure you would have been happy if the story had some note of joy and mirth in it,as it would have given a smile on your friend's face,which would have been worth watching for.

i really haven't talked to you but what you said has brought tears into my eyes, yes i would have been happy if she sees the episode n smiled, because now her smile matters more to me, but i gave her tears yesterday 😭 she came to have a good time with me, and i said i missed many HD episodes, so i welcomed her to watch it with me and see what i did, i broke her down again, i feel as if i made her feel bad again, god now i am realizing what all i did yesterday 😭 how could i see her eyes filled with tears, i m like crying now, you made me realize that it would have been better if i would have shown her something better, or happy moments of the show 😭 this reply has just proved that what does smile means and opened my eyes that show must have some positivity into it.

Everyone of us have lost someone in our lives,or we're dealing with the hardest truth of life at some point,or the other;and we don't need this pain to be inflicted every now-n-than.As far as the writer of "HD' is concerned,I'm sure she is a sadist;there is nothing creative about her.

Agreed @bold the writers need to take some positive tracks now, filling the show with negativity only disappoints the viewers because the major sect of audience wants happy and good tracks, which make them forget their own life issues and they can enjoy the show with their full heart, so that after the end of one episode their faces have traces of smile and not of tears.

Originally posted by: dear10

but ek baat bolun pari ki bimaar jitna suffer kerta hai use pyaar kerne wale usse kam suffer nahi kerte kyonki wo kuch nahi ker sakte pain bhi nahi kam ker sakte apne pyaar kerne wale ko taklleef main dekhna bohat takleef deta hai kuch na ker pana marne se jyada mushqil hai .

apni family ko batana mushqil hota hai but jaruri bhi hota hai bina bataye jana zindagi bhar unko takleef dega iss liye mujhe indira ka bimaari chhupana real nahi laga kyonki bhale humari life short ho magar jeene ki chaah sab main hoti hai bimaari main sabko lagta hai ki unke sath koi ho kyonki bhale sath rehne wala kuch na ker paye magar uska sath jeene ka hosla deta hai or wahi jeene ke kaam aata hai,

my fav cricketer yuvraj ko cancer tha but usne ek baat kahi thi ki use laga tha uski mummy ye seh nahi payegi but uski mom jaanne ke baad jyada strong thi ,jab yuvi bimaar tha uss time mujhe itna bura lagta tha ki main kuch nahi ker sakti.

my dad or yuvi ki tabiyat same time per kharaab thi my 2 hero but ab dono theek hai

aap chinta matt karo tumhari frend bhi theek ho jayengi hosle main bohat takat hoti hai dear