Bhago's Demise - Unnecessary Emotional Atyachar - Page 9

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Posted: 13 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: apjk

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I don't think Anandi will bite his head off this time.Since she has already said yes to marriage because of her mother she has to listen to what he has got to say.
Thanks to Anandi's late mother's efforts Collector saab has got her where he wanted that is with in the hearing distance of listening to what he has got to say.


We will have to wait and see what is going to happen when his Mummy comes.
Is he going to listen to his heart, or to his mother, as they seem to be close, and he most probably values her word?
I can see her as a big obstacle, at least, to start with.
No love story goes smoothly from the beginning to the end.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kabakaba4


We will have to wait and see what is going to happen when his Mummy comes.
Is he going to listen to his heart, or to his mother, as they seem to be close, and he most probably values her word?
I can see her as a big obstacle, at least, to start with.
No love story goes smoothly from the beginning to the end.


Eggjactly - Mr. Shivraj Shekhar has to prove himself and stop ridding daadiji ki aanchal and now Bhago's duppatta!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mr Shivraj Shekhar will definitely want to get married with his mother's blessings and would want her presence at his wedding and he also wants to marry no one but Anandi.I'm sure he will do whatever it takes to convince his mother about his decision. Whether it is DS's pallu Bhago's pallu or even his own mother's pallu he will use whatever method that is available convince the women in his life about his intentions.😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lol 😃😆 just check this out :-


i never knew that our kadak kadak collector saab is sooo funny ...lol😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ab kya kare...humse dekha nahi gaya ki anandi ke talak ke waqt uske maa bapu ka koi pata hi nahi aur anandi ki maa ko uski maa banne mein aur ruchi nahi thi...to wo parlok sidhar gayi jisse uska punarjanam ho aur kisi doosre show mein jeans top mein dikhai de.laaro tayaar ho jaa.agala number thare bapu ka hain.wo bhi dhoti pehen kar bore ho gaye hain 😆
Edited by payalgarg - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: apjk

I think DS is to be blamed for all this.She emotionally blackmailed a dying woman.to fulfill her wish to see Anandi married.

Does DS love Anandi at all?.If she loves her she wouldn't do things this way.
I feel it is more of her desire to correct her wrong rather than see Anandi happy.
Imagine how Anandi would feel if she is not able to love her husband and unable to fullfil her responsibilities as a wife?This would only make Anandi feel that she is a failure.
This is truly and totally unnecessary emotional Atyachar committed by DS.

I agree that DS is forcing Anandi, but I would like to give her a benefit of doubt.

Ds really loves Anandi now and that's she is all after her second marriage and she is only doing it out of love for A's happiness.

The problem is DS is old school, and slowly adapting but she cannot change abruptly. That's why she is not able to understand A's pain unlike an outsider Shiv. Shiv can understand A because he is educated and has lot more exposure about people , places etc. It's his education that talks always.

Secondly, DS feels that A needs a companion and she is right. Everyone needs a companion and knowing Anandi, she cannot find a companion in anyone outside wedlock. So it's best for her to re-marry, but then A is also strong-headed who will never ever agree to marry anyone. So what option is DS left with? Again a forceful marriage.

And usually it is very hard for a divorcee to get a perfect groom like Shiv, so Ds wants to ensure that she does not end up losing him in this stretch-pull drama.

I am personally against forceful marriage, but for someone like Anandi, I think that's the best option. Especially if she is getting a guy like Shiv.

I think this marriage will only do good to A, even if it is forced.

Would have appreciated if Bhairon was slightly tactful in handling the matter, but again he loses against DS at most times and just gives in.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

I agree that DS is forcing Anandi, but I would like to give her a benefit of doubt.

Ds really loves Anandi now and that's she is all after her second marriage and she is only doing it out of love for A's happiness.

The problem is DS is old school, and slowly adapting but she cannot change abruptly. That's why she is not able to understand A's pain unlike an outsider Shiv. Shiv can understand A because he is educated and has lot more exposure about people , places etc. It's his education that talks always.

Secondly, DS feels that A needs a companion and she is right. Everyone needs a companion and knowing Anandi, she cannot find a companion in anyone outside wedlock. So it's best for her to re-marry, but then A is also strong-headed who will never ever agree to marry anyone. So what option is DS left with? Again a forceful marriage.

And usually it is very hard for a divorcee to get a perfect groom like Shiv, so Ds wants to ensure that she does not end up losing him in this stretch-pull drama.

I am personally against forceful marriage, but for someone like Anandi, I think that's the best option. Especially if she is getting a guy like Shiv.

I think this marriage will only do good to A, even if it is forced.

Would have appreciated if Bhairon was slightly tactful in handling the matter, but again he loses against DS at most times and just gives in.


I am not saying DS is wrong.It is the methods she is using are making things that much more difficult for Anandi and Shiv.

I agree with her point of view regarding Anadi's welfare.
But why is she behaving this way?

She has not bothered to enquire about Shiv's family till today.
How can you contemplate about the marriage of your girl with a guy whose family you know nothing about?

The day after Anandi screamed at Shiv for saying yes to marriage with her DS told Shiv not to discuss this issue with his family until Anandi agrees?What kind of a logic is that?

She took Anandi to her parents' place because she wanted them to make her agree for the marriage not because she wanted Anandi to visit her ailing mother.Where is her love for her?

She tells Shiv that Anandi has agreed to marry him to keep her word given to her mother and she also tells him not to bother about the reasons why Anandi has said yes.What kind of a life does she expect them to lead?

In short where is Dadisa's heart?Did her heart die along with her husband?
Or did she bury it deep down somewhere from where it can not function?
Even if the circumstances forced her to lead a heartless existence is it right on her part to expect others also to lead similar existence?


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Posted: 13 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: apjk

She tells Shiv that Anandi has agreed to marry him to keep her word given to her mother and she also tells him not to bother about the reasons why Anandi has said yes.What kind of a life does she expect them to lead?



Maybe DS thinks that putting Anandi in a situation in which she is married, has a husband who truely loves her, only then will Anandi think about it.. Outside marriage Anandi is never going to consider this. Also DS has faith in Shiv, that he would definitely heal Anandi, and she would once again be able to love.

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