Anandi- hopeless for me! - Page 5

Originally posted by: kikyo

suchi ..i am really not understanding the in depth meaning of your post ..sorry please can you make it a little clear..Bhago and khazan singh are Anandi's parents ..no matter whatever they are or whatever they have done ...any normal human being in Anandi's postion will not have been just in touch with them but be with them just similar way as she is with Singhs ..Singhs are also guilty , depressed but with Anandi's support they moved on and are standing ..if she had provided same support for her parents as well they will be standing like Singhs too instead of Bhago getting depression death ...so this entire situation is really poorly written and directed and no human being in Anandi's place will have been just in touch with her parents infact supporting them ..helping them out ..and its so unrealistic that she has been unaware of her what her parents are going through ..is it really possible ..is it really possible the way Bhago left haveli at that time Anandi never guessed what her mother must have been going through?😕she needed her support much similar as Dadisaa or sumi needed ..is dadisaa less culprit than Bhago..DS has given so much pain to Anandi but still she is standing much because of Anandi's support...Anandi never let DS feel gulity though we know stil she is but she didn't have depression death thanks to support of Anandi so how come if Anandi had provided same support to Bhago she must have moved on .death is natural phenomena ..everyone has to die one day including Anandi too...but death comes in various forms ..the way Bhago died i am sorry but cvs very badly failed to prove Anandi as a good daughter ..Bhairo and Sumi are like her parents ..they didn't give birth to her ..yes they both filled all duties what her actual parents should be but still Bhago gave birth to Anandi..bearing so much pain ..her rights are no less on Anandi neither Anandi's duties are less for them as compared to Singhs...cvs have really written this whole situation and blame do lands on Anandi..what lesson one learn from her be loyal to your sasra but just be in touch with your parents ..they are living life of a hell and you are unaware of it 😕because after marriage your life death is only with your sasra 😕

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

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Ok I am not brining the cvs into this situation that is why I wrote what I wrote.

If we leave out the whole bad direction and story writing and the inconsistency with anandis character cause the TM said we should not include that. So I thought of it based purely on the story and why anandi did not keep in touch.

And I concluded, yes Anandi did not keep in touch with her parents cause

A) she is probably bitter towards them for putting her in such position in the first place and because she is Anandi she cannot hate her parents, so she just remained in touch with them in lightest sense of the word.

B) She loves them too..so she does not want them to feel more humiliated via the villagers and be a topic of gossip. So she avoided 'meeting' them but kept in touch with them over the phone

C) she did not know bagho was I'll, had she known she would have gone to see her and taken care of her.

D) she was going through a rough phase in her life. She could not think much beyond that.

E) she is happy in jetsar, around her in laws. Had she gone to billaria, she would have just not gotten the moral support she needed to pull her life up.

I agree that she should have known about her mother's illness just like bagho should have known about J cheating A , or her achievements or her divorce.

Anandi chose to speak with Sumitra and not with bhago and it was sumitra's words that gave her strength to take that final step.

Sometimes, no matter how nice the person is, they have weaknesses so here Anandis weakness was that she could not come to terms with her relationship with her parents. Yes, thus there was a neglect just like they neglected her in all steps of her life.

But had she known she would have gone so I do not see her as a bad daughter. A hurt daughter yes, but not a bad one.

Just like I do not see khajan and bagho as bad parents... They did the best they could with the limited resources and understanding.

Hope my pov is clear