Anandi- hopeless for me!

Page

Next Last

sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Anandi - hopeless for me! Though I support Anandi in sooo many aspects- but this on- hell no!

Anandi is the worst daughter any one can have. She doesn't deserve a mother like Bhago. Still cannot forget those times when she flamed like fire whenever her daughter was troubled.

Excuses can be unlimited- like the lame excuse Anandi gave when the Jagya infidelity bubble burst, excuse like the one she gave her mother, when she asked, "aayi na tu hamein dekhne?" Silly reason! "Mai chahti nahi thi ki aap mera dukh dekhein!"

All these years, she never bothered to take care of her parents. Does her duty and responsibility end with doing tel malish to the old lady and making adrak chai for the singh house? Agreed she was indebted to all that they did for her, they became as good as blood relatives. But before she was all that, she was a daughter. She came into existence only after Bhago gave birth to her.

Her mother didn't need no proving that she was happy- all she needed was her child's sight. That's what gives a mother strength, her child's presence. And unfortunately Anandi has been a looser at this- specially when she was the only child. 👎🏼 Now this heroism of lighting her mom's pyre doesn't make me applaud her at all 👎🏼 If Jagya is to be blamed, so does Anandi have to be blamed for Bhago's death. I am sooo sure, Bhago would have recovered if she had been by Anandi, watched her daughter be a sarpanch, dance on stage, receive awards from CM.. Simply hopeless.. Anandi, you are wrong this time.

Edited by sonali_dg - 13 years ago

Quote

Frequent Posters

Tanya

@vishwa19

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

hehe..i think cv's are to be blamed coz they did not add any scope for anandi's parents in BV😊

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

Have to disagree with you. Her parents could have told her that her mother was ill. Its not like she didn't call them frequently. It just wasn't aired. Understandably she didn't want to make her mom more upset by telling her about the divorce and stuff...considering how beserk Bhago went upon learning about JaGa.

On a practical note blame the possible unavailability of the actress and Creatives

Quote

poiu123

@poiu123

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

Its the CVs to blame , not Anandi . Bhairavi had asked for a break bec of her new role as a show producer and CVs didn't want to change the actress ,, so they didn,t show the scenes.

Similarly Smita is on a break from BV so even though Sumi shud be shown to be there as Anandi needs her now the most , the scenes cannot be shown.

At least I dont want Smita to be replaced in BV as she suits the role to the T. So we can have Sumi-Anandi scenes when she is back .

Quote

Nikita

@nitha

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Where is Anandi's fault when CVs didnt give place for her parents in BV.

Quote

ankit111

@ankit111

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

I think this forum is most responsible for the death of bhago😉 Here we everyday raise question, why Anandi parents r not invited in such and such occassion? Why Anandi is not visiting her parents? Why this and why tht regarding her parents, but the problem with CVs was tht they cd not show her parents, due to unavailability of actor, so they thought just kill her😆😆 Problem solved😃 no quetions abt thm. Na rahegi bas, na bajegi basuri😆😆 If we want to save the other characters, who time to time disappear, thn avoid raising such questions, otherwise they will also be killed by CVs, like Suguna, Shyam, Mahabir Singh etc😆 and if we start go in deep, why Shiv is not remembering his parents? Why DS is not doing pind daan of her husband? Why Bhairav is not putting Guarland on his father photos? Why basant dosnt remember his real mother? Why Gahna never visit her parents? etc, thn CVs wd not hv other choice thn showing the history of all dead person or bringing all these disappeared characters and killing thm one by one😆😆thn we will blame thm for dragging the show😆 poor CVs😆

Quote

AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

@Ankit 🤣🤣 Yeah Mass Murder of Characters if CVs had to keep showing them all on such a huge cast and story would b nowhere. Even today people were complaining why Shyam is not there to give kandha... Answer: It makes more dramatic sense for Shiv to step up and the actor is busy elsewhere

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago

Quote

sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Agree with all of you, 😆 Specially Ankit , hilarious one!!😆 I know Bhago has a new serial to do, a life outside BV..which is why this gad bad track.. ek teer se do shikaar.. Ansh track ka engine chalna, aur Bhago's permanent exit, this was the best option! 😆

But remember apna old funda? When the story is shown, the way it is- we cannot blame the cvs for it. Ab jis character pe aa giri hai, usi ka bamboo karenge na 😆 Aise hum bhi daal badloo ho jaege toh Gauri fans ko bhi bol na paenge.. woh toh cheekh cheekh ke kehte hai.. Gauri's character is ruined by CVS, but ultimately, we give gall's to J + G because of their characters, story line + CVS! 😆

Jo bhi bolo yaar.. Anandi ne kachra kar diya, beti dharam ka..👎🏼

And I read one more view, in these posts, that its her parents fault that they didn't tell her.. please yaar.. itna bhi na defend karo...let's call a spade a spade.

1. Anandi's parents were not like Gehna's parents, who sold their daughter..they got her married with honor and respect selling away their farm/ staking their house..

2. Even after all the ehsaans's singh family did, didn't ask their daughter to be bali ka bakra.. any other villager parents, for instance, parents like Gauri's would've dumped their daughter at her in-laws backyard and said, hamein baksh de, tera byah ho chuka hai, abhi arthi hi uthegi.. bhai, bol hi sakte the ki nahi? Magar nahi these were different parents, who felt their daughter's pain, did their best even after getting her married, fought for her justice like strong pillars.

3. And this fool Anandi, asked her parents to get lost, in front of her inlaws, (even then I was so upset with her, I made a post expressing my views on that) Thats a terrible thing to do, no matured girl would ask her parents to leave the house when her husband brings home a mistress and sleeps in HER BEDROOM and shuts the door on her to do suhag raat..chi! She disowned them at that very moment.. after that, which swabhimani parents will tell her, beta aao, tumse milna hai, hamara khyal rakho.. it just hurt them that unki beti apni nahi rahi.. but a mother can never disown her child, Anandi recovered from the shock, but it killed her mother!

And bech mein baat hui thi? One phone call! Really? These parents were already so depressed and cared about their 'delicate' daughter's re-crashing.. that they hid their ill health from her-- which is exactly what parents do.

I would be surprised if any body tells me that their parents keep telling them, beta mujhe ye ho gaya, woh ho gaya.. meri chinta karo, mera dhyan rakho.. who does it? But we as children understand, even from their voices, that something should be wrong...

Arey.. India/ Antarctica ka distance nahi tha na!! Local phone call!!! Same Country, sammmeee state, just a few hours away!! I would run to my mom's house every weekend if it my mom's house was hours away! Bakwas karti hai Anandi!👎🏼

Edited by sonali_dg - 13 years ago

Quote

aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sonali_dg
Anandi - hopeless for me! Though I support Anandi in sooo many aspects- but this on- hell no!

Anandi is the worst daughter any one can have. She doesn't deserve a mother like Bhago. Still cannot forget those times when she flamed like fire whenever her daughter was troubled.

Excuses can be unlimited- like the lame excuse Anandi gave when the Jagya infidelity bubble burst, excuse like the one she gave her mother, when she asked, "aayi na tu hamein dekhne?" Silly reason! "Mai chahti nahi thi ki aap mera dukh dekhein!"

All these years, she never bothered to take care of her parents. Does her duty and responsibility end with doing tel malish to the old lady and making adrak chai for the singh house? Agreed she was indebted to all that they did for her, they became as good as blood relatives. But before she was all that, she was a daughter. She came into existence only after Bhago gave birth to her.

Her mother didn't need no proving that she was happy- all she needed was her child's sight. That's what gives a mother strength, her child's presence. And unfortunately Anandi has been a looser at this- specially when she was the only child. 👎🏼 Now this heroism of lighting her mom's pyre doesn't make me applaud her at all 👎🏼 If Jagya is to be blamed, so does Anandi have to be blamed for Bhago's death. I am sooo sure, Bhago would have recovered if she had been by Anandi, watched her daughter be a sarpanch, dance on stage, receive awards from CM.. Simply hopeless.. Anandi, you are wrong this time.

I will have to disagree with you.I don't think she was uncaring daughter.It just that she took her parents feelings and understanding for granted.She just assumed that parents wiil always be there their love wil always be there for her.

She probably did not talk to them spend time with them as she was going through difficult phase in life.She may have learnt to hide them in front of the world and the Singh family but it is difficult to hide her pain and hurt from parents.If Bhago saw her daughter like that she will feel bad and helpless.

She cared for her parents but it just that she wanted to keep her hurt and pain to herself because that's what she has been taught by her parents.

It will be difficult to communicate with them because she is trying to hide her pain.

Just be cause we love parents and they love us we all take our parents for granted.That's what Anandi did too.

Edited by apjk - 13 years ago

Quote

Teeya

@Teeya

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#10

aaj mein bhi Anandi se khafa thi.muje bahot bura laga ki usne apni maa ka maan bhi nahi rakha. jab bhi woh shiv ko dekhti hai gusse se dekhti hai. us bechare ne kya kiya hai ki us par gussa nakal rahi hai? 😡😡😡

Quote

1 2 3 4 5

Anandi- hopeless for me!

Related Topics

Explore Topics