i kinda support pia!!!

hey

ive been seeing anti pia topics now-a-days...

how ever i kinda support her in hers and pushkars track...i mean she is arrogant and money minded but who dusnt want a good life today!!!

pushkar physically abuses her...he told her if she hurt his self respect itl end their marraige!! i mean thts actin like a sexist and mcp...

i dun agree wid tht at all...

also she abortin her kid is wrong but then her reason is valid tht thy dun have resources to raise a baby...i agree wid tht...

its unfair on the child to get him/her into this world wen u cant take care of it!!!

lemme know who all agree though i no there will b jus a handful!!!

take care

shruti

wattttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt.. i mean i agreee wit u on some level.. but having a baby is a BIG thing.. if she wasn't ready fo a baby...she should've been smart and should've discussed it with pushy and PLAN their pregnancy.. and then she GOT pregnant.. she should've told pushy.. he's her husband.. he has EVERY rite to know.. that's just painful.. she hurt him and all of us too much.. she CROSSED ALL LIMITS

well if u put it that way-then yea...

didn't have enough resources??? she has a job. pushar has a job. it's not like they live in a huge house that they have to pay so much. with their two salaries combined, i think they have enough resources. i think that when pia says all that stuff, she is thinking a little too high. and i actually support pushkar. pia repeatedly insulted him. if i were pushkar, i would would have already slapped her ten times and kicked her out a long time ago. she's been insulting him for the longest time and even bringing up jai (who does that??? she's asking for a divorce!!). if money and resources were her concern, she should have used her head and started working a long time ago. and not only that, if they don't have enough resources (according to pia) then, it is all due to pia anyways. pushkar lost his jobs with jai and roshni all because of pia. and despite all that, he still tried to find ways to support her and buy a house. she's just pure selfish. and she thinks that she's some beauty queen or something that jai is still in love with her and can't be in love with bani. with that kind of mentality, it seems like she thinks lowly of bani too, like she isn't worthy of being loved. i agree... she did CROSS all limits. if she didn't want a baby, and puskhar did, then i don't know... take birth control without telling puskhar!!! she needed to use her head a little more. grrr.... this pia makes me so mad!!!

In a way i see your point. Yes from pias point of view not being a millionaor yet earning enough money to support the child is a valid enough reason to abort her child ... fine, but she will be the one who will have to live all her life with the burden of her loss.

But i would like to say that many women in this world have abortions due to the situations in life which they are in or that they are scared. Anways there are many reasons for an abortion. So i do not think that we sould be so quick to judge Pia....yet i cannot help my self drawing closer to the conclusion that what pia did was in plain stupidity. The validity of her excuse may have been good enough for her but not for others. Yet pia has a full right to decide whether she will want to keep the baby or not...as in the end it is her who will have the baby inside her stomach for 9 months and not pushkar...it is her who will be burdned with the sweet yet harsh responsibilty of her child, followed by many other worries which i can tell you many mothers tend to have.

I am confused on this matter....yet i can is that why go back to the man she left?? why pia why?
Its natural for Pushkar to feel hurt at your actions when you both married out of love and have a sort of stable financial condition....but why go to walia house when you know it will cause the man you suposedly love hurt...why?

at the moemnt i am very angry with pia....

luv ya
sweetu.

p.s. these are just my views, no one be offended!

see if u remove the jai-bani track frm the picture fr a minute and look at it as pia-pushkar...pia is right...
and yea every1 noes protection isnt 100% safe!!!
i mean bringing up jai is wrong but then she did leave a rich guy fr some1 she loved and we all agree she is money minded but pushkar dusnt seem to understand tht tht says somethin about her love fr him dusnt it???

and every1 wants the best fr their kids right so if u feel u aint ready its better to abort aint it???

hey Shruti...no offense to you but i just dont agree...

how ever i kinda support her in hers and pushkars track...i mean she is arrogant and money minded but who dusnt want a good life today!!!
yeh u are right everyone wants a good life...but u gotta work towards it...not take all the short cuts in life....Pia is a arrogant confused girl...i mean she wanst decided if she wanted to marry Pushkar or Jai ..than she ran away with Pushkar ...yet she still has the nerve to taunt her husband on wealth and money...hello doesnt she understand that the problems her husband and his family is facing is all because of her....if she had told Mr Walia the truth the day he had proposed to her i dont think pushkar would have gone thru what he did...but no she just had to make things more miserable for all of them....if she was so money-minded why didnt she just stick with Jai and get married to him in the first place....

pushkar physically abuses her...he told her if she hurt his self respect itl end their marraige!! i mean thts actin like a sexist and mcp...
i think its the other way around...she abuses pushkar rather than him abusing her....she keeps taunting him on him being a looser and not being able to provide for the family and what not...but in reality whose fault is that all...isnt it her who caused this situation....talk about being supportive for her husband..and understanding..but no ..she doesnt even no the meaning of the word....what man can take his wife without telling him gets an abortion..hell who wouldnt threaten their wife...pushkar used all the alternatives there was..he was patient with her..talked to her..tried to even get her what she wanted..yet she was a selfish .****

also she abortin her kid is wrong but then her reason is valid tht thy dun have resources to raise a baby...i agree wid tht...
if u dont hav the resources to raise a child than why have unprotected sex....be prepared from the beginning...

its unfair on the child to get him/her into this world wen u cant take care of it!!!
i agree it is unfair but what fault is of the child that he/she is killed before even arriving in this world...yet again i stress if u dont want a child there are things that let u take precautions against these unwanted circumstances...

just my views...Pia has crossed all limits there is and i hate her....i cannot believe she aborted her own child...how would she have felt if her own mother had thought of doing that to her before she was born..!!>

Sorry Shruti.....PIA is not worth for supporting....see Pushkar's condition so please don't think of supporting her....

okay abortion thing her reason is valid...but she still should have told pushkar!

Well if she knew that Pushkar,didn't have the resources to provide for the child....then she should have used protection n avoided getting pregnant.And a child needs his prarents love n protection,not a sliver spoon in his or her mouth.In my opinion,Pia only wants her child to be surrounded with wealth and Pushkar made enough to raise the child.Pia doesn't want to improvise n thats her down fall 😡