What about Nidhi as... - Page 4

Originally posted by: koyelbasu

Here, the actual point is Ashu's age. That is a very serious issue. Their marriage demands early parenthood. Ashu never gave pressure to Nidhi for baby till now he just express his wish and he is concerned about his own age. Time is just flying out of his hand and as a father he wants to perform his duty bringing up his child and off course age is a factor.
When Nidhi chosen her father over Ashu then Nidhi deprived Ashu and Ashu accepted her all decisions and continued to love her and worry for her no matter if she was with her or not. That time she was fulfilling her father's decision and was shattering Ashu's dreams but now it is the time for her to fulfill Ashu's wish and which is not illogical.
Now a days women working in pregnancy is a common scenario. Rather lots of ladies has to travel in public transport. So, profession don't have any conflict with motherhood. Here she will travel in costly car , will stay in hospital where medical attention and Hubby's support will always there. At home 24/7 care will be available for her. Only thing is the wish.If she feels she will do MD and then go for baby then it will take 4yrs and that is absurd .
Baby is the best gift of a woman's life and it brings only happiness in couple's life. So one must welcome it.

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

I know wat you say and Agree...see it from Nidhi's POV..she said Bachche Honge but she wants Time...And Giving her atleast 6 months time is not a big deal..till then her Internship will be completed..she can be at home enjoying her pregnancy and studying for PG...i am asking ashNi to wait for 4 years for Baby but Nidhi should have a say in this matter..cause she is the one who is going to bore the child...

So many ppl these days go for higher studies taking your family with them. I know so many who went for their masters or first degree and took their infants/spouses with them. Some have even given birth to more children while studying. For a woman after shaadhi the next thing is becoming a mother. I wonder how much can nidhi wait. 4 yrs is a long time. If ashu waits for nidhi then there will be so much resentment, unfullfilled promises and desires within the relationship that it would create a big web from which its difficult to see anything. Finally wen nidhi is ready the relationship perhaps will have too many cracks. I think both parties here need to reflect on their better half's point of views and think rationally b4 blurting out anything. It's even better to ask a neutral person for his/her view. Asking DB or BB is not an option cox they both would root for ashu. We need a sensible head's opinion here. Im really hoping kamlesh ji would not dissapoint us with this track.

Originally posted by: i5hy

So many ppl these days go for higher studies taking your family with them. I know so many who went for their masters or first degree and took their infants/spouses with them. Some have even given birth to more children while studying. For a woman after shaadhi the next thing is becoming a mother. I wonder how much can nidhi wait. 4 yrs is a long time. If ashu waits for nidhi then there will be so much resentment, unfullfilled promises and desires within the relationship that it would create a big web from which its difficult to see anything. Finally wen nidhi is ready the relationship perhaps will have too many cracks. I think both parties here need to reflect on their better half's point of views and think rationally b4 blurting out anything. It's even better to ask a neutral person for his/her view. Asking DB or BB is not an option cox they both would root for ashu. We need a sensible head's opinion here. Im really hoping kamlesh ji would not dissapoint us with this track.

hey i missed imp 'Not' word in my prev post..I know wat you mean...😆

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

Originally posted by: i5hy

@divya: When i quoted the NOT was missing but now its there in ur post 😃 These things will happen. I think im getting too carried away with this ... I cant seem to stop talking abt this😆

Talk yaar..No Tension...I am here to talk with you...😊

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

FanKTLK..sorry I dont know your Name..No Dear..Why should It Hurt my sentiments..We are Mature individual..We all have Different POV..and we shall respect it..I cant force you to consider My POV as correct one..Or you to me..Simply Because All things Right or wrong are relative to each other...I see your POV and understand it...Nidhi Or any girl Has to go through compromises and Duties..as we fullfill in The society..but while doing so..we limit ourselves within so called norms and Dimensions of society...Nidhi Chose Ashu...then Ashu also Chose Nidhi..If its Nidhi's responsibility as Wife to fullfill Her Hubby's desire of child same is with ashu's responsibility to give his wife some time if she wants to concentrate on her Career..Its should e vice versa..not one sided...