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lovely post div ... u summerized nidhi's character perfectly !👍🏼

Originally posted by: i5hy

In this regard i always felt ashu was a bit selfish. He would want things to be done only in his way. Was it me or did any1 felt that during the 1 lakh rupees deal too ashu didnt even give an inch to nidhi n finally she came to mend things.
Rohan on the other hand understood nidhi better and does not force anything on her.

In a Way you are right Ishy...Ashu is a supportive hubby but certain things of him get on to my nerves...

1.Getting Angry on Newly wedded wife for not making tea early morning

2.Accusing her for Trying to kill Mallika...And for Mallika he had trust she can never do such things...

3.The Sequence you mentioned...

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Super post Rabzy.. n i agree... Nidhi should deffo hv the right and the will to dream n fulfill those dreams...!

I m sure .. if she logically puts across her views.. everyone barring DB can understand... !

Thanks tanu...Yup Only solution to this Problem is proper negotiation...If she does Ashu will understand...

Originally posted by: deepa_jd

lovely post div ... u summerized nidhi's character perfectly !👍🏼

Thanks Re Deepu...You are a RockStar...😃

Originally posted by: i5hy

@divya: Mayb they are trying to show that at middle age ppl are set on their ways and is not subjected to change easily. No1 was there b4 to contradict ashu's decisions and now nidhi has come into the equation and when issues arises the equation becomes unbalanced. Younger generation is very forgiven. They dont want to waste ages in rehearsing what to say or how to say... they just go n jump in.

Ishy...I think Middle age ppl are more Mature and understanding...cause they have seen life and tackled many stressful situations on other hand younger generation lives a carefree life concentrating more on careers and outside interaction is less...Ashu is shown mature and understanding..thats why he easily laughs away Nidhi's childish pranks..but sometimes like i pointed above he comes across as insensitive...

Originally posted by: i5hy

ashu thinks all what nidhi does and thinks is childish. Very easily he disregards her saying bachchon jaisi baath math kar. Nidhi in her way also has a right to voice her thoughts but off late its seen that she wants to please ashu and do what he wants. She is worried whether he would get angry at anjie's words and now im afraid she might agree to have a baby for his sake killing her desire to become a doctor. I really hope that wont happen.

PS: Deeps if u r reading this im not bashing ashu😉

Yes Offlate Her entire universe is Ashu..she cant spent a single nite at her Maayka...Its Her love for him...But she should understand Also wat she wants and tell Ashu clearly..otherwise unfullfilled Desire creeps Stress and Negativity in relation...

I somehow don't agree... Nidhi had a choice all her life...

Here, the actual point is Ashu's age. That is a very serious issue. Their marriage demands early parenthood. Ashu never gave pressure to Nidhi for baby till now he just express his wish and he is concerned about his own age. Time is just flying out of his hand and as a father he wants to perform his duty bringing up his child and off course age is a factor.
When Nidhi chosen her father over Ashu then Nidhi deprived Ashu and Ashu accepted her all decisions and continued to love her and worry for her no matter if she was with her or not. That time she was fulfilling her father's decision and was shattering Ashu's dreams but now it is the time for her to fulfill Ashu's wish and which is not illogical.
Now a days women working in pregnancy is a common scenario. Rather lots of ladies has to travel in public transport. So, profession don't have any conflict with motherhood. Here she will travel in costly car , will stay in hospital where medical attention and Hubby's support will always there. At home 24/7 care will be available for her. Only thing is the wish.If she feels she will do MD and then go for baby then it will take 4yrs and that is absurd .
Baby is the best gift of a woman's life and it brings only happiness in couple's life. So one must welcome it.