Swayam is a HUMAN, not a STONE.

Okay! Ive been a silent observer and reader for a very long time. And have also suppressed my desires of writing a post. But today, some topics have forced me to write and be rude to people who pretend to be something and are something else.

Finally seen some of the real fans standing up for Swayam. It always feels great when some one really make Swayam topic(which by the way hardly made on this D3 forum)

Originally posted by: angel_white

Okay! Ive been a silent observer and reader for a very long time. And have also suppressed my desires of writing a post. But today, some topics have forced me to write and be rude to people who pretend to be something and are something else.

Firstly, Everywhere Swayam is being blamed! That he no longer loves Sharon, he no longer is the "Loverboy", he has lost his charm, he is lost his Perfect nature, his character has got butchered! Just one thing for you all, Swayam is a human being, not a dog who will follow his "mistress" blindly!

His girlfriend lied to him, TWICE in 24 HOURS. What do you expect him to do? Go and say "Oh Sharon my love, you are always right! You dint want me to be there for my sister, oh its okay! Tumhaare liye main meri behen ko kya, apna khud ka character bhi slaughter karunga" or rather say "Tumne Pink Valley Shuru kiya? Oh wow! Pehle bolti toh Main bhi Green Valley Chalu karta, aur phir hum Valley Valley karte karte Cyber War ko kahaan se kahaan le jaate"..."Your so intelligent! Instead of putting fire in the water, you add petroleum to it?" Wah! Im proud of you Sharon! Tum hamesha sahi hoti ho"

And you'll are wondering where is the "Love"... I think you'll need to open your eyes and see the love... The first time Sharon lied to him, we could see in the Loose Control Dance Sequence, Swayam becoming normal with her, dancing with her. Infact he also went behind her and was going to surprise her, but Wohaa!!!! What a fabulous surprise he received!!!! The girl, whom he loves, the girl who had said "Hum sab share karenge" that female lied to him again in mere 24 hours!!!!

Sharon! What did she do?! She acted intelligently? Oh please! Imagine if your sister needs you and you are sent away, wont you feel guilty on not being there! Or when you need your brother, and he is not there, how will you feel? How will that guy feel for not being there for his sister, for his responsibility? And the Pink Valley! Wow!!! Sharon had once said, "Haste makes Waste"... She was so true! And she proved it! Taking a decision in a haste has now proved wrong! Leave SwaRon, what has she done? Not only has she spoiled her image, but she has also spoiled Swayam's image who wasnt even involved in this! She has made things worse for Rey and Taani... She has challenged the decision of the students who made Rey the GS.

She made a mistake, its okay! We wont tell her anything, But OMG! Swayam spoke to her in a loud tone! How dare he! He has no rights! Why doesnt he have the right?! When Sharon has treated him like crap, has squeezed his emotions, its okay! We understood her POV saying that she needs time and blah blah. But the moment Swayam said anything against Sharon, its a World War! How can he! He is supposed to love her, he is supposed to understand her, even if he is hurt, he should keep quiet. That is so convenient! Isn't Sharon supposed to understand him? Isnt she supposed to try to be like him?

What do you expect him to do? Baby sit his GF? Get a life people!!! Okay, there are misunderstandings between SwaRon, but is it always his fault? Cant he mature? Cant he transfer from the secret admirer to a Lover?

Isnt he a human? Doesnt he have feelings? Doesnt he get hurt when the person he loves the most, hurts him beyond repair? The problem first everyone had with Swayam's character was that he was too good to be real. And now when he is being realistic, when he is shown having feelings, when he is shown getting hurt, when he is shown getting angry, suddenly he lost his charm? Why? When you all will have boyfriends,girlfriends or whatever, if that person gets annoyed at you because of your mistake, will you leave that person?Dont you get angry on your mate, or any friend when they hurt you or lie to you?

What do you all want him to do? Treat Sharon like a princess! Even if she is wrong, no problem, Swayam loves her na! He should always support Sharon no matter what! Even if she murders someone, he should support her! How cool! And meanwhile, Sharon can treat him like a dog! Lie to him, not care about how he feels, take decisions in a hurry and end up spoiling everyone's lives!

And what is the problem if he wants to be alone? Swayam as a character is shown as someone who is so influenced by Sharon that only she cant get the worst out of him. So if she probes him, you'll see him shouting and yelling. He doesnt wanna do that so he wants to be alone. But NO! No one wants that! They want Swayam to talk to Sharon! And then if Swayam lets out his frustration, he has one more reason to be blamed! What do you want people? If people want to be alone, its just to sort things out and not make it worse! But here, is Swayam says, I want to be alone, There is a huge fuss made about it! Why? Dont we want to be alone when we are sad? Swayam is wrong too, I dont say he isnt, but he is NOT the SOLE REASON. He is right on his part.

Come on people! Stop writing for your favourite characters! If you cant write bad about your own favourite, dont write bad about others! D3 is not about Swaron.. Its about 12 characters. Even if most of us dont like Taani, accept it, she is a part of D3 and she plays Swayam's sister. And she plays a important role in his life not only because she is his sister but also because she is his responsibilty. CVs will show her and we cant help it. We cant change that fact, but we need to change our views, or rather if we cant change them, stop blaming characters and stop turning a blind eye to our favorite character's fault.

I dont mean to offend anyone. I dont intend on any fights, I might have very few, or perhaps no supporters, but I dont care because Im here to put forth my point and take out whatever is there in my mind. Please dont post if you think Im wrong, I dont want to indulge in fights.

totally agreed wid u... all the people all blamin swayam for his attitude ... some are sayng he iz nt d loverboy anymr and otherz he has lost his perfctn,..😲. but i dnt undrstnd y dex people are reactng like dix... it's all sharon's fault now look at the end wat results come out ov dat cyber war... GS AND AGS i mean swayam and sharron are blamed 4 all dix pink valley stuff... that waz y swayam was against posting articles.. why dnt people undrstnd... he has also the right to get angry not only sharon...😕

Okay so i did resv by mistake but now i am tempted to reply...Swayam is to be honest acting like jackass who deserves a slap from Sharon as per me. The main problem is that Swayam is not behaving like he use to...I am not saying that his POV is wrong for me both Sharon and Swayam are right in dere own way but the Swayam we knew and fell for was not like this...atleast he never treated Sharon like this which is y Swayam was special and not some ordinary ladka.

whoever u r..as dis ur first post..n I must say wat a post...Der might b a possibility dat u might get bashed by SwaRon fans..yess I m a SwaRon fan too bt still I LOVE UR POST...u just nailed it...

u just spoke my words...
yes Sharon is d one who said hum secrets nai rakhenge...baat karenge ek dusre se sooo dat MUs naa ho n wat she did...she lied to his boy frnd twice in 24 hrs...like WOAH...I knw she was nt wrong...she did for his frnd Rey..intact best frnd..bt cnt she listen once to swayam..who is d most matured character of d3..I knw Sharon is smart bt wen swayam is opposing her nt to do d same..bt still she did...n nw she face it too...she called d trouble herself...
cnt she discuss all dis once wid swayam or Rey??
n wat if swayam talk to Sharon in high tone???just coz Sharon is his gal frnd he has to talk to her softly n politely is dis a rule??I think nooo..he has d rite to tell at her if she is wrong..n yaa dis she is...she took decision in hurry...

ppl calling swayam dat he is a psycho..like seriously ppl.think dat way also..dey forget all d tym wen Sharon treated swayam in d same way...y dey want swayam to b in lovey dovey mode also...yaaa his lover boy character has been ruined bt dis tym he is nt wrong...I cn understand wen her sister need him d most..wen his frnd needed him d most he was nt Der..just coz Sharon don't want him to b der...like WOAH...he always forgiven her n moved on..he gave chance to Der relations I don't knw how many tyms...bt Stilk today who is blamed..only n only swayam...

I dont knw wen u read post frm SwaRon-ians dat dey r hating swayam...dey r nt liking dat swayam yelled at Sharon...I m just hurt...like actually...

I m out now...dis is all wat I wanted to say...thanks once again for d post...

i'm happy tat something good the active mmbr did tat silent members like u take a stand to make topics.
you love swayam yeah tat i can see in d topic good for you.
i love swaron i think tatz wer i'm at fault, i cant think like you.
wait a minute all wat u said is abt d after fight sqnce n todays episode. i agree todays epsd did made sense n i was happy abt tat. but cant say tat swayam's chrctr is not butchered. the love of ur life is wit u n the gurl is asking some time to talk to him n his answer comes as ye sabse difficult part hey. will u be happy to hear something frm chrctr swayam. ofcourse u'll be happy. fangurls r always happy abt wateva it is. but i was not it did butchered the character of swayam for me. i respect ur view.

So u basically supporting palki ,
u are saying its justified the way swayam charactr being made now ,
its justified the way swayam treated her princess sharon ,
its justified how he is being rude and suddenly the mature swayam we all loved is disappered..
U saying all these thngs are justified.
R u kidding me ??
I m a swaron fan. I m a swayam fan.

But all these points are not justified from any angle or triangle.

U said swayam is human being not a stone ,
human being correct but nowadays his charactr is being showing like STONE, only..
The way he is treating shron is certainly out of my mind..

And you are pointing out what sharon has all done.
In going storyline , wats sharon faults , she hides just 2 things from swayam and swayam dont wana talk to her.
Is this the mature swayam we know , who i now dont even wana talk to sharon , who use to die to tok to her..

See , changes are constant but this change regarding sharon behaviour in swayam is certainly a negative change by cvs in his charactr..

This certainly doesnt justified swayam as a charactr. Not for me.

No offnce to any swayam fan !

Originally posted by: SwaRon911

So Swayam will yell at his girl like any gaaon ka Abdulla ?

Phir Swayam mein aur baaki ladkon mein kya fark hai ?

Tumhe Sharon ki galtiya nazar aa rahi hai .. but u completely ignore the root of all this .. Swayam's demented sister ?

SwaRon have had problems before . Problems worse than this. Tab toh Swayam maintained a dignified composture . What is with him acting all Rowdy Rathod with Sharon now ?!

You so sound like u are so in love with Swayam , u hate Sharon ! Fangirl love FTW !! 🤪

Originally posted by: love_shantaanu

Finally seen some of the real fans standing up for Swayam. It always feels great when some one really make Swayam topic(which by the way hardly made on this D3 forum)

Bang on post all the people on forum now a days think that yes it's all sawyam's fault

At the times i feel this peoples think "Its's all about loving our sharon & hating your swayam"

Don't you guys get it this time it was not Swayam but sharon who was wrong ,things can be handled in mature & practical way but sharon did all the haste & now all will pay price of that.

If swayam did something like this then all of the guys would have supported him

He did nothing & now he will be dragged in this mess thanks to sharon & her wrong decision.

I DO AGREE AT THE TIMES SWAYAM WAS WRONG BUT THIS TIME ITS SHARON WHO WAS WRONG

P.S- you must be really brave to write all this because what ever you write against SHARON THIS FORUM & ALL SHARON LOVER WILL EAT YOU ALIVE AS FAR AS I KNOW THIS FORUM DON'T HAVE ANY SWAYAM FANS & THOSE WHO ARE SWAYAM FANS WELL NOW A DAYS THEY AVOID MAKING SWAYAM TOPIC DUE TO LACK OF RESPONSE.

BE READY FOR A TAG OF MAD FANGIRL.