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Posted: 13 years ago
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Aftr wtchin 2days epi. I wntd to share dis wit u guys. Kokila s d strongest character f SNS. She myt b d fav. f many f u guys. She s an ideal dil, an ideal mother n an ideal mil. Bt s she an ideal wife? My answer s NO. She s a person who strictly follows our tradition n values. Let me ask, is dis d tradition 2 disobey, disrespect n always blame ur husband? No. Frm d begining till nw she illtreatd Parag, her husband. I dnt remember any 1 incident wer she supportd him...appreciated him... Forget abt love, she doesn't pocess a pinch f respect 4 her husband. Durin Anita track, she repeatedly said to Gopi dat, she shud bcm an ideal wife! Wts d right f Koki to say so, coz she's nt 1. N she always felt proud abt her upbringin f Ahem n Kinjal. Bt I strongly feel dat her parvarish hd mistake
#Ahem
Ahem s her eye-candy. N he s an obidient son towards his mother. He loves her a lot n cares 4 her. N wt abt his father? He has been totally ignorant towards his father jst lyk his mom. Take bth anniversary's f Koki n Parag. Lst year Ahem bought saree n jewellary 4 his mom as anniversary gift. N 4 his father...nothin. He 4gt to buy gifts 4 his father on his mom-dad's wedding anniversary. Gopi hs bought a watch 4 Parag, n she gv it to him wit love. At dt tym also Koki made sm comment to beat dwn her hus. Nw comin to dis years anniversary. Wen Gopi tld Ahem abt Koki-Parag's weddin anniversary, he said 'ya, we'l do smthin 4 mom.' N dad? He 4gt again. In tmrw's precap its shown dat Ahem is questionin Parag. He accuses his father 4 makin his mom sad. Hs any1 accused Koki 4 makin Parag sad all dese years? So s dis cn b called as a perfect parvarish?
#Kinjal
She s married to Dhawal. N jst lyk her mother she pocess zero respect 4 her husband. We cn c dat smwer Parag n Dhawal r similar. Dey bth live under der overruling wives. Bth Koki n Kinjal shouts at der husbands. N bth Parag n Dhawal keeps silence. Bt bth deses guys r so gud at heart dat dey nvr keeps any grudge towards der wives. Dey r stayin quite jst to keep d peace in home. Bt it doesn't mean dat dese ladies continuously test their patience.
I knw dis s a long rant. Bt dis is wt I feel. Do share ur opinion.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great rant Parvathy! Koki is very much a love/hate character. I love her and hate her at the same time lol.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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i love kokila... she is a good wife too... a ahusband who is just useless all his life and not taking the responsibility of his own family than what wife should do... kokila has doen right thing... husband cannot be a parameshwar all the life...kokila is always right...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavya

i love kokila... she is a good wife too... a ahusband who is just useless all his life and not taking the responsibility of his own family than what wife should do... kokila has doen right thing... husband cannot be a parameshwar all the life...kokila is always right...


Even when she locked Gopi up in the store-room? Or made her wear all the gold jewellery? Nah... our Koki is as flawed as any human being.

And as much as I sympathise with her plight as a wife I cannot understand her bringing up of Aham and Kinjal. Who are both spoilt brats tbh.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Koki "Shoot first ask questions later" Modi... she has often had to eat humble pie because she got it all wrong 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavya

i love kokila... she is a good wife too... a ahusband who is just useless all his life and not taking the responsibility of his own family than what wife should do... kokila has doen right thing... husband cannot be a parameshwar all the life...kokila is always right...

koki always stands for the truth.. since she takes saach ki side, there is mostly a reason for everything she does.. even if it is punishments... not everyone is the same, some people are a bit more strict, like koki 😊
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA


Even when she locked Gopi up in the store-room? Or made her wear all the gold jewellery? Nah... our Koki is as flawed as any human being.

And as much as I sympathise with her plight as a wife I cannot understand her bringing up of Aham and Kinjal. Who are both spoilt brats tbh.


whatever koki does there will be areason behind it...no one can blame koki for whatever she has done till now... she has to to lock gopi aka gia in room because she lied she broke the fast, she has to punifh gopi aka gia because gopi madam again trued to save rattie lol...

koki always punish the ppl who lie...koki hate liers...so ppl dnt like kokilas perception and her thoughts..😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great rant Parvathy.

Kokila is a highly principled and just person who does not mince her words. She may look as though she has a heart made of steel with her taunts but she can melt too if she sees one doing the right things. When one interacts with such a person one can either take to her or despise her.There is no in between.

Parag has learnt her ways and understands her completely and accommodates her but had never reminded her of her doings. Here her sister brought the truth home to Kokila of her ways and the effects it has on others.

This quality has rubbed onto her children however they are learning to modify and adapt their ways because of their partners more so Ahem than Kinjal, perhaps due to the focus on Ahem. For Ahem, will he look inwardly at himself and match his similar behaviour to Gopi?

The question to ask is: Will Kokila repent / make up for her behaviour to Parag?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well...I agree with Swasthi... Kokila is a fair, unbiased lady, who stands by truth and who is very principled.. She speaks what's in her mind and heart ..never hold back anything against anyone in her heart and mind...

regarding her parvarish.. there is nothing as Perfect parvarsih.. Parag's failure in career is one reason which made Koki more stronger and more rigid... she raised Ahem into a hardworking and educated individual for whom the aim of his life is work.. which parag failed to do.. Koki made Ahem a responsible individual which parag was never.,.. that is why koki was so mad at Ahem and severed her ties with Ahem just because she saw a single trait of Parag in Ahem when he refused to take the responsibility...


Kokila's biggest drawback is her anger which is passed on to Ahem as well... In anger she blurts out...if she is wrong she will apologize before everyone..

today, she was not at fault.. who in the world would think the Modis who always followed the ritual of puja and havan on Birthdays and anniversaries, would go in for a surprise party...

I agree with whatever parag said.. Koki was harsh . but that is how anyone would react .. specially Koki who cannot tolerate an ounce of lie .. will definitely behave the same way as she did today..

she saw the family talking behind her back and laughing when she was away.. her husband's headache.. no one got jalebi for her Gopi Vahu... and she saw her husband in the market ,.. while he claimed to be resting at home... on top of that she does not even remember her anniversary .. how was she supposed to react .. she realized her mistake.. she felt bad for not giving parag a chance to explain... yes she is not perfect.. for that matter no one in the world is perfect .. and to err is human .. she has her share,.. but today her reaction was true koki's reaction.. her outburst was very natural

and as parag himself said.. she is straightforward.. truthful and principled.. which made her into a strong woman emotionally ...but she is kind at heart... only parag or rather a husband can understand the true side of his wife... in a 30 year relation...

Her sibling jigna, could not understand her sister .. but parag does know about koki and her character...and her behavior and her love and her caring nature.. which is why he cares and loves his wife

coming to Ahem and Kinjal... they have their own share of errors .. they will learn with time.. Ahem everyday he is learning a new thing with respect to relations and we learn till our last breath.. as life is all about learning ..

for some interesting discussion we had way back in Feb ...here is the link .. to see what people had for and against Koki ...

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/saath-nibhaana-saathiya/2778495/kokila-modi-the-mom

another post .. lot of discussions...in this as well

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/saath-nibhaana-saathiya/2783871/kokila-modi-master-mind
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Great rant Parvathy! Koki is very much a love/hate character. I love her and hate her at the same time lol.



same for Parag😆

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