Why are people irritated with arnav?

Arnav was not wrong and insensitive by yelling at khushi, but neither was he right in doing so(obviously!) . he was just being himself; and that is only fair to his character. You cannot expect a very sweet asr always siding by khushi. That is just what we fans would like to see. That ,however would not be true to asr's basic character and that is somehow more important otherwise we'd be seeing an unnaturally ridiculous looking asr licking khushi's feet. Imagine that!

Right now, the entire family is positioned on shaky grounds, and so asr has to take care of the family, especially anjali and khushi. he needs to make sure that the family doesn't fall apart and so naturally he'd be upset with khushi near anjali because he doesn't want any more drama, enmity, feelings of jealousy. that really doesn't mean that he's only thinking of anjali necessarily, he's protecting khushi in an indirect way(missed by most hotblooded viewers! haha typical asr behaviour,huh?) by not trying to avoid rifts between her and anjali. khushi could be easily hurt by anjali. he doesnt want that. It's natural for asr to become angry because thats his nature and he's just being true to himself. Now obviously he got carried away and said a number of things he'd regret for the rest of his life, but you know these thoughts of khushi causing rifts in the family, of wishing he'd never met her are natural too. In fact i would be surprised if he never mentioned it at all. i would feel the same. think about it in the most humane way possible- it's human psychology . asr is not perfect. The reason i can come up with is that this thought would have been lingering in his mind ever since he suspected her of being with shyam. even after he got to know of the truth , that thought might just have been spit out subconsciously. It's not easy to forget about such things.Ever since he met khushi his life has been in turmoil. But isn't that what this love is about?It does cause suffering too. It is too much for him to take in, you know. He's human after all.

And anyway, wasn't that why we liked asr? because of his irrational , broody behaviour only when it comes to khushi. You see, he only misbehaves with khushi. No one else. Thats proof of how much she affects him, how much he desires her fervently, and yet cannot handle the situation because he's not god. Anyway after his yelling the show will become much more enjoyable to watch because this is where asr' true redemption track will start. Now he cannot forgive himself because khushi will leave the house. he took her for granted all this while, but now he'll realise how much he needs her and this is when he'll become desperate and fall at khushi's feet, begging her not to leave. This is where the fun starts.

Heehee😃😆

_WASIM_,

Kirann,