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@Heart

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Posted: 13 years ago

The line "opposites attract" is quiet a popular line and while some agree, some say that it is better to have someone who understands you rather than someone who is the exact opposite to you.

So my question for you is.. would you like to be in a relationship with someone you shares the same views and beliefs, or someone who challenges your thoughts? why?

Are you an introvert or extrovert? Are you attracted to someone who keeps his thoughts to himself (cool and calm) or who is fun loving?

Lastly, do think that similar people being in a relationship is better than "opposites attract"? do you think it is a more stable relationship and why?

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Angel-likeDevil

@Angel-likeDevil

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Posted: 13 years ago

I personally believe that opposites attract 😆

It's hard to say what kind of guys I like.

I find guys who're stable, calm, recluse, but has a curiosity to learn about life - new things, has an easy-going calm nature(socially) ~~ attractive, I have a very volatile, moody nature... so maybe that explains why I find certain guys attractive 😆 ... But, more essentially - i like guys that take life very seriously, and are attached to their family... because I am like that. So, it's a mixture, I like my future BF to be a mixture of opposite and alike 😆

OK, My parents are a living example of opposite attraction..

I guess for such opposite attraction to work out, it takes ACCEPTANCE, empathy and communication. These are key points to such relationships...and trust me, it'll never be boring, I observe my parents quite closely 😆

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Priya_aks

@priya_sparsha

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think my partner should be combination of everything. If we are pretty much the same, then it wont work. People who share same views can be friends but never really in relationships. For example, if both have ego problems then nobody is willing to swallow up our pride and accept the reality. Of course, every relationship should be valued above our pride but relationship is something different.Therefore, two same people can never be happy with each other. If there are completely two different people then there is a problem again. They probably wont enjoy each other's company. I think what matters most is if you truly love that person... everything else falls into its place😊

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IPSO_FACTO

@IPSO_FACTO

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Posted: 13 years ago

well i quite believe in opposite attracts thing...i have fallen for a guy a bit opposite to me lol i am an extrovert whereas he is an introvert...i love to be around people he likes to be alone...i am blunt but he is sweet etc etc...the thing that we have in common is we both are fun loving...but we are damn opposite personalities.

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