Originally posted by: rukhaya
I got nothing personally against interracial marriage but there are different levels of it for which I have different thoughts about like:
marrying someone from a total different religion: if u have full faith in ur religion then I believe it can be hard to marry someone who has beliefs in another religion... I'm not being against other religions but I'm jus generally saying for everyone I think tht can be hard
but then when it comes to the whole cast system some ppl be against... tht I don't regard... what is cast its nothing wht is the basis of it nothing... cast is jus a man-made thing... maybe in olden days it still had its class difference and all but especially nowadays merely cast cannot decide if someone is fit enough for u or not
overall I do believe it comes to solely the chatacter of the person and what is he like personally rather than his race... but race does have an input in it I believe as in no offence to anyone and I don't mean it any bad way or anything but I believe I associate to Asians generally more in the sense of who I'd want to marry than say a gora... I don't mean in a bad way as in I'm sure they would associate more wid ppl from their background than me too lolll... like the whole culture thing... as in wen u gonna live wid some1 for the rest of ur life... culture does come into it... like say I enjoy my dhaal chawal my bollywood movies... someone totally alien to it will not be able to associate wid me in all those things which brings in a disconnection
basicallyyy đ if someone is amazinggg and u get on wid them and tht race shud not be the reason for a 'NO!'
I had response on the caste system thing. But stupid Stupid Me , I X'd out of Google chrome. and all gone. Now tooo lazy to write everything in detail .. so
so I will make it brief ,
In terms of Caste - I understand its not part of your religion therefore u wouldn't acknowledge it or place much value on the caste system , however saying , it's nothing is politically incorrect, even if u don't recognize something don't downsize the existence of it or lessen the value without knowing what it is .
Caste system each group has a certain type of life style which they followed, a routine .That's why when it came to marriage it is more accommodating for the Girl to marry into a household that is similar to her, Making her life more easier in transition .
Nowadays We don't have Practicing Hindus sad to say but its true. so the what caste a person is from , doesn't matter.
So if Nowadays there is Inter caste marriages i don't think it should matter too much BUT not marrying into the same Gotra , I understand that ideology
- Marrying something of a different religion now , thats hard , Cuz in the course a person will lose touch with their religion and practices, which religion to teach the children ,.
and Especially a Hindu ( a practicing One ) with Christian or Muslim would be extremely difficult cuz of vegetarianism , i know for a fact i can't stand the smell coming from the meat selection in a supermarket , forget my house.
But if both people were Indian and not very practicing Hindus n Muslims/Christians then its easier , cuz the core of the Indian culture is the same , culturally many things done by desis /indians are From Hinduism, even though people don't recognize it . so it would be easier
But different race and different religion ,- that is extremely difficult and one person will have to lose a bit of themselves and their culture.
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