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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: westindian

great post, enjoyed reading your perspective of her decision and her feelings.👏

thanks for taking the time to read.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunshine99

thanks for sharing your views..😳.Khushi has become the emotional anchor for Arnav and with time she will be the same for Anjali too...

I like you...you are quite the optimist eh! but i highly doubt that Anjali would allow that anytime soon. Our Beloved Khushi always has her heart in the right place but somehow her benevolence is always misconstrued. but as long as ASR is there for her I am pleased.
-Arabella 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shastradhari

i just write in REDUX this -
i must say..we all know..
but khushi is very strong..emotionally very strong..she has that determination and strength to do what she wants to..no matter how bad the situations r..how much she loves her love ones...she has that inner will and power to get separated from them if the time demands👏

loved the thought u penned down 👏👏👏... She is an inspirational character for triumphing against all odds even with her oddities and eccentricities...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Carabelli5

I like you...you are quite the optimist eh! but i highly doubt that Anjali would allow that anytime soon. Our Beloved Khushi always has her heart in the right place but somehow her benevolence is always misconstrued. but as long as ASR is there for her I am pleased.
-Arabella 😊

fiction should should bring in optimism and that's what I like about IPK... we have enough bites of reality in our real world .. ASR has come around in a year... hopefully Anjali will see the light a bit faster as Khushi has ASR beside her now.. and he will aptly justify her selfless acts... I have confidence in him.😳

It is a pleasure interacting with you.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I really liked your analysis. Today when everyone was pointing their fingers at Khushi because she *gasps* invaded Anjali's privacy and went against Nani's completely unreasonable request, I was wondering what Anjali's nearest and dearest ever did for her? They bought her a doll to play with and built her a playhouse. When the doll turned to be broken and the playhouse crashed around her, they put enough foam around her to isolate her from the rest of the family.
Khushi did for her what even her brother did not do. She showed her a mirror.
Unfortunately, years of ignoring the truth made Anjali so weak that she could not imagine being a single mother. However, that's again her family's doing who reinforced that belief in her.
I wonder would telling her complete truth would have made any difference.. But we won't know it until someone realizes that this is not a doll but a grown woman and actually tell her the truth.
Until then, Shyam will always have an advantage over this family.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very well said... Anjali's decision might be wrong but one has to understand the grave pain she is feeling... and yes you are right Khushi did bring her to reality and show her the mirror and in that mirror Anjali saw her childhood... her days without a parent and felt that pain of not having your parent around... and for the very first time she holds her stomach like she is feeling the pain of her baby and consoling it...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

I really liked your analysis. Today when everyone was pointing their fingers at Khushi because she *gasps* invaded Anjali's privacy and went against Nani's completely unreasonable request, I was wondering what Anjali's nearest and dearest ever did for her? They bought her a doll to play with and built her a playhouse. When the doll turned to be broken and the playhouse crashed around her, they put enough foam around her to isolate her from the rest of the family.
Khushi did for her what even her brother did not do. She showed her a mirror.
Unfortunately, years of ignoring the truth made Anjali so weak that she could not imagine being a single mother. However, that's again her family's doing who reinforced that belief in her.
I wonder would telling her complete truth would have made any difference.. But we won't know it until someone realizes that this is not a doll but a grown woman and actually tell her the truth.
Until then, Shyam will always have an advantage over this family.

Thanks Tia for sharing your POV. I concur with you... today where Anjali stands is due to her family's actions of shielding her from the reality of life... They have not let her fight her demons of the past but simply allowed her to brush it below the carpet. Today too they are repeating the same mistake... they are thrusting her further into the throws of insecurities and despair...hopefully Khushi will be able to pull her out before she reaches the point of no return...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maan-and-geet

very well said... Anjali's decision might be wrong but one has to understand the grave pain she is feeling... and yes you are right Khushi did bring her to reality and show her the mirror and in that mirror Anjali saw her childhood... her days without a parent and felt that pain of not having your parent around... and for the very first time she holds her stomach like she is feeling the pain of her baby and consoling it...


thanks maan-and-geet for sharing your thoughts..😊. Anjali is in a vulnerable state right now... she needs the love and care of her family to restore her confidence and faith before she turns to the dark side as her wounds went unhealed...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunshine99


<font size="3" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Thanks Tia for sharing your POV. I concur with you... today where Anjali stands is due to her family's actions ofshieldingher from the reality of life... They have not let her fight her demons of the past but simply allowed her to brush it below the carpet. Today too they are repeating the same mistake... they are thrusting her further into the throws of insecurities and despair...hopefully Khushi will be able to pull her out before she reaches the point of no return...</font>



Depression is an ugly phase. Once someone gets into it, it takes years to get out of it. Someone has to pull you out before you are too far gone. Khushi can do it if given a chance. But of course she can do nothing right in this family. Today mamiji asked a question today, "why did you take food to her?" My question would have been, "why didn't you notice that she didn't eat anything since last night?" They thought to give her time but that might just push her off the edge...

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