Character sketch of AS

Hi guys ...

Sorry for the delay , had a crazy weekend ..I know ...I know , how can one on a dry weekend ...But I did ...nd it would be perfect , if Italy would won ... 😭...Italy broke my heart ...now my vitals organs will have to pay the price... Anyways here is my POV of AS , So sowie ..if I hurt someone ...

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D's AS 'That what I will call her . D's AS why ? Becoz being D's AS she got herself , the world around 'infact everything . All she remembered and cared for was D . U might wow , that's great .. or how lovely . But I say no . She was D's everything , but not someone I would call a perfect mother or woman . I found her very selfish and negligent as a mother .

Yes ! She brought the son of her husband's killer , gave him all the love and care in the world . But in doing so , she forgot that she had three daughters . I am not saying , it was wrong to take D in . But when you do so , you should be ready for the challenges ahead . She ignored or did not realise the effects of D's presence on Kala . Kala was not right , but as child when something effects you '.in the manner her father death did ''.it leaves an impact , difficult to erase . As Mother , I feel AS failed in handling the situation . She failed as Kala's Mother '..as she never helped or spoke to Kala to bring her out the shock and anger . If she would have , Kala might not have turned the way she was '

As D's AS I found over obsessed '' a bit too much 'U will say she treated him like a son , I would she treated like someone else child ''..as you even more careful abt someone's kids than own at times '''.This what I found abt AS ''.It was always D's Kundali , D's this ..D's That '..She was always around him''.Trying protect him as if he is breakable '''.I am saying a mother should not do so''..every mother is protective abt their kids '.But she forgot that if D's her son like wise Naku too was someone daughter ''.In Naku's case , I found her selfish '...D's accepted Naku , so she did ''Naku was good for D's as per Panditji , Only then Naku was her Bahu ''..But even then anything went wrong for D'''..Naku was first to blame .

Lastly she loved D right ''But ignored to correct him and stop , when time came ''..She could stop D from marrying Naku the first time '..But she did not even try , if she did ''..He might not done so '..Forget the marriage ''If she wanted , she could stop him becoming a Don 'But instead of stopping , she is excuses herself by giving the excuse of poverty .. I am sorry , but that answer of an escapist not of a mother .

Acc to me , she was not the perfect mother ''

Do not have time for a detail comment…on vacation…but I really loved AS and for me she was a perfect mother.

AS relationship with Dutta was beautiful. It is true that for her, Dutta was everything…just the way for Babi Naku was more important.

About Kala…I know she was not there for her when she needed her mom. But AS was a single mom with four very small kids and she had to take care of them, there trauma and her own lost…all by herself.

For me she did her best and thinking about the situation she was in…she did a great job as a mother.

I think stopping Dutta to become a Don or Dutta's first marriage…no one could have stopped Dutta.

nice post 😊AS was a selfish mom to a extent ...great thread 😊

I would say nobody is perfect, my perspective over the fact that AS was focused on Dutta more so then her own children, maybe because when she knew the story, what happened, and what Dutta had gone through as a child, he was pretty much not cared for by his own father, maybe she felt she needed to flip that experience for him so did exact opposite of Damodar. Sometimes you forget the kid may not have had clue what was going on. But I do definitely agree with the fact that she did in a way neglect her own three daughters...not realizing her own three daughters had a problem with Dutta's presence. AS was a confused person, I don't think she even knew what she needed to say or do at any point and Dutta did kind of was her support in that sense so yes selfish as well...but she did always want happiness in the family, just felt she was not one to think for herself she went with the flow...like you said especially with Nakusha issue, no one even considered her to be a human, a person who also had a family and life..it was as if she was their toy ...when wanted played with her and otherwise tossed her aside...so defo agree with that.. and your last point too...agreed ! defo she stood around and did nothing when she needed to use the authority she had ...but no...

Anyway well done post! 👍🏼

hi priya...great post 👍🏼

very well written...To me yes AS was not a perfect mother but just like aish mentioned that it was the persona of the actor palying that character that one cannot dilike her...she has got a very graceful personality...