I think J started saying this since his complete breakup with his family...G is the one who forced him to go and get his property share so that they can have a big hospital in Mumbai and he believed G as he always does there are many incidents where he blindly listens to G and follows her...that was end of his relation with his family .
J was always trying to use every chance to get close to his family, but G is the one who did not support him, when she got married to J she knows the fact that she is going to be a second wife to J and his family might not accept him and they need to show some patience to achieve their support, but since beginning she started screaming at every one, but when it came to property she wanted J to get his share .
Recent example she would have let J to go to Bangalore and she can even have her transfer in SNG if she really cares for him, but even after knowing J ego she choose to stay back in SNG and made J to stay as her assistant, when it comes to her she shouted at bhiorn for helping her to study because it hurts her self-respect, but J should accept what ever she does.
Both of them J and G wants to blame someone for their mistakes... equally blame each other she always tries to say that thumhare ghar walonki vaghase thumare MS complete nahi hua, but she knows the fact that she is also one of the reason and she feels guilty (because both of them were on leave the DM got angry and shouted at both of them and because of her words he took that decision, why just blame J for going to Jaitsar after knowing about badi masi even G went just to see what was going on in Jaitsar, in that situation any one would have gone), but she always tries to blame only his family...G always tries to blame some one.
J is selfish and idiot, but G is also equally selfish. I am happy when J is crying, but they should show equal punishment to G...she might be preofessionaly good at acheiving, but as a person or as a partner she is useless..she is even not a good human being..selfish, egoistic, proud women.
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