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In the suffocating atmosphere of indian telly congested by saas-bahu saga, mills-of-the -boons lovestory, college love story, 9th january, 10.30 pm slot at colors brought some fresh air, named 'Na bole tum na maine kuch kaha' which in no time brings mature, intelligent, youth viewers to the indian tely world, who were in badly need for some mature, unconventional love story which must be logical, simple, fresh and natural...NBT fullfilled all the criteria with great perfection and ease, much more than expected...So naturally it's starting creating mexican wave in our heart, we fall in love with this unique telly, made it an inseperable part of our daily life...
People like NBTians who were in desparet need for some quality stuff in TV which should be entertaining, heart warming but also should be logical and natural...But their quest or thirst were increasing by not getting this and then came the NBT which we embrace not with our hand, rather with our mind, our heart...People loved it because of it's slow pace, mature storyline and natural and logical execution boosted by mindblowng act of every cast and crew...But a telly can't move on in same pace or can't stick to same storyline...There must some turn, twist,up and down... But whenever a new turn or new twist or new events has started in NBT we got concerned and raising voice against this new movement by saying it's ruining NBT...It's not that those track were cliche, bogus or meaningless, illogical or unrealistic, but still we doubted them,oppose them, raised our eye borowse agaist them just because of our over concern, our fear, our insecurities that we might loose the originality, the essnce of NBT...Because when there is not much options u have, u always take extra care of what u have atleast...That's why we get concerned about even the change of Director wirter even the cameraman also...
I don't have idea whether viewers of any other telly get so much concerned about their fav telly or not... I believe they don't...Because they just like their telly but we love our NBT that's why we care for it too much...This is the sole reason most people r so much angry with the current development of the story...Also the entry of new director-writer and in the next instance the Mon-Tues day debacle add fuel to their anger...But GUYS this can happen earlier also...During prateek wala track or Rashmi track also... Also when Mann replace Amit malik, then we raised our concern (Specially I put some atom bomb in the form of IF post against this change) about the future of NBT... But CVs or he didn't disappoint us finally and we get some nice end of those track...A telly is like a tree or boulevart...it has sevaral branches or alley or subtrack...And story not always move straight ways...it takes various subplots, events and then through this subtracks it reaches some conclusion very much related to main plot and help to bring back the story in original track and boost in further moving...
Now question is how perfectly one can guide the story through those subplots and again bring back or relate to the main plot...In most of the telly, most of the time when story moves through any subplots, eventually that becomes the main plots, that they r not able get back to the main story...they meet a dead end...But till now NBT successfully executed those subplots to boost and move the main plots and make it more interesting...Sometimes there is small deviations, but it is able to bounce back...
Though NBT is popular because of it's subtlity, simplicity and slow movement...But u can't expect it to remain in that state forever...Then it will become idle...Nothing can move on in same pace through out it's tenure...There must be up and down...
As we all know it is not a usual and straight forward love story of a man and a woman... Rather it's much complicated...Here the relation is not like 2+2= 4 type simple rather it's quite complex like 2+2 = 5... So complication is inevitable in the story line... The way some people said why don't Megha comes up with expressing her love for Mohan loudly in front of the whole world bravely, I must say they can't be able to understand the original theme of NBT and misunderstood it as another usual and regular love story...But really it's not that simple... I have wrote several post regarding this and don't feel like write again...But I'm happy that CVs don't get confused by viewers urgency and move the story line in perfect manner...
Now regarding the new director-writer duo... Initially I was also very much angry and irritated and feel like killing them...Again our love and concern for NBT... But after the debacle, I found an honest effort to adapt the NBT essence both in story and execution...That same thing was happened in case of Mann also...Initially he was stumbling, but gradually got adapted and give us some beautiful epi...And seriously I don't like to judge any one by his past work, specially in this field...Doesn't matter who was a banker or some other profession before coming in this field...Being banker once doesn't reflect that u don't have the ability of writing...Who can expected that a notorious rober one day became Balmiki and wrote Ramayana...Arts or creativity is inner material and doesn't affected by outer doing...Also they worked on ekta camp once, so they don't able to keep up NBT's essence is nothing but a mere oversimplification to me...They r there to deliver whatever being asked to them...So here who ask what is more important than who deliver wht is being asked...There Ekta asked things like BALH or kyun ki saas bhi kabhi and they delivered that accordingly, and now here sudhir will ask NBT and they has to deliver it...Simple...We r sweating our head so much thinking whether our NBT's future is safe or not in their hand is nothing but again our over concern and love for NBT...But I have full faith on CV, Sudhir that they can surely guide these duo to keep the originality of NBT intact...And don't get bother by thinking what this two did in Ekta camp... I believe, Ekta would make even Rabindranath Tagore to write saas-bahu saga instead of "Gitanjali"😭😭😭, aur ye dono to bachche hai Ekta ke samne...
Now fans r fuming regarding the current MU track, also with the new entry of Manav in Meghan's life... Now in a daily soap twists and tutns r inevitable...It needs to give story a
new dimention, bring it to the next level...They r creating such atmosphere of MU obviously for some purposes and also the new entry and possibility of Megha's remarriage with surely
give some interesting "more" the story...Whenever there was a track or event is about to start we the fans started doubting whether this will ruin our show or not...But everytime Cv
proove our concern fake and give some nice scene or track...So here also they may be planning to do so, who said...So we should give them some time to see how they execute this track...But know already we r shouting they r ruining NBT and al it's cast...First allegation was Cvs ruining Megha's character, then Mohan, now nanhi and things will be go on...
Don't know what make them feel Mohan or nanhi's character is also detoriated...And for all this as usual people blaming the new Director-Writer duo...Reason is they r from Ekta camp
and their first two epis were debacle...But I believe this is not the sole reason or the main reason rather it is a mere one of few reason...The main reason is quite deep,psychological
also...And that is again too much care or love or concerned...But wait, this time not for NBT, rather for our Mohan... Yes from the very first day, he becomes one of the most precious
character,beloved character in telly world... Many are here use to watch NBT just for him...I think they don't care about story,logic,reality bla bla too much...Now as Mohan already
confessed his love for Megha several times but Megha didn't reciprocate even after mohan get shot, they got furious, disappointed and dissatisfied...And it's comming out in the form of
bashing-Megha, also the director-writer duo...Believe me after Mohan got shot and entry of manav 90% of posts in IF r regarding this...Also they r unhappy with MU not because of the way it's build up, rather because of it Mohan lives in a fool's heaven and when MU will clear Mohan will be heart broken...Every where people r crying for Monu's broken heart condition and for everything-be it Manav's entry, be it Indu's search for girl for Mohan, be it Manav talking to Megha, be it Megha replying Manav, be it manav standing behind Megha- for everything, whatever may be the reason, they choose to blame Megha and Jhappu-Dappu...Also all of us want to see more Meghan romantic scene badly because frankly speaking we rarely got to see some closeness scene of Meghan even after 100 epis have passed...Surely very long for a love story...But we all know that it's a unusual love story...Whenever I used to post some offensive things u GUYS always remind me this that it's not a teen age love story...Now I want to return the same reason to u...If u think in cool head, do u really feel, that it was possible for Megha to confess explicitely...Ohhh this damn word "confess"...Or is there anything left to be confessed explicitely...When a woman told herself Mohan becomes her "sab se bara sahara",she will be happiest to marry Mohan,when she missing him everywhere, when hearing his sound or feeling his absence, she feel sooo much pain, she cries, then tell me GUYS what more indicative or explicite things will be required to show that this woman is completely in love???!!!!!! When a woman consider some one as her "sabse bar sahara" in zindagi, I believe that express her love as clear as day light...Most of u r girls here...Me too...what do u think????? When can u able to put such remark about GUY,express such dependency on a GUy?????? I think when we feel that
u can surely and safely kep ur heart to him...As far my knowledge about girl psychology being a girl,I have learned from my life that woman has some kind of sixth sense to judge
about her perfect life partner and al least in this case I think they r not frickle minded...Also considering concept,context and consequence of NBt do u think it is possible for Megha
to reciprocate Mohan's love or tell him explicitely "I L U"...How much she tries to present herself as a strong woman or indeed she is a strong woman, but not as strong to go against the social rituals...Well tell me, if u were in her position what will u do?????? Please give answer from ur mind, not from heart
Now fans r fuming regarding the current MU track, also with the new entry of Manav in Meghan's life... Now in a daily soap twists and tutns r inevitable...It needs to give story a
new dimention, bring it to the next level...They r creating such atmosphere of MU obviously for some purposes and also the new entry and possibility of Megha's remarriage with surely
give some interesting "more" the story...Whenever there was a track or event is about to start we the fans started doubting whether this will ruin our show or not...But everytime Cv
proove our concern fake and give some nice scene or track...So here also they may be planning to do so, who said...So we should give them some time to see how they execute this track...But know already we r shouting they r ruining NBT and al it's cast...First allegation was Cvs ruining Megha's character, then Mohan, now nanhi and things will be go on...
Don't know what make them feel Mohan or nanhi's character is also detoriated...And for all this as usual people blaming the new Director-Writer duo...Reason is they r from Ekta camp
and their first two epis were debacle...But I believe this is not the sole reason or the main reason rather it is a mere one of few reason...The main reason is quite deep,psychological
also...And that is again too much care or love or concerned...But wait, this time not for NBT, rather for our Mohan... Yes from the very first day, he becomes one of the most precious
character,beloved character in telly world... Many are here use to watch NBT just for him...I think they don't care about story,logic,reality bla bla too much...Now as Mohan already
confessed his love for Megha several times but Megha didn't reciprocate even after mohan get shot, they got furious, disappointed and dissatisfied...And it's comming out in the form of
bashing-Megha, also the director-writer duo...Believe me after Mohan got shot and entry of manav 90% of posts in IF r regarding this...Also they r unhappy with MU not because of the way it's build up, rather because of it Mohan lives in a fool's heaven and when MU will clear Mohan will be heart broken...Every where people r crying for Monu's broken heart condition and for everything-be it Manav's entry, be it Indu's search for girl for Mohan, be it Manav talking to Megha, be it Megha replying Manav, be it manav standing behind Megha- for everything, whatever may be the reason, they choose to blame Megha and Jhappu-Dappu...Also all of us want to see more Meghan romantic scene badly because frankly speaking we rarely got to see some closeness scene of Meghan even after 100 epis have passed...Surely very long for a love story...But we all know that it's a unusual love story...Whenever I used to post some offensive things u GUYS always remind me this that it's not a teen age love story...Now I want to return the same reason to u...If u think in cool head, do u really feel, that it was possible for Megha to confess explicitely...Ohhh this damn word "confess"...Or is there anything left to be confessed explicitely...When a woman told herself Mohan becomes her "sab se bara sahara",she will be happiest to marry Mohan,when she missing him everywhere, when hearing his sound or feeling his absence, she feel sooo much pain, she cries, then tell me GUYS what more indicative or explicite things will be required to show that this woman is completely in love???!!!!!! When a woman consider some one as her "sabse bar sahara" in zindagi, I believe that express her love as clear as day light...Most of u r girls here...Me too...what do u think????? When can u able to put such remark about GUY,express such dependency on a GUy?????? I think when we feel that
u can surely and safely kep ur heart to him...As far my knowledge about girl psychology being a girl,I have learned from my life that woman has some kind of sixth sense to judge
about her perfect life partner and al least in this case I think they r not frickle minded...Also considering concept,context and consequence of NBt do u think it is possible for Megha
to reciprocate Mohan's love or tell him explicitely "I L U"...How much she tries to present herself as a strong woman or indeed she is a strong woman, but not as strong to go against the social rituals...Well tell me, if u were in her position what will u do?????? Please give answer from ur mind, not from heart
I think if Megha said explicitely "ha mohan main tum se pyar korta hoon" then I think people won't become so much angry...But consider without being unbiased, wouldn't it be so filmy,
cheap and loud considering the concept or background of the NBT...And this confession is one of the ace in CVs hand...may be the most precious and powerfull one...Then why should
they show their "tekka" so easily, without showing some events or dramatic things... Consider all the rival show, no.1 show in IF ranking, no.1 show in TRP chart---none of them showed confession from the lead pair, even after getting married...So.!!!!!!!! Are their fan getting restless, r they bashing their lead or directors or writers,r they fuming and consider of
quitting watching this show, or what!!!!! They give it time , have patience and watch it where it's leading finally...But we r getting sooo much impatient,restless, insecure etc etc
just by seeing promos,or precap or reading some useless halftruth article and starts speculating about invisible and unknown future and eventually impatience, insecurities and overconcern converted to anger, frustration...Now please for GOD sake don't tell that the other telly r useless but NBT is unique that's why we concerned too much...No telly can be unique throughout his tenure...It's approach, execution may be different, but after a while it has to take the formula path...If other tellys (most of them r love stories in different nature and format) r useless how can they fetch such huge TRPs...If NBT is a GenY show, intelligent tech savy modern people prefer to watch it only, how can Kunal-Akanksha jodi gets so less vote compare to Arshi or Maneet jodi...All those GenY people r voting there also because our Mummy,aunty or dadi type people who we believe to form the TRP audience,generally don't vote in web media... how can we consider NBT that so called unique or exceptional story...it's not...People get emotionally attached with it and started thinking about this way after seeing first few month...But when this starts showing some dramatic events, we r bashing at CVs...But don't have other option...They can't keep it in same manner as it was when started...Because that's impossible...It needs some dramatic events or atleast twist and turns to proceed story also to change the mentality of the lead pair...Like they suddenly changed Prateek's behavior just to plant the seed of love in Mohan's heart...Change his view towards Megha...But still he was shown to be reluctant to accept it...Then they bring Rashmi track just to finalize the establishment of Mohan's love for Megha permanently...Similarly Megha befriended with Mohan through Prateek's track...Started believing and depending on him also getting very much easy with him through Rashmi track...Then gradually through confession track at rashmi's engagement, goon-beating season and finally amar's case solving track Megha got completely sure that Mohan loves her and she also started feeling something different about Mohan...Then mohan -got-shot bring the reality of her heart out but she has to supress it due to various reasons already so many people specially suman have described vividly...Now this remarriage and Manav track they started just to make Megha accept her feelings despite all odds...may be ur so called "confession" can happen after this track and also this track pave a way for Meghan unison...But I know u people will surely dislike this track just because Mohan has to undergo a lot of pain here, may be not actually, but u guys assume it...Again that caring nature of urs...Like after watching today's epi already people started bashing Megha and Vyas family for not showing any courtsey to him by not offering him a chair...They don't even bother to see the next epi where it'll be surely shown that Mohan will be given a chair by Papaji or MIL or Megha herself..
Also some people started thinking that Manav ne Megha par itni jaldi line marna suru kar diya and Megha also enjoying his company...Also some raise point how could Manav get to know about Megha's thought and offer her a help...Come on GUYs he is an psychologist and a psychologist can read the mind, human behavior withn no time specially when some one's mind is disturbed...Forget manav even we can clearly see the disturbed mind of Megha from her face and behavior...Also some pointed out that Megha was smilling while addu bashing her...They r so furious for Mohan that they even suggest Mohan to leave Megha and choose other girl as Megha doesn't deserve him...I can't stop laughing after reading these...But I know it's not ur brain, rather ur heart which loves Mohan so much, care for him very much and not so care for Megha , raised this kind of points...Gradually they will bring everyone at GUN point just beacuse of Mohan...They r already asking is this kind track necessery to bring them together like other telly????? Now I would like to tell yes it was very much required... Not only to bring Meghan close but also to shw a very important thing i.e wheather Mohan is capable of taking resposibilies of marrying a widow with two kids...We don't have any doubt about his love for Megha...But only love is not enough for this kind of love story...U have the strength to face after marriage consequences...Lots of matuirities lots of resposibilities... But till now, don't take me otherwise, Mohan failed to show that he is able to fulfill those requirement... Giving flower in front of papaji or proposing Megha anytime, beating a goon in road surely reflects heroism, endless love but not the maturity or responsibility...Has he ever bothered to understand Megha's condition, ever wanted to know what Megha want, what's going on in her mind?????? No rather he is pushing her through one after another childish and baseless majnugiri act...But what we saw today ki even Manav was able to
or atleast try to read her mind...So I think this track will be proven a very important track both for Mohan and Megha but for completely different aspect...But I'm sure people r in no mood to think about this way because they r much bothered about Mohan and think this kind of track is just to bring him down... Again too much love or care...
cheap and loud considering the concept or background of the NBT...And this confession is one of the ace in CVs hand...may be the most precious and powerfull one...Then why should
they show their "tekka" so easily, without showing some events or dramatic things... Consider all the rival show, no.1 show in IF ranking, no.1 show in TRP chart---none of them showed confession from the lead pair, even after getting married...So.!!!!!!!! Are their fan getting restless, r they bashing their lead or directors or writers,r they fuming and consider of
quitting watching this show, or what!!!!! They give it time , have patience and watch it where it's leading finally...But we r getting sooo much impatient,restless, insecure etc etc
just by seeing promos,or precap or reading some useless halftruth article and starts speculating about invisible and unknown future and eventually impatience, insecurities and overconcern converted to anger, frustration...Now please for GOD sake don't tell that the other telly r useless but NBT is unique that's why we concerned too much...No telly can be unique throughout his tenure...It's approach, execution may be different, but after a while it has to take the formula path...If other tellys (most of them r love stories in different nature and format) r useless how can they fetch such huge TRPs...If NBT is a GenY show, intelligent tech savy modern people prefer to watch it only, how can Kunal-Akanksha jodi gets so less vote compare to Arshi or Maneet jodi...All those GenY people r voting there also because our Mummy,aunty or dadi type people who we believe to form the TRP audience,generally don't vote in web media... how can we consider NBT that so called unique or exceptional story...it's not...People get emotionally attached with it and started thinking about this way after seeing first few month...But when this starts showing some dramatic events, we r bashing at CVs...But don't have other option...They can't keep it in same manner as it was when started...Because that's impossible...It needs some dramatic events or atleast twist and turns to proceed story also to change the mentality of the lead pair...Like they suddenly changed Prateek's behavior just to plant the seed of love in Mohan's heart...Change his view towards Megha...But still he was shown to be reluctant to accept it...Then they bring Rashmi track just to finalize the establishment of Mohan's love for Megha permanently...Similarly Megha befriended with Mohan through Prateek's track...Started believing and depending on him also getting very much easy with him through Rashmi track...Then gradually through confession track at rashmi's engagement, goon-beating season and finally amar's case solving track Megha got completely sure that Mohan loves her and she also started feeling something different about Mohan...Then mohan -got-shot bring the reality of her heart out but she has to supress it due to various reasons already so many people specially suman have described vividly...Now this remarriage and Manav track they started just to make Megha accept her feelings despite all odds...may be ur so called "confession" can happen after this track and also this track pave a way for Meghan unison...But I know u people will surely dislike this track just because Mohan has to undergo a lot of pain here, may be not actually, but u guys assume it...Again that caring nature of urs...Like after watching today's epi already people started bashing Megha and Vyas family for not showing any courtsey to him by not offering him a chair...They don't even bother to see the next epi where it'll be surely shown that Mohan will be given a chair by Papaji or MIL or Megha herself..
Also some people started thinking that Manav ne Megha par itni jaldi line marna suru kar diya and Megha also enjoying his company...Also some raise point how could Manav get to know about Megha's thought and offer her a help...Come on GUYs he is an psychologist and a psychologist can read the mind, human behavior withn no time specially when some one's mind is disturbed...Forget manav even we can clearly see the disturbed mind of Megha from her face and behavior...Also some pointed out that Megha was smilling while addu bashing her...They r so furious for Mohan that they even suggest Mohan to leave Megha and choose other girl as Megha doesn't deserve him...I can't stop laughing after reading these...But I know it's not ur brain, rather ur heart which loves Mohan so much, care for him very much and not so care for Megha , raised this kind of points...Gradually they will bring everyone at GUN point just beacuse of Mohan...They r already asking is this kind track necessery to bring them together like other telly????? Now I would like to tell yes it was very much required... Not only to bring Meghan close but also to shw a very important thing i.e wheather Mohan is capable of taking resposibilies of marrying a widow with two kids...We don't have any doubt about his love for Megha...But only love is not enough for this kind of love story...U have the strength to face after marriage consequences...Lots of matuirities lots of resposibilities... But till now, don't take me otherwise, Mohan failed to show that he is able to fulfill those requirement... Giving flower in front of papaji or proposing Megha anytime, beating a goon in road surely reflects heroism, endless love but not the maturity or responsibility...Has he ever bothered to understand Megha's condition, ever wanted to know what Megha want, what's going on in her mind?????? No rather he is pushing her through one after another childish and baseless majnugiri act...But what we saw today ki even Manav was able to
or atleast try to read her mind...So I think this track will be proven a very important track both for Mohan and Megha but for completely different aspect...But I'm sure people r in no mood to think about this way because they r much bothered about Mohan and think this kind of track is just to bring him down... Again too much love or care...
And finally what do u think????? haa... NBT is also a mere telly, not a gift from GOD...Also if not the use of this kind of twist and track, then U guys tell me how would they bring them closer...How much frindly they were it is impossible for Megha to think about Mohan this way without a big mental push...Also some suggest that ki they can show building up of love through every day's interaction...
That is quite convincing and realistic but how can u show in a serial...This kind things requires mainly the mental or psychological events or thinking...How can they show it ki what leads r thinking or will they show every time that they r thinking every days interaction with a voice over in the back ground narrating their thinking...Now is it possible in daily telly or will people accept this kind of trck????? Now it may be possible but it requires a long time...But all know ki CVs has to end it by atleast october for BB so they can't go for such things and also they has to do things fast thats whay they bring so much twist, turns, drama, some of which are unnecessery...Now it's inevitable that some time hero or some time heroine has to pass through the drastic condition, humiliation, sorrow bla bla bla to achieve their goal or love...Be it NBT or other telly...So unique, exceptional those words for NBT are mere over-hype...Every telly has to follow some formula method, whatever telly it would be...
That is quite convincing and realistic but how can u show in a serial...This kind things requires mainly the mental or psychological events or thinking...How can they show it ki what leads r thinking or will they show every time that they r thinking every days interaction with a voice over in the back ground narrating their thinking...Now is it possible in daily telly or will people accept this kind of trck????? Now it may be possible but it requires a long time...But all know ki CVs has to end it by atleast october for BB so they can't go for such things and also they has to do things fast thats whay they bring so much twist, turns, drama, some of which are unnecessery...Now it's inevitable that some time hero or some time heroine has to pass through the drastic condition, humiliation, sorrow bla bla bla to achieve their goal or love...Be it NBT or other telly...So unique, exceptional those words for NBT are mere over-hype...Every telly has to follow some formula method, whatever telly it would be...
Yes obviously the execution does matter...Here u can put those words for NBT but content wise there is 19-20 difference between each and every telly...So I DON'T FIND THE CURRENT TRACK UNNECESSERY OR USELESS OR BADLY EXECUTED...Rather I must say except two epi, it was going quite a good manner which in future would be very fruitful...But I know u GUYS won't like this Manav and remarriage wala track and keep bashing everyone for next 30 epis because of Mohan's heart breaking :)...But it was expected...Because again that too much love or care for a telly or a character...
Few day's ago I post mentioning that NBT is no longer different from other telly and it is inevitable...But people bash me severely, even with some nasty jokes and remarks...Now I 'm sure that u GUYS r feeling how correct I was...But I didn't mind anything because of that rant, as I know those were not ur personal view, rather it's ur endless love and concerned for this telly or characters, because I also felt like same way about any telly I liked and got emotionally attached...But finally discover that every telly r same in content and the up and down r inevitable...So at one point surely ur emotion gets hurt and disappointment or dissatisfection make u restless and for that u will miss the good which is still there...So please don't get emotionaly attached with any telly or character...Just watch it as far as it's
worth to watch...and when u find it's not, then leave it...
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