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Originally posted by: Shehnaz.K
A slap on tv by our hero = initiation of domestic violence in india (Side effects of SJayte)
4m now on kunal wil only give gyan to witcha even if she kills siddhi in future. 😡 as indian masses follow this man made box so religiously.
Like you, I have to say, the slap was much needed. The slap was a warning to Richa, not to take him for a fool anymore and not to expect him to sit silently while she keep attacking his wife because she will not take no for an answer.
He already said what he feels about her the other day and said she would be the last person he would be seeking any advice and that his life is Siddhi who was with him through thick and thin.
Does slapping makes Kunal an abusive man and even less than a real man.? Depends on how you want to look at it.
When we say abusive man, normally its more related to domestic violences between a husband and wife in most cases. This case the victim is normally the naive, innocent one who does not know how to fight back. She keeps quiet and takes everything silently. The beatings, the sexual abuse, bullying because she is soft and does not know how to fight back her husband. Normally in such context the man has a disturbed child hood , broken families...etc.
Our parants, teachers, law enforcement authorities, have taught to stay away from exerting physcial violence.Very true. But when it comes to self -defence, even your parents will tell , do what you have to do. Protect your self. Not in many words , but the invisible message is there.
In this case it was the exact opposite. It was Richa who was abusing Kunal...
Richa did a big number of Kunal. Left him when he needed her most. Belittled him. Accused him of raping her when all he did was to protect her as a friend. Lastly kidnapped his wife and even hired killers to finish her. He didn't do anything except for the one hospital scene where he was waiting for Siddhi fighting for her life. And now this in broad daylight trying once again to kill his wife.That's the last straw any man can take.
I fully agree hitting a woman is a big No but then when a stalker has become a real pain and a big threat to his loved ones, things change and he took control of the situation. He did not know what she was up to but he knew something bad was going to happen to Siddhi.. He saved his wife in the nick of time or otherwise he would have lost both Siddhi and his baby.
What would one do under the situtation. Get of the car and say calmly
" Look Richa, you better stop this nonsense or I will report you to the police. Dont you understand I dont love you'?
Obviously not. Here Kunal reacted more appropriately to what a normal basic man would do after being taunted provoked , threatened repeatedly despite knowing how he felt about her and the situations. He made it very clear to her.
A Man got to do what a man go to do. He slapped her. Wanted to hurt her and let her know what he thinks about her in that Slap. Worthless piece of human being! He was not correcting her or expecting her to show any remorse or even reform. . He knows she was beyond help. She cannot be redeemed at all. What I liked most he dragged her to her father and told he what he did and that he will not be silent bystander anymore.
In this aspect, he was not hitting a helpless woman or bullying her. He just retaliated in protecting his wife and baby after the 2nd time she tried to kill his wife again.. He is not abusive by doing this act, this does not makes him any less than a real man.
Remember the movie Fatal attraction. Glenn close would not leave Michael Douglas. Keep stalking him and hurting his family , even though what he did here was wrong as a married man. He talked to her, appealed to her and even tried to strangle her , reported to the police but nothing happened. She just would not leave him and his family.
.In the end, Anne Archer took the final shot at Glenn Close and I still remember how the whole Theatre went crazy with uproar and cheered for Anne Archer for finally finishing off Glenn. Hope we don't get to see like this in Parichay but I would not mind.!
As for the slap, I don't like physical violence but this case was different. I would have reacted in the same manner but I know I will be punished by the law for taking matters into my own hand. At times like in such situation one does not stop , ask and think logically. Your defence mode is fully switched on. . And Kunal's slap was not wrong at all.That's my take on this
@hima - yes I say it so many times, Parichay & Kunal is so much close to reality. I would've been angry & worried if he had just walked out from there with no reaction what so ever. I would raise question on Kunal for not doing anything there.
@silambu - I agree with every word you said. I don't need to add anything there but just say few words in your support. Kunal sure took more than enough nonsense from Thakrals. Not that the immediate situation was enough for such reaction, but also He was at his triggering point. Just how much does a man or any person is suppose to take?As I said, the slap was not just a reaction to situation, but it was a deceleration that he is done taking crap from Richa and Thakral. They talk about revenge; Kunal also knows what is revenge. SO many times he dealt with them calm & stern words. But now Even if they are not going to stop, he's not going to be a bystander anymore.I had said some time ago that Richa-Kunal interaction was much like victim-offender where Kunal was victim. And many of us were not happy with the fact that Kunal is taking whatever. But the slap said that is done for good. I do not suggest that we take situation in our hand and have no regard of law, but at times some things are necessary and even justice system acknowledges it. I am not in favor of violence, no way in hell violence against woman or any person for that matter. But here the slap was necessary and I am glad it happened, my POV.
Exactly.! Well said and fully agreed. No one is in favour of phsycial violence be it on a man or a woman. I would not say what Kunal did was right . But then again I wouldn't say what he did was wrong either. The situation has snowballed into a point where there was no more turning back. The Slap here was appropriate . And by supporting this, it does not make us or even Kunal/Sameer even close to having animal instincts severely lacking human intelligence. Just my POV. Thanks Jay!