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Posted: 13 years ago
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Like many people, I was so excited to see Kunal finally slapping Witcha. I still remember hospital scene. Ever since then, I was hoping when would Kunal or Siddhi give it directly to Richa and show her what's her place in their lives. See slap is not just anger or force or a beat down. I always felt slap hurts more to your sense of being, self-respect and has effect on how you carry yourself. So more than physical, it's an insult on your face. It always hurt me more when my mother slapped me than just hitting me. A slap conveys more than just force.

So what does Kunal slapping Richa mean? Usually whenever Kunal has slapped anyone; be it Raveena or Gaurav, it follows by some indication on Kunal's part that provides words to that slap. Here we obviously know why Kunal slapped Richa but then he took her to Daddy T. There he warned Thakral's he had enough. So far he sympathized with them that Rohit was dead, but that doesn't mean they are just going to do whatever they wish. He took enough crap form them, but now it's about his wife.

Until now Kunal was in defensive mode. His goal was to protect Siddhi and he did that by taking the blame on him and by stopping Richa. But slap on Richa's face and what he said to Thakral indicate now he's not just defensive, but he can be offensive if needed. He sure suffered enough attack, but now he is ready to attack if necessary. So really the slap was not just to Richa; but for Thakral family. First he showed them action and then followed dialogues. He just didn't throw fancy dialogues to start with, but already gave them a sense of what can happen.

When Kunal came out of car he asked Siddhi to stay out of it. He went to Richa and gave her what she deserved (she deserves much more but...), but he didn't say anything as his message was not just for Richa, but to all of his enemies.

I loved the scene to core but was thinking if slap was just there to entertain us or can there be more to it. I think slap was sure an immediate reaction, but not the whole story. To me slap conveyed that Kunal is not just ready on defensive front; but if necessary he's ready to attack no matter who is in front of him, be it some hired guns (like kidnapping) or person he once cared for. Now he no longer is going to hold back in the name of decency or out of so called respect. No Thakral's took enough advantage of that and used most cheap tricks they can. Of course Kunal is not going go down to their level, but he will use whatever is necessary to stop them and show who they are dealing with.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said Jay.. Kunal is not a person who would show the other cheek to his enemies. He was never shown as a person who would take any crap from anyone including his own siblings. He slapped Raveena before her marriage. He beat the crap out of Rohit on Raveena's wedding day. He slapped rohit a couple of times after that as well. He slapped Gaurav when he came to know about his EMA. So, yesterday's slap was in line with his character as well. The main reason siddhi hides things from Kunal is his aggressive and angry nature. I feel anyone in his position like yesterday would do the same thing. He did not slap her, lecture her and leave her on the road. He brought her back to her father and said the needful in front of him. This shows he is a man of principles and at the same time a very protective husband who would go to any length if their existence is at stake.

I am really happy with yesterday's episode and would not want anything to be changed. One reason I like parichay is its closeness to reality. And in reality, anyone would do exactly what kunal did.
Edited by hima2012 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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A slap on tv by our hero = initiation of domestic violence in india (Side effects of SJayte)

4m now on kunal wil only give gyan to witcha even if she kills siddhi in future. 😡 as indian masses follow this man made box so religiously.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shehnaz.K

A slap on tv by our hero = initiation of domestic violence in india (Side effects of SJayte)

4m now on kunal wil only give gyan to witcha even if she kills siddhi in future. 😡 as indian masses follow this man made box so religiously.


Yes, Shehnaz.. doesn't make sense to me either. Why is a normal slap being blown out of proportion and given all kinds of meanings It would have been really stupid if Richa did not get slapped in the given situation
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Like you, I have to say, the slap was much needed. The slap was a warning to Richa, not to take him for a fool anymore and not to expect him to sit silently while she keep attacking his wife because she will not take no for an answer.

He already said what he feels about her the other day and said she would be the last person he would be seeking any advice and that his life is Siddhi who was with him through thick and thin.

Does slapping makes Kunal an abusive man and even less than a real man.? Depends on how you want to look at it.

When we say abusive man, normally its more related to domestic violences between a husband and wife in most cases. This case the victim is normally the naive, innocent one who does not know how to fight back. She keeps quiet and takes everything silently. The beatings, the sexual abuse, bullying because she is soft and does not know how to fight back her husband. Normally in such context the man has a disturbed child hood , broken families...etc.

Our parants, teachers, law enforcement authorities, have taught to stay away from exerting physcial violence.Very true. But when it comes to self -defence, even your parents will tell , do what you have to do. Protect your self. Not in many words , but the invisible message is there.

In this case it was the exact opposite. It was Richa who was abusing Kunal...

Richa did a big number of Kunal. Left him when he needed her most. Belittled him. Accused him of raping her when all he did was to protect her as a friend. Lastly kidnapped his wife and even hired killers to finish her. He didn't do anything except for the one hospital scene where he was waiting for Siddhi fighting for her life. And now this in broad daylight trying once again to kill his wife.That's the last straw any man can take.

I fully agree hitting a woman is a big No but then when a stalker has become a real pain and a big threat to his loved ones, things change and he took control of the situation. He did not know what she was up to but he knew something bad was going to happen to Siddhi.. He saved his wife in the nick of time or otherwise he would have lost both Siddhi and his baby.

What would one do under the situtation. Get of the car and say calmly

" Look Richa, you better stop this nonsense or I will report you to the police. Dont you understand I dont love you'?

Obviously not. Here Kunal reacted more appropriately to what a normal basic man would do after being taunted provoked , threatened repeatedly despite knowing how he felt about her and the situations. He made it very clear to her.

A Man got to do what a man go to do. He slapped her. Wanted to hurt her and let her know what he thinks about her in that Slap. Worthless piece of human being! He was not correcting her or expecting her to show any remorse or even reform. . He knows she was beyond help. She cannot be redeemed at all. What I liked most he dragged her to her father and told he what he did and that he will not be silent bystander anymore.

In this aspect, he was not hitting a helpless woman or bullying her. He just retaliated in protecting his wife and baby after the 2nd time she tried to kill his wife again.. He is not abusive by doing this act, this does not makes him any less than a real man.

Remember the movie Fatal attraction. Glenn close would not leave Michael Douglas. Keep stalking him and hurting his family , even though what he did here was wrong as a married man. He talked to her, appealed to her and even tried to strangle her , reported to the police but nothing happened. She just would not leave him and his family.

.In the end, Anne Archer took the final shot at Glenn Close and I still remember how the whole Theatre went crazy with uproar and cheered for Anne Archer for finally finishing off Glenn. Hope we don't get to see like this in Parichay but I would not mind.!

As for the slap, I don't like physical violence but this case was different. I would have reacted in the same manner but I know I will be punished by the law for taking matters into my own hand. At times like in such situation one does not stop , ask and think logically. Your defence mode is fully switched on. . And Kunal's slap was not wrong at all.That's my take on this

Edited by Silambu - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@hima - yes I say it so many times, Parichay & Kunal is so much close to reality. I would've been angry & worried if he had just walked out from there with no reaction what so ever. I would raise question on Kunal for not doing anything there.

@silambu - I agree with every word you said. I don't need to add anything there but just say few words in your support. Kunal sure took more than enough nonsense from Thakrals. Not that the immediate situation was enough for such reaction, but also He was at his triggering point. Just how much does a man or any person is suppose to take?
As I said, the slap was not just a reaction to situation, but it was a deceleration that he is done taking crap from Richa and Thakral. They talk about revenge; Kunal also knows what is revenge. SO many times he dealt with them calm & stern words. But now Even if they are not going to stop, he's not going to be a bystander anymore.
I had said some time ago that Richa-Kunal interaction was much like victim-offender where Kunal was victim. And many of us were not happy with the fact that Kunal is taking whatever. But the slap said that is done for good. I do not suggest that we take situation in our hand and have no regard of law, but at times some things are necessary and even justice system acknowledges it. I am not in favor of violence, no way in hell violence against woman or any person for that matter. But here the slap was necessary and I am glad it happened, my POV.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jay_bpm

@hima - yes I say it so many times, Parichay & Kunal is so much close to reality. I would've been angry & worried if he had just walked out from there with no reaction what so ever. I would raise question on Kunal for not doing anything there.


@silambu - I agree with every word you said. I don't need to add anything there but just say few words in your support. Kunal sure took more than enough nonsense from Thakrals. Not that the immediate situation was enough for such reaction, but also He was at his triggering point. Just how much does a man or any person is suppose to take?
As I said, the slap was not just a reaction to situation, but it was a deceleration that he is done taking crap from Richa and Thakral. They talk about revenge; Kunal also knows what is revenge. SO many times he dealt with them calm & stern words. But now Even if they are not going to stop, he's not going to be a bystander anymore.
I had said some time ago that Richa-Kunal interaction was much like victim-offender where Kunal was victim. And many of us were not happy with the fact that Kunal is taking whatever. But the slap said that is done for good. I do not suggest that we take situation in our hand and have no regard of law, but at times some things are necessary and even justice system acknowledges it. I am not in favor of violence, no way in hell violence against woman or any person for that matter. But here the slap was necessary and I am glad it happened, my POV.

Exactly.! Well said and fully agreed. No one is in favour of phsycial violence be it on a man or a woman. I would not say what Kunal did was right . But then again I wouldn't say what he did was wrong either. The situation has snowballed into a point where there was no more turning back. The Slap here was appropriate . And by supporting this, it does not make us or even Kunal/Sameer even close to having animal instincts severely lacking human intelligence. Just my POV. Thanks Jay!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nothing more to add.. completely agree with all of you ... what he did was appropriate and much needed..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silambu

Exactly.! Well said and fully agreed. No one is in favour of phsycial violence be it on a man or a woman. I would not say what Kunal did was right . But then again I wouldn't say what he did was wrong either. The situation has snowballed into a point where there was no more turning back. The Slap here was appropriate . And by supporting this, it does not make us or even Kunal/Sameer even close to having animal instincts severely lacking human intelligence. Just my POV. Thanks Jay!


Agree with everything you say about animal instincts. Hey and at times, that is what allows us to survive; I don't want to go into whole evolutionary theories, but it is a fact.
@ red - I agree at times you gotta do what you gotta do. Some things just can't be weighed as right or wrong, they are simply beyond it. Again just my POV
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Enough had been said & discussed on this topic in the previous thread which had to be locked down ..
I see no need to discuss this whole thing again ..


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