would you marry an IPS officer?

orange24 thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
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Can someone tell me how is life marrying an IPS officer?


i recently got a proposal, my family said he would have bungalow, vehicles, luxury. But i felt like saying 'no' cos am worried.. salary will not be much plus there can be corruption (am not sure), transfers.. will their life be stressful? do they give time to family and wife? i thought he wont be able to give me enough time.. i wonder if they have a romantic married life.. how would be family life and personal life with him? what are the pros and cons? do they lead a royal life? do they really become very rich? is there threat to life or its not always?
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panii thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
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stop being dumb!!!! IPS is service to country, if money becomes your priority , there is noo end to it!!!
if you can be proud of his achievements, and be happy with the sattus you get and recognition, then proceed, else drop it. let the guy be happy atleast

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Posted: 12 years ago
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if you marry someone , marry them for their HEART !! not looks, money,etc... just ask him how his daily life style is, i m sure he will find time for his wife and family. as far as being rich , you have to work hard and hopefuly get a raise. again i say marry someone for their HEART !! and marry a rich person you seem to have everything but sometime it lack something !

happiest people on earth are those who have each other love and being their for each other thru ups and down !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Itz totally depends on u, listen to ur Heart
avtarini thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
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If you know someone personally, know their good heart, then its a different matter, money and occupation are not important then. But if its an arranged marriage, you haven't even met the guy, then you have all the right to agree only to the alliance which fits your requirements. In arranged marriage you should think only of what suits you.
That being said, IPS life is tough these days, what with naxals and politicians breathing down their necks. One can do a lot of good, but the colleagues, superiors and politicians may not like it.
So if you are in love, follow your heart, if its an arranged marriage, use your brain. All the best!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree with the last writer that you should also use your brains not only your heart in choosing a life partner.

But if you go by how rich he is then that marriage may not last long; nevertheless, i'd advise you to make sure he is a hard working and educated. i dont care how rich he is right now, but if you marry a lazy man(even if he is rich) you will never develop respect for him, more over if things gets bad. you will remain poor forever. but if your man is hard working, both of you will never lack. even he is not very rich for now. both of you will grow.

but you have a valid question, the bad thing is only a person married to an IPS officer can answer your questions, because he/she is facing its ups and downs.

moreover when a person is family oriented, they will always have time for their family, but when that person is not, even if they dont work, you will never see them close to their families.
I think being a doctor or IPS officer is wonderful and honorable, because of the nature of their jobs, even their families are specially choosing by God for them. you have to have God in your heart to be a satisfied wife of a IPS officer or a Doctor.

Edited by avyarima - 12 years ago

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