Im Confused

Originally posted by: -Adu-

i like a guy since more than a year though he has a girl friend...i can bet that i luv him more than his girl friend do...but i knw that he luvs her more than he likes me...so i never tell him that i like him...and i also dont want to break their relationship...my first question is that...is this luv?...i mean im 16 year old...as in teenage this things happens...so is this just a crush or a love?

+ We r very good friends...he calls me his best friend...but yesterday his gf told him that some1 has told her that he told me "i luv u"...she feels insecure though he didnt do such thing...he never told me "i luv u"...so after hearing this rumour he is scared of loosing his gf / inviting misunderstandings...so he told me that he dont wanna talk to me...he will not talk to me anymore...we should not talk with each other anymore...

i never got his luv...but now im loosing his friendship also...in the whole thing what is my fault? ...why my heart is breaking into pieces ...what wrong have i done?

Originally posted by: mr.superkool

I think its better u be his friend as of now...

This can be just attraction towards him or ur crush ... You will know this slowly as ur life moves on...

But as of now u don't destroy ur friendship for love sake.😊

Originally posted by: -Adu-

i knw i will lose his friendship if i say i love him...so i didnt...he doesnt know i do...but becoz of the rumour that have spread he dont wanna talk to me...

im gonna lose his friendship without doing anything.

Originally posted by: mr.superkool

You know ur not wrong ...don't explain him...If u keep explaining him things will go even worst and ppl will think u explaining bcos ur wrong ...if he is ur real good friend he will be back to u not so soon but one day realizing this that he had done wrong leaving u for no reasons...if he

does not come he is not ur friend... no one can loose there friendship for sumone saying non sense stuff u know like that stupid guy did...friendship place more important role then love that stupid guy don't know this😊

Originally posted by: -Adu-

thanks dear...it helps me a lot...i cant talk to my another close friend as im in home...so itz actually reduced my pain after talking with u!

Originally posted by: -Adu-

i ve tried this before i didnt talk with him frm december to the end of march...i thought i will forget him...but no...i couldnt ...maybe itz becoz im obsessed with him a lot...we both r serious about our studies...he stands in to 5 in his school...im not so brilliant but im too an average student...he got 89% in boards & i got 82%...

he always flirts with me when his gf didnt know he talks with me like this...he said he likes me even 2 days ego...he used to talk about kissing me etc etc pretending like he is joking...he told me "i luv u" many times but then he said he is joking...

then i told i like him (i didnt tell him that i like him like hell...i pretended it to be casual...i mean not that kind of like) then he told he has a loyal gf...but he can be my best buddy... why he is doing such thing???... i mean telling me that he likes me & then when i did he told he has a loyal gf...i mean what the hell??

Ps - i told u in my first post (topic) that he never told me "i luv u" but in this post ive written he told...bcoz he didnt tell " i luv u" seriously that was joke..he did that joke many times

Originally posted by: -Adu-

oh god...he was just playing with my feelings?...how could i be so fool...?...i thought he maybe dont luv me...but he do like me...is that mean he is neither loyal to his gf nor to his friend...and what have i done?...was i ruining their relationship?...i didnt want to do that...seriously.