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ipkkndholic

@ipkkndholic

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Posted: 13 years ago

I understand the need to hike up the drama quotient... but by showing Khushi agree to feed Shyam is giving a very wrong message to the generation who is just learning how to deal with the outside - beraham world.

A teenager will think that its ok to agree to such demands if that is gonna help in achieving what your goal.

I personally think its a BIG NO. There is no need to do ANYTHING / EVERYTHING to manipulate people like Shyam.. They should have shown Khushi using her "I hate you both & I will never do this" for his demand.

Girls out there - who watch this with all their heart and somewhere believe in the dream world - hoping that they too will find their ASR, please listen to this carefully -

1. Yes - there will be Shyam's in the house...

2. Yes - you may not be able to fight with them always using force

3. Yes - you may need to employ different techniques to manipulate such creep & by this I mean "some innovative creative ideas"

4. Yes - at times they will create a situation where you will feel that its the only way out and you have to submit to their demands

But please please please listen carefully to your heart... and always remember...

If you do it once, there is no end & there will be no limit to demands too...

So nip it at its bud.. don't let them think that you will do ANYTHING...

I know this show is for entertainment, but at the same time I am afraid it does influence you in many ways...

So please choose "What to learn" from these shows..

Sorry for this de-tour, but I sincerely felt it, so thought would share it across

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@humeshaa

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think it the most important thing to keep in mind is every situation is different. Just like you can't use the same medicine for all illnesses, you can't use the same solution/method to solve all problems. I guess its the perspective you look at it from. In a way, this is good because it is teaching everyone to be self confident and fight for what is right. Just like that one quote " Zulm karna paap hai par zulm sehna usse bhi bada paap hai" (To do injustice is a sin but to quietly accept injustice is even a bigger sin) You are right though, we have to think about every situation and decide for a ourselves and not blindly believe any one or any show

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ipkkndholic

@ipkkndholic

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: s1ma
In a way, this is good because it is teaching everyone to be self confident and fight for what is right. ... Just like you can't use the same medicine for all illnesses, you can't use the same solution/method to solve all problems.

I agree with what you are saying..

May be my post is not coming out correctly..

I do agree with using the manipulative ways with such people..

but I wanted to highlight the physical advances part - which is what I meant by a BIG NO.. hope that explains it better

P.S. I changed the sequence in the quoted message.. just to convey my point.

Edited by ipkkndholic - 13 years ago

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@Semeira

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: s1ma
<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">I think it the most important thing to keep in mind is every situation is different. Just like you can't use the same medicine for all illnesses, you can't use the same solution/method to solve all problems. I guess its the perspective you look at it from. In a way, this is good because it is teaching everyone to be self confident and fight for what is right. Just like that one quote " Zulm karna paap hai par zulm sehna usse bhi bada paap hai" (To do injustice is a sin but to quietly accept injustice is even a bigger sin) You are right though, we have to think about every situation and decide for a ourselves and not blindly believe any one or any show</font>

I totally agree with you

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