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Posted: 13 years ago
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hello guys here im with my view i just want u all to go through my post complitly mean litrealy complitly and coment..!!
I have been through many of all ur coments and point of view here im with my point view .i wnt write in my post ki bashers be away from my post ..bcozz i have written such things ki u guys wnt get a resn to bash
NAITIK:I see many ppl come to forum n say naitik na aisa kiya waise kiya he dnt desreve akshara ,,he is nt a correct business man bla bla bla..i wnt to ask kyu naitik na aisa kiya hi kya hai ..?
AS A BUSINESS MAN:Let me clear u im a business student indeed..thr is no grt person's business foundation which came up without falling several times .naitik MBA hai toh kya ..all MBA's r perfect with thr business nahi na ..?the great business tycoon's go through and going through many down..kya ek baar down fall hone say the person is good for nothing n all than why is naitik pointed ki he cnt do business.??
AS A HUSBAND:He is a ideal husband,He is a husband which every girl dreams .Kya if he shouts at akshara r get irritated by her at times.i know many of us r nt married here so say me.when we are frustrated do we dnt shout n fight with our best frnds and sibblings..we genraly fight and shout more at our best frnds nly .hai na
guys love is same just thy are named according to relations.we shuout at our loved one's ..naitik immensely loves akshara,tht wizze when he is angry r get irriated he does realise his imotions on akhsara ..aur kya na kaare he loves her .
kya u guys forgot his endless caring infrnt of his small shouting..?
bashers:Im asking u where way u guys when naitik was beside akshara during her miscarriage .where way u guys when naitik was protecting akshara.taab toh u dint come and appriciate him.we say na my frnd i can scold her tease her how much ever i wnt but any other point at her i wll kill u ..same is with husband and wife realtion
sumdays back seeing this all even i was mujhe nahi shaadi kaarni n all n all..per when i gave a taught i was thinking imotions r same bas realtion take new name's
Its comon human nature koi hamare liya kitna bhi acha kyu na kaare.unki an galti say woh saari acchai meth jaati hai .y guys y negative things so much effect ki .1 negtive things can kill 1000 nice things
aggar u guys still think naitik is nt perfectionaist thn acha hai ..?kyu i wll anwer in end of my post
AKSHARA:I have seen many ppl saying ..she is a weak character,she cnt stand up for her son,anyting she starts crying bla bla..bla..
the great docters around world ki tears is the bestest way to realise ur pain.it litens ur heart.u knw men dnt cry genrally docters survey say ki in heart attacks 70% majority is men,the main reson given was thy are tuff ppl ..thy dnt cry out thr pain .
akshara kyu ..we cry for small things ..we cry whn our parents shout at us,we cry when we see other's crying,we cry when we fight with our frnds and siblings,we cry when we are pain,we cry when our loved one's r nt well , we cry when we express our love,we cry when wnt understand wht to do
docters say anything bfr reacting and thinking wht to do we cry ,,acc to docter survey 95% of the women around the world cry at this situations
toh akshara kaha jyaada roti hai yaar .same like u and me at any such situation she first cry's thn reacts later
akshara kaha weak hai yaar :
she was the one who took dadaji to hospital
she was the one who expossed pandit
she was the one who ran over theif
Instead of prasing her at this things she is addressed as SUPER WOMEN cumon yaar this are so so big task ki directly call her SUPER WOMEN
she opens her mouth infrnt of g3 ,but she say her pleadingly bcozz she respects g3 ..I do agree she is a mother she should stand up..she will stand up yaar that too bfr its too late
A CONVERATION WITH FEW ELDERS
MOM:beta accept ur saas as mother .
ME: but the mom the way thy shout and tount
MOM:cumon this is silly.kya me and dad wnt shout at u ..wnt taunt u r restrict u all the time.??
ME:u can bcozz ur my mom
MOM:this is the things sonu accept ur saas as mom ..see her as ur mom .thn this things wnt affect u
sonu with love even in this time u can win anyone.
unless u dnt accept anyone with whole heart dnt expect it frm others also.unless u wnt accept ur saas as a mom .dnt expect her to do so
sonu unless u wnt treat ur saas well neither my bahu will treat me wll nor ur bahu will treat u wll
P.S:mom left me numb ,,please someone answer me wht i can answer furtr to it .??
ME:chacha if our enlders r wrong wht shud we do
chacha:sonu firstly saying on elders face is not at all good things as u guys think
ME:per chacha if thy r wrong
chacha:At a situation just listen to thm ..thn later go to thm and explain things .saaying on elders face wnt raise u,,but only take down
acha sonu say when ur frnd is angry r wrong wht do u do .as a mautured person
ME:chachu agara my frnd is in anger i wll just shut n listen to her and explain her later
chacha;why dnt u shout at her tht time nly..?
ME:bcozz i knw this she is in anger if i wll shout at her i wll hurt her and i wnt be a mark of good frnd
chacha:thn..?
ME: kya thn..?
chacha:go through ur anwers wht u said taking ur frnd .its same with elder
sonu say me how to feel when ur small brother down listen to u .?
ME: i toh feel like hitting thm
chacha:see how im patient ur but do ur parents do so .? nahi na
P.S:when i taught over it i was gone crazy at my mentality.u guys say wht u wll react to it..?
thank god naitik is nt perfect werna akshara ka liya toh 'super women' bolta hi hai ..khamaka naitik ko bhi 'SUPER MAN " ka taag laagjata which i hate
RECENT EPISODE
akshara supporting shaurya .?
were she was supporting him she wnt to meet him bcozz he was nt well..tht it .agaar akshara wud support him also i wud nt mind bcozz kya 2 saal ka rishta 20 saal ka rishta say baada hogaya..??
its nt about wht relation thy mainatin just anwer me is it right..?
say me guys do u dnt feel irritated when ur 5 r so year best frnd ka life may uska 2 month ka boy frnd tumhar say zyaada important hojata hai .??when we can feel for frnd toh idhar toh bhai aur pati ki baat hai
she is nt supporting both n at the same time suppporting the both .in real life this happns in my families .akshara is setting thm correct example how to react
MOVING FROM CONCEPT
mom:sonu wht is concept of serial
ME:journey of couple after marriage
MOM:so where thy are moving away frm concept.?
ME:this g3 thing n all.
MOM;wow sonu,kya journey after marriage deals with nly couple.?humare tumhare life may koi importance nahi hai one's u get married..tumlog abhi say aisa soch rahe toh .mera beta ka shaadi ka time taak to pata nahi
PS:i was left numb after this anwer .mom felt atmst sad with my thinking .i really need u guys to especially answer to mom's this question

I want u all to think with this point of view thn give ur view






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Posted: 13 years ago
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first of all me first 😆
secondly sona its a mind blowing post ...awesome post very very very well written n totally agreed with u hope so ur this too much encouraging post will affect the bashers...
once again thanx 4 the post n i cant give my view as i m not a good one to give any lesson or a msg like u have given so...superb sona...👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Edited by __Aleena__ - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Seriously and literally sonali i agree wid ur each n evry point...n i have no shame in accepting dat main bhi inme se kafi wrong point ko agree krti thi but after reading ur veiws i feel dat i was wrong n one was abt serials concept ...i hav no ans to ur mom's ques...seriously yar i love u fr dis...
forget abt d bashers yar,d mentality of yrkkh fans including u n me is d same dat serial's concept has been changed...
if bashers dont undrstnd after reasing dis post na then seriously dey are dumb...

Hats off to U yar...ur veiws r really appreciable...
Edited by -Naksh4ever- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: __Aleena__

first of all me first 😆
secondly sona its a mind blowing post ...awesome post very very very well written n totally agreed with u hope so ur this too much encouraging post will affect the bashers...
once again thanx 4 the post n i cant give my view as i m not a good one to give any lesson or a msg like u have given so...superb sona...👏

thank u aleena ..
i really wnt it to bring atlst 0.01% diff thinking in ppl ..i hope it works out 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very well written but majority dnt think like this...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_20

very well written but majority dnt think like this...

i knw ..,,.but its a small try to make ppl think like this 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very well said...
totally agreed with u...👏
when i used to talk with mother regarding GA3...and i used to say akshara shd answer her back...just plz shut up...then my mama said ...if i restict u from sumthing...u answer me back...and dont respect me...i was like.😛...then i said mama she is not her mother ...she said shadi k baad MIL ko mother maan lo tou hi acha hota hai...

very well written...👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very needful post . agree with u.main bhi choti choti baton par akshara ki tarah roti hoon.. its natural about girls. its not that ki akshara cant backanswer g3 she can but she respects her MIL than her anger.bahot hi kam mil rajeshri ki tarah hote hai baki ke sab g3 ki tarah hi hote hai.meri maa hamesha yr dekhte vakht kaheti hai ki sirf akshara ki sundarta mat dekh uske gun bhi dekh jo apne saas se itane taunt sunkar bhi uski har baat manti hai.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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first of all i hats of u r post and u 👏, its a very realistic and truth each and ever word of u r post,
its awesome one, u give all the all answers of all type of questions , here there is no space to ask r give any suggestions to this one ,

like u r friendship relations words

u tell as we fight with our best friends , its correct and real one bcz we have full rights to him and we have get sudden angry to him with small things also , u think even one chocolates also he/she have it whit out as we fights to him

u says is correct husband and wife also love each , first they r friend then only they known each others well so naitik angry and aksara cries is rights and care of each others ,


wat ever u r mom say is truth and real thing going around us , i can't find any answer bcz u already give tat one in the post , once again HATS OFF U R POST 👏👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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thank u guys 😃
i see atleast some of u accepting my point of view ..
seriously guys my mon chachu left me numb ..
i mean respect kaarna chahiya .i dsnt mean u wll take all wrong things i only wnt is ..haar cheez ka ek tarika hota hai .u can keep ur potnt view tum apni baat pyaar say bhi maanva sakta ho ..
bcozz love can melt big big rocks.

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