Trust- the base for AgNi marriage

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The day Agam asked Nimrit to choose whom she trusted, him or Amrit …nimrit choosing to believe her sister broke the bonds which had been building between AgNi

Agam very clearly stated that it made no sense in maitaining a relatioship which had no trust in it.

He was absolutely right, as this disbelief in each otherwud have kept cropping up through out their marriage … everytime Amrit or anyone else raised a finger at Agam… knowing his history the doubts wouldn't be far from Nimrit's mind.

Today in the precap when I saw Nimrit back in the Mallik house, inspite of all the misunderstandings that have happenend since the blast in the kitchen… a new thought arose in my mind…

Sunita (Agam's mom) 's just missed heart attck may force nimrit to stay back in the Mallik house to take care of her. The advantage of this major turn in the events are many, like

- It will give tej n agam the time to get relevant proofs against Amrit so that they can reveal to everyone Amrit's evil Intensions

--Staying in the same house will allow AgNi to once again communicate with each other, which Amrit had sucessfully managed to cut, which will help clear the misunderstanding between them

-- being together in the same house and maybe the same room ( to show agam's mom that everything is fine between the two😉) will build the love which had started budding before the separation track…

-- but the most important of all…'building of trust '

Last time they were together because of the unusual circumstances which led to their marriage, a forced marriage for Nimrit and just a means of revenge for Agam…

but this time both are aware of their feelings for each other and at the same time the impending divorce looming large …it will prevent them from taking each other for granted. This will lead to their trying to understand each other more deeply , going beyond just what the words express and listening to what their heart tells them is right about each other. Wondering if they had been too hasty in judging each other.

Amrit's revealation will definitely bring the two together but one can never be sure how far this will last as the cracks have already been made by Amrit on the night of the explosion. Mahi or someone else can always take advantage and try to create another break between them…

so before that I want both of them to trust each other without any terms and conditions… their love and trust should be so strong that it will never break what ever the circumstances.

I want a strong foundation of their trust in each other, specially Nimrit to trust Agam without any doubt creeping up. So that they can build a beautiful relationship which no one like amrit or mahi or anyone else can ever shake….

I hope this time, their togetherness will bring that trust which will help strengthen their love for each other and reinforce their marriage bonds.

friends,hope i have not bored u all with my lengthy post... do let me know what u all feel about this...😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: cjs369

The day Agam asked Nimrit to choose whom she trusted, him or Amrit 'nimrit choosing to believe her sister broke the bonds which had been building between AgNi

Agam very clearly stated that it made no sense in maitaining a relatioship which had no trust in it.

😭 this was really sad.

He was absolutely right, as this disbelief in each otherwud have kept cropping up through out their marriage ' everytime Amrit or anyone else raised a finger at Agam' knowing his history the doubts wouldn't be far from Nimrit's mind.

very well said charu...a harsh reality!!

Today in the precap when I saw Nimrit back in the Mallik house, inspite of all the misunderstandings that have happenend since the blast in the kitchen' a new thought arose in my mind' Sunita (Agam's mom) 's just missed heart attck may force nimrit to stay back in the Mallik house to take care of her. The advantage of this major turn in the events are many, like

- It will give tej n agam the time to get relevant proofs against Amrit so that they can reveal to everyone Amrit's evil Intensions

bas Tej pe hi sab depend karta hai. i just hope he reveals Amrit's true face soon.

--Staying in the same house will allow AgNi to once again communicate with each other, which Amrit had sucessfully managed to cut, which will help clear the misunderstanding between them

till the time Amrit is exposed they may behave like strangers. none of them is aware of each other's feelings yet 😭 some pain, sorrow and despair will be there...BUT it will last only for few days more 😊

-- being together in the same house and maybe the same room ( to show agam's mom that everything is fine between the two😉) will build the love which had started budding before the separation track'

-- but the most important of all''building of trust '

dont worry charu once Amrit is totally exposed Nimrit will understand her mistake and start trusting her Agam ji more. and then their bond will get more stronger 😳 we may we them consummate their marriage too...!!

Last time they were together because of the unusual circumstances which led to their marriage, a forced marriage for Nimrit and just a means of revenge for Agam'

but this time both are aware of their feelings for each other and at the same time the impending divorce looming large 'it will prevent them from taking each other for granted. This will lead to their trying to understand each other more deeply , going beyond just what the words express and listening to what their heart tells them is right about each other. Wondering if they had been too hasty in judging each other.

Amrit's revealation will definitely bring the two together but one can never be sure how far this will last as the cracks have already been made by Amrit on the night of the explosion. Mahi or someone else can always take advantage and try to create another break between them'

i dont think there will be any place for "distrust" between them. nimrit will be too hurt at her sister's behavior and she l start trusting Agam more.vaise problems to ati rahengi tabhi to serial chalega like other shows!!

so before that I want both of them to trust each other without any terms and conditions' their love and trust should be so strong that it will never break what ever the circumstances.

I want a strong foundation of their trust in each other, specially Nimrit to trust Agam without any doubt creeping up. So that they can build a beautiful relationship which no one like amrit or mahi or anyone else can ever shake'.

I hope this time, their togetherness will bring that trust which will help strengthen their love for each other and reinforce their marriage bonds.

friends,hope i have not bored u all with my lengthy post... do let me know what u all feel about this...😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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U not board to me at all by ur post even it is very good, lovely charu. I couldn't watched epi of whole week due to some reason but continuously read the post. I m completely agree what u said. Agni have to give some time to solve MU betwn them. This is necessory for them to talk and communicate .and trust is already there bas unhe apane dil me jhakake dekhna hoga ki woh kitna trust ,kitna PYAR karte hai ek dusare se. They actualy not smiled for once after MU started. That means how much they love each other! Hopefully they will soon realise these all things. I have trust on cvs because this is Rajan sir's production where if problem started then it ends also and at the end only love wins.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Charu Very well written post..

Agam rightly said to nimrit if there is no trust between us then how can our relationship work for life.

Keys to a healthy marriage is communication.trust and respect..

All these 3 fundamentals were building up in Agni relationship slowly and steadily..finally we saw how the most beautiful feeling blossoming in this relationship ..LOVE..

An incident and all back to square one..no communication .no trust esp from nimrit and misunderstanding created by a third person leading to a final separation..

Communication always act as a catalyst to bring trust in a relationship.whereas trust is the glue that holds a relationship together..Agni is given a second chance to build up that trust in their relationship..first they should start communicating with each other.what happenned and why this Gap between them..share and listen to each other POV ..every problem has its solution and Agni relationship can be a lasting one if these 3 values start working in unison..communication..trust and respect..

Once this trust is back and as we say Love can defy any hurdles... here love does exist in this jodi and they should grab this second chance given to them to prove that no evil can destroy their relationship...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nb.neha

dont worry charu once Amrit is totally exposed Nimrit will understand her mistake and start trusting her Agam ji more. and then their bond will get more stronger 😳 we may we them consummate their marriage too...!!

i dont think there will be any place for "distrust" between them. nimrit will be too hurt at her sister's behavior and she l start trusting Agam more.vaise problems to ati rahengi tabhi to serial chalega like other shows!!

Neha @ ...thats exactly what i am trying to say... i dont want things to get resolved just because Amrit's true colours have been revealed... I want Nimrit and Agam to build their trust in each other, so much so it does not matter whether Amrit, Mahi or any other tom, dick and harry creates problems in their lives ... the trust and love should be so strong that they can stand together and face it
Nimrit should be able to see that Agam is a genuine person, he loves and respects her so much that he wud never cheat her or lie to her ... She shud be able to see the truth in what ever he tells her and not think that he has a hidden agenda. She has to understand that her love and care has changed him and brought him out of the darkness he had hidden in... once she realises that, then she will never doubt him ever.
I agree vaise toh problems aati rahengi ... but with total trust & love they will be able to tackle all these problems easily.
Edited by cjs369 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: cjs369

Neha @ ...thats exactly what i am trying to say... i dont want things to get resolved just because Amrit's true colours have been revealed... I want Nimrit and Agam to build their trust in each other, so much so it does not matter whether Amrit, Mahi or any other tom, dick and harry creates problems in their lives ... the trust and love should be so strong that they can stand together and face it
Nimrit should be able to see that Agam is a genuine person, he loves and respects her so much that he wud never cheat her or lie to her ... She shud be able to see the truth in what ever he tells her and not think that he has a hidden agenda. She has to understand that her love and care has changed him and brought him out of the darkness he had hidden in... once she realises that, then she will never doubt him ever.
I agree vaise toh problems aati rahengi ... but with total trust & love they will be able to tackle all these problems easily.

except for Amrit nobody else is the jaani dushman of Nmrit n Agam's relation. in future too if at all confusion takes place Nimrit wil know who to blame as by that time she would gave gained lot of trust in Agam. 😊 right now she is ready to forgoe her love n give divorce later on she will be ready to fight for her love.
Edited by nb.neha - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nb.neha

except for Amrit nobody else is the jaani dushman of Nmrit n Agam's relation. in future too if at all confusion takes place Nimrit wil know who to blame as by that time she would gave gained lot of trust in Agam. 😊 right now she is ready to forgoe her love n give divorce later on she will be ready to fight for her love.

neha... you forgot Mahi mallik another big dushman... a wretched father and a worse father-in- law.
The point is not how many enemies they have ... the point is whatever the number of enemies, whether there are any enemies or not ...their love and trust in each other should be such that no one can ever break them apart ever again...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks saveeta, my first post in AM...😊
I agree with you, the fundamentals of relationship...respect and love was slowly building...
but the trust was on very shaky grounds hence it was easy for Amrit to hit on the foundation and break them apart...
They need to communicate with each other...share and listen .. bring the trust back and build their relation once again with all the love they have for each other.😊

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