Respect is the foundation...

I really commend the CV's for showing the foundation of Shiv and Anandi's relationship to be respect instead of attraction. 👏 That is how a real relationship grows between two truly evolved human beings, be it friendship or love. You hardly get to see that on TV or in real life nowadays, since not many people understand the value of respect. 😕 I have seen so many men with a disrespectful or chauvinistic attitude towards women, but what's frightening is that I also see many women who think that this attitude is not only OK, but "manly" and "hot"! 🤢 This makes disrespectful men think that teasing and insulting a woman is the way to get her. Those fools don't realize that the only way to a real, genuine woman's heart is through respect! And those men who do understand this, like Shiv, are the ones who get the best partners in life (hopefully, Anandi😉)!

I loved your views!! 👏👏

@bluerobin: Thanks so much! 😊 Your post voices exactly what I feel, too!! Especially about the talent acknowledgement thing: A real life partner will be proud of your talent, praise you openly for it, and encourage it, not suppress or belittle it. Not only are marriages ruined by this jealousy and small-mindedness, but so are friendships and relationships with relatives.

Originally posted by: eshabasuthakur

I really commend the CV's for showing the foundation of Shiv and Anandi's relationship to be respect instead of attraction. 👏 That is how a real relationship grows between two truly evolved human beings, be it friendship or love. You hardly get to see that on TV or in real life nowadays, since not many people understand the value of respect. 😕 I have seen so many men with a disrespectful or chauvinistic attitude towards women, but what's frightening is that I also see many women who think that this attitude is not only OK, but "manly" and "hot"! 🤢 This makes disrespectful men think that teasing and insulting a woman is the way to get her. Those fools don't realize that the only way to a real, genuine woman's heart is through respect! And those men who do understand this, like Shiv, are the ones who get the best partners in life (hopefully, Anandi😉)!

Originally posted by: eshabasuthakur

@bluerobin: Thanks so much! 😊 Your post voices exactly what I feel, too!! Especially about the talent acknowledgement thing: A real life partner will be proud of your talent, praise you openly for it, and encourage it, not suppress or belittle it. Not only are marriages ruined by this jealousy and small-mindedness, but so are friendships and relationships with relatives.

thanks to you yaar for coming with such a thought provoking post . things are temporary even beauty ... have seen people around especially going behind beauty and insulting the people who are average looking . they themselves consider to be handsome. The person in question was affected by cancer , lost all his hair and side effects of chemotherapy . He stopped all his speeches on beauty and his tendency to show off . people fail to understand that beauty , hotness etc are all temporary . Its respect and one's principles that remain life long . Only one thing - give respect to everyone, don't despise anyone , accept everyone's talents, believe in the talent God has given you , earth will surely become a better place to live .

Enjoyed ur positive post amidst the disgusting clutter of negativity.. Fed up with jago bhajans n fault finding with positivity... ThanQ keep it up...