Hello everyone...
I am writing after quite a while as I got extremely busy at work and at home few complication with my laptop but anyways I am enjoying the high drama being played in PV... reading all the wonderful reviews so eloquently written by many great members of the forum...
Here are my few thoughts on recent incidents...
So after the entry of Aarti in the Schindhia mansion... the bitterest person as usual is buvaji... Aarti's re-entry in the house is a personal defeat to her as she did not leave any leaf unturned. All her attempts to throw her out of the house went down the drain.. So now she is more determined and is trying to create problem in front of Yash. But as Aarti knows her real face she does not hesitate to stand strong with her. Her drama to put Aarti down in Yash's eyes for Palak"s report did not work as Yash saw through it and stood with Aarti knowing it was not her fault as Palak has purposely hidden that report.
Another interesting event is taking place is return of Prashant...
Prashant is in the desperate situation. Without job and any means of income he is on his last nerves to get something solid. So he wants to be back with his parents as now that Aarti is no more with them..
So he is back with her fake apology and fake attitude. He just wants to force his entry in their house with the right of a son that he is...
Looking at his behavior and his attitude many things fall in to place for me. Many more layer came out from his behavior..
I always wonder why Shobha is so much against her son and stood by her DIL..
Why is she not listening to any of his pleas? Why she does not trust her own son...
Now falling out of the love of Aarti could not be the only reason.. It has to be something more then that..
Also Aarti seems to be very conservative and decent girl and why would she remember only those passionate moments with her husband... And it kept on bothering me all the time as why Aarti does not have any tender memories of her husband except those moments...
So now looking at the way Prashant behaved and talked with Aarti ... everything fall in to place for me..
Prashant is very complex character.. He is the most selfish person you could ever come across. He is full of envy and jealousy and His motives are always to take advantage of other people and force them to do as per what he likes. He only wanted people to cater to him and share nothing of his own. He tends to be softer and nicer only if it serves his purpose. He never loves anybody other then himself. It does not take time for him to turn nasty if the things does not go his ways.. He does not hesitate to be a violent and explosive if he does not get his own ways. He always tries to justify his own cause and action by putting blame on people especially Aarti.. as her goodness makes him look more and more monster.
So now we come to know that Prashant is a total psycho and he has not only used Aarti but when he did not get his way with her he turned in to domestic violence monster.
Aarti must have tried her level best to calm him down and make him a decent person by surrendering and loving him with all her heart but that man did not change. She spent all her time and efforts to please him so that he will not be rattled or won't be upset for any little things. She even made herself available all the time to cater to his needs so that he would be appease all the time and behave like the good son as Ma and Pa Dubeys wanted him to be.
It was not hard for Aarti to win Ma and Pa Dubeys heart with her integrity and her loving and caring nature. So she became their favorite. Her easy going and caring nature and always going beyond her capacity to accommodate everyone made her the favorite of her mother in law. Aarti who was an orphaned girl craved for the love of the parents got the best mom in Shobha and a father in Pa Dubey. Her dedication to maintain the relations and do everything in her power to maintain the joy and peace of the family was appreciated by her in-laws so much that she became like their daughter instead of their DIL. And Aarti was in heaven being with such in-laws who loved and adored her as daughter. Dubeys would not ask for more better DIL then Aarti who seems to manage their wayward son beautifully
But to maintain all these Aarti had to go through so much behind the close doors with her husband and the son of Dubeys. I cannot imagine the situation when Shobha who is the lady with a high moral and principals came to know about how her son raised his hands on her darling DIL... I cannot imagine the grief and agony of Shobha and Pa Dubey who are soft and simple minded people came to know how horrible their son was... and so gradually their son lost all his respects and they just did not feel like dealing with their own son at all and became more attached and sympathetic toward Aarti who had no where to go as she was an orphaned and so naturally a tender and caring mother Shobha became too attached to her. Witnessing her struggle and her sacrifice for the sake of the family and for the betterment of her son.
And the more love Aarti got from Dubeys the more jealous Prashant became of Aarti.. Another problem came in their relationship is when Aarti became pregnant. And after that Aarti was not able to satisfy his physical need the rat Prashant started to fall out of love and got another modern chick to go to and then finally as his free style will cramp too much he forced Aarti to sign the divorce paper and left her on the door step of his father's house.
The way he accused Aarti that only in 5 years of their divorce she could not wait to get married again to satisfy her physical need. Shows how his mind works and how he thought of their relationship. Nothing but the means to satisfy his physical need and that is why Aarti has no recollection of any loving tender moment with Prashant as to him the love only meant the physical relationship. And that is why Aarti so readily believed Mansi her friend because her own life had only those things in reality.
Aarti even tried to be a seductress so that she can keep her husband with her but that horrible man thought she is of a loose character as he accuse her that she may not have carried his child and that child of his would be some "bad blood" and that is why Prashant never believed that Ansh is his son and that is why he does not have any attachment to that little boy at all. OMG what a horrible man. The way he mocked Aarti's simplicity and told her that he has got great modern girl also indicates that he must have married Aarti a simple loving girl so that he can fool his mom as he knew that his mom would love Aarti
So all Aarti's tolerance and patient and suffering gave her nothing but at the end she completely lost it and her so called husband left her breaking all ties with her and his parents.
I think Shobha must be aware of these qualities of her son and that is why she never tolerated him. Pa Dubey waited and waited for his son to become a good man as he knew that his DIL is a gem of a girl but at the end his son left this lovely and decent woman and went after some modern chick. Prashant must have pretended to be good for a little time but he could not pretend for a long. By his tyranny he forced Aarti to sign divorce papers while his parents must have watched helplessly the emotional torture on their DIL... as Prashant is not the one to minimize his words and must have accused Aarti everything in the book...
And that is why Aarti was horrified when Gayatri told her that Ansh must have got his stubborn nature from his father as Aarti is not like that and that could be the reason that Aarti catered too much to Ansh as not to push him too much to get upset or angry.
And now I understand why Shobha was so much focus for Aarti to get married again and have a normal decent life as this orphaned girl got nothing out of life and so she was determined that such a beautiful person as Aarti should have a beautiful life with loving and caring husband and a family and her son little Ansh should have a father who would love him as his own. She even did not care that their grand son will not carry their name and gave him up for a better life with Yash and family. And that is why she trusted Yash so much as she realize very early how Yash was. A decent, soft and perfect gentleman and a perfect father which her son never was and that is why she so much wanted Aarti to have all those beautiful things in her life..
So now Shobha is no more terrified by her son's explosive anger or manipulative ways and she proceeds to do his Shradha and religiously does all the rituals considering him dead. And she advices Aarti to let the past buried as it is too complicated to explain and go forward. By conducting the death rituals she declares her son dead to her and to the family and asks Aarti to consider the same...
But technically the problem is the son is still alive physically... and whatever rituals she may have observed is not going to declare him dead in the sight of law. So even though Shobha and Aarti both have decided to buried the past and move forward the facts remain the same that there is a hidden truth in between Aarti and Yash. Yes Shobha is right Yash will stand with Aarti when he will know the truth but her in-laws will object big time so hide it for now...
I think I am not in favor of this. Aarti had to let Yash know about all the details before proceeding to bring this relationship to the next level.
She is entering the house considering it a temple and shutting the door to all evil things but what would happen when this truth comes out in public or if Prashant threatens to go public and start black mailing??? Aarti has married into a wealthy family and Prashant is in a desperate need of money.. and we already know what Prashant would do when he is desperate??? So Aarti has taken really big risk of losing Yash's trust in hiding this truth.
Of course I had a feeling that this truth is not coming out too soon as it will come out with all the flairs and colors and big drama.. so we will have to wait for real reveling moment but till then we will watch Aarti's struggle to make her place and Buva's manipulation and a game to use her best pawn Gayatri...
Happy viewing people... love to all eva