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Waise i found it little odd from Gauri.. Again it my personnel opinion
Actually he said every thing in a flow, when he was feeling very low. very depressed, and kind of confused, that what should he do. He compared himself and Gauri .. His depression reached to the level when he said " I feel like I should end up myself".
What Gauri showed is Sympathy , and hugged him, and what would she say " some thing like : " No No Jagat, Aisa kabhi mat Kahna, Mein hun na tumhare saath... , Aisa kabhi sochna bhi mat ...etc etc"
Will he be listening or feeling her hug. He would be too much with in himself thats why he could speak from such a depth of his heart. will these words and this sympathy bring him out of the situation? It will take time for him to get normal. May be a next day,when she will go to hospital and once he will be out of her sympathy.. Then he may also feel awkward that he said all this in some flow of depression.
Other option could be:
Gauri do not speak any thing, No gestures, simply communicates support and steady partnership through her eyes. Place her palm on his shoulder and transmit a feeling of steadyness and support, indicate him to sit, once he sit she give him some water and give him a moment to stay with him and calm down. This would have bring him to some what normal instantly.
She may sit by his side for few moment and may try to introduce a new thought in his mind.
for a slight change she may slowly tell him .. " aren't you hungry? you were asking me for dinner, will you take me dinner?"
after that she should communicate to him very slowly,can divert him from the situation and fetch him out of this situation.
During this he would not only come out of the situation, would also have an increased faith in her adn their relationship..
Am not sure if you guys would tell me a jagya Supporter now.. So let me write a D.C. here : I am only SHIVAN supporter.. 😛
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