Bani’s Double Standards? - Page 2

MT,

Munnas greatest crime as I see it is the ill-treatment meted out to the Dixit sisters, particularly Bani, between Pia's marriage and the C- night. As for every crime/sin committed by Jai before and after this period, I can show you that Munni is guilty of the same crime.

But yes I do agree that Munna deserves what Bani is doing to him now. He should take it on his chin. It is a self-purification process he must go through.

Rgds

Priyanka

I Totally Agree with You...

I was Thinking The same thing...But I didn't Post anything!!!

Hi anu

I read yr post. I only have to say is that when you wrote that "its we who knew the truth that jai didn't want to hurt bani by park road secret but bani didn't know" agreed. But it was jai who made his point clear that if park road secret will be out, they won't be able to see each other's face in their leading life. Rather say they won't be able to face each other. Further he would not like to see her going through the pain again. And that's why he was hiding the truth. But still if you want to know the truth, he will tell her the truth. At that time bani stopped him from saying the truth and said that if revealing the secret make a distance between them, she is not at all interested in knowing the same and she walked away. Also when there was question of life and death becoz of a bomb, bani forced jai to reveal the secret by giving him a big lacture of love, trust and understanding between husband and wife. AND NOW JAI TOLD HER THE TRUTH, SHE DON'T WANT TO LIVE WITH THAT MAN. FOR HER HE IS A MURDERER.

What do u guys say about it? Does it sound as bani's double standard or confused character? Anu I m just putting my views. Don't feel bad…

Bye
kiah

Originally posted by: surahi

Hi anu

Here is my views in response to your post. I already posted it with the heading mentioned below. What I feel I wrote it in my post.

Why bani keep calling jai a murderer?

I don't know why she keep calling him by that word after the secret revealed. We all as well as she also knows that that was simply an accident due to which her mother died and which involve jai. Accident is not an intentional act and jai didn't want to killed her mother. Murder is an intentional act. It involve some purpose to do so. While here we don't see any purpose for which jai had to killed her mother and bani knows this very well. Then why all the time utter that stupid word? What she wants to prove? She never gave a damn look that all the time she was safe in pushkar's office guest house but jai put his life in danger for her to such an extent that anything could have been happened with his life. Typical ekta's serial female character.

Also when ranvijay told her false story that on 29th june, an accident occurred on park road and in that incident, his wife was hited by the car which was driven by jai and she died in that accident. Remember guys bani's reaction? Her reaction was that of a relief. Relief with thought that jai wasn't a murderer. That was simply an accident. She even went to jai and consoled him that she knew the park road secret and she knew that ranvijay's wife was died in that accident and car was driven by him. But he didn't have to feel guilty as "accident happens in anybody's life." (I remember one of our KS member written in her post for bani's this quote that "bani remember your quote and we will remind u at the time of defending jai when the actual secret out". Exact word I don't remember) She also apologized him for taking jai as a murderer.

Now with the actual secret out, ranvijay's wife's place has been taken by bani's mother. Other content remain the same like accident, car hitting and jai driving the car. But now bani's mother involve, as per her point of view, jai became a murderer with immediate effect. Then there was no accident happens in anybody's life and bla…bla…bla…… With second thought it means that if anyone died in an accident which involve jai, that remains an accident but if any person died who is a near ones to bani in an accident which involve jai then jai become a murderer. How disgusting. She is typical ekta's serial heroine.

Again in the hospital she told jai that he always hide the truth from her and always play with feelings of others. Oh bani think twice before speak. Jai never hide anything from you except park road secret and that too for your sake. He knew how much you would be hurt when the secret will be out. So he cares for your feelings. But what you did with him in the past? (sorry guys repeating the same old incidents )You knew very well that how much he would be hurt, even though you hide the pia-pushkar love affair from him and took pia's place in the lagna mandap. After that you hide anu's pregnancy from him and never trusted him and took that blame on the ground of family pride and creat havoc in the family, then hide rano-sahil's love affair from him and so on…… I must congrats you that despite of all these, you darely said that jai has the habit of playing with the feelings of others. BANI WHO PLAY WITH WHOME.

I like bani but all the ekta's female character has the ability to put their thoughts in such a way, no matter how wrong they are with their thoughts, with water tank in their eyes that other person agrees with them and feels guilty for their doings even though they are right. All female character of ekta are sati savitri and nearer to god almighty who never do anything wrong.

Bye
Take care guys
surahi

Hi Surahi!

It has been a long time since I have seen u around… hope all is fine at your end.

Infact I did write this post after I read urs… else I was pretty lazy to write. I read ur post and wanted to reply later, and when today I couldn't find it… with the search machine down… I keep missing all good posts.

I have to agree that Bani is 'Technically' wrong to call Jai a murderer… coz murder is intentional. And Jai was involved in an accident with her Mom. That aside, I do think Bani is pretty much right to be upset with Jai. After all Jai is responsible for Bani's mom's death.

I do agree Bani did wrong to disappear without telling anybody. She did very wrong… and I think she got a good dose for that aswell. She should have been a bit more responsible and atleast let her sisters know she is safe… but kya Karen his Miya-Biwi are so observed with eachother that their family really takes the 2^nd priority… Pia-Rano suffered coz bani wanted to keep away from Jai and Jai put his family through the trauma of his fake death to get back Bani.

Coming to why Bani changed her views when she realized her Mom was involved in an accident. Btw I was the one who said 'Bani, remember ur lines coz I will bring it up when it comes to defending Jai' At that point in time when I said it, I was as desperate as Bani was to believe that Jai can be forgiven, Jai cant be wrong. But then Jai has been responsible… he is not all dudh ka dula! What I love about Jai is that he is good enough to accept his mistake no matter how Huge or trivial it is. And invariably he does believe that he has done a huge crime and is carrying the guilt with him… has for the last 7 years. And the sense of his guilt has grown manifold coz now he is in love with Bani. I want him to relieve himself of this guilt… coz I cant see his guilt eating him up. So in a way with Bani being angry with him, punishing him will help him to redeem himself. Sometimes… u feel the need to be punished, it hurts even more and leaves you guilty if your loved one chooses to overlook ur mistake… make u feel worse and u can never forgive yourself. I want Jai to be able to forgive himself 1^st !

More than forgiveness I believe Jai deserves a chance of redeeming himself. I want him to earn that chance… I want Bani to give Jai a chance to redeem himself… forgiveness will follow.

I am not against Jai… I want him to be free from this guilt of accident… it is only in then will he be able to forget everything and start fresh. That is one reason that I don't want Bani to forgive him just like that… I don't want that! Else we have enough reasons to defend Jai and trust me… I will be the 1^st to do it.

Don't disappear again Surahi, It is always been great to read ur defenses for Jai.

Lots of Luv

Anu.

Great responses guys!

And i think i did a good think to put up this post... just wanted to empathise with Bani... waise hi Jai is going to make things difficult for her... and i shamelessy admit that i am too excited about that. I want to see Jai go get her.
That aisde... i think we need to go light on Bani... it has been harldy 4 days in real time! She cant get over a death and that too when 2 people she loves the most is on either side... one is the victim and the other is the guilty one... and in such case.... the victim gets all the sympathy and understanding! Just give her time... i am sure when she will think straight... and more over Jai needs redeemption... else his guilt will eat him up. For his sanity it is required that he faces bani's coldness... Lets see how he deals with it. I am sure he is going to leave us a very proud bunch of fans 😃

Luv
Anu.