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ashish.sachi

@ashish.sachi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Indira will have to take the decision , one day or other. Whether she wants to be a married women or not.

Better she take this decision fast. It will be beneficial for both Rishi & Indira. Now she should not dilly dally and face the reality of the circumstances.

Uptill now , she had been banking on Vidhit to take care of the family , after she gets married. Now that option finished , she seriously needs to introspect.

If she marries , she will have her own family , her husband and then her own kids. She will have to make space for them in her life, and needs to concentrate on them. And at one time she will have to make choice , whether she wants to build future for Ishaan - Seher or her own kids. She will need to choose between the two.

I think Indira should seriously think about the future prospects , and should take appropriate decision.Rather than running from reality , she should face it & make choice , whether she wants husband & family for herself or not.If the answer is yes , she no doubt will have to make some sacrifice from her commitment towards her family.

Share your views guys.

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Harshal

@harshal25

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Posted: 13 years ago

Can you choose between your mother and father???

I guess no... Then why are you expecting Indu to choose between Seher-Ishaan & unborn future kids! She will never do that...

Usa ka swabhav hi nahi hai aisa...And she has a valid reason for that...
There may be a chance that Inshi if lived there in SN may be able to raise the childrens of SN (Sehar-Ishann-Antara-Mantara) properly and make them good and responsible citizen...
Atleast a good hearted citizen!

But there is no chance that Seher and Ishaan will not become Munna part-2 😆 and Munni Part-1 😆 if Inshi is not there to guide those kids properly...
Varna vo bhi selfish ban jayenge...😒 Indira will never want that...Forget about Indu leaving SN.

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ashish.sachi

@ashish.sachi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: harshal25
Can you choose between your mother and father???

I guess no... Then why are you expecting Indu to choose between Seher-Ishaan & unborn future kids! She will never do that...
Usa ka swabhav hi nahi aisa...And she has a valid reason for that...
There may be a chance that Inshi if lived there in SN may be able to raise the childrens of SN (Sehar-Ishann-Antara-Mantara) properly and make them good and responsible citizen...
Atleast a good hearted citizen!
But there is no chance that Seher and Ishaan will not become Munna part-2 and Munni Part-1 if Inshi is not there to guide those kids properly...
Varna vo bhi selfish ban jayenge...😒 Indira will never want that...Forget about Indu leaving SN

I agree with you Harshal.

But Life is not so simple. There are circumstances , when you have to choose between X & Y.

And yes , there are situations , when children need to choose between Father or Mother.

What I want to imply is that , there should be clarity of vision in Indira 's thought process , that what she actually wants. No person can have everything. One have to make sacrifice one way or other. If she wants to have family , she will have to create space for them in her life. It just can't happen , that she keep on giving top priority to SF people throught the life. This is just not sustainable.

Regarding Ishaan - Seher - Antara Mantara situation , I want to say , a situation will come in future , where the thing of priorities have to come. If that time , she gives more priority to Ishaan - seher, my personal opiniion is it will be unjust to Rishi & her kids.

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forever.young

@forever.young

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Posted: 13 years ago

are bhai ashish bhul jaao...wo SN nahi chodegi for the obvious reasons
and inshi zindagi bhar uss pagalkhane me sadte rhenge no privacy,no future and nothing bas inshi ka 1 kaam rhega roz ka ka ki daily SN ke pagalo ko unhi ki creat ki hui problem se bahar nikalna nothing new 😆

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Nancy

@.ByGod.Nancy

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Posted: 13 years ago

, lol I always thought that Munna and Sunaina would die and then ishaan and seher would go to indira and rishi , imagine that 😎

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Dhanya

@samrudhi.r

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: likaboss
, lol I always thought that Munna and Sunaina would die and then ishaan and seher would go to indira and rishi , imagine that 😎

wicked thought😈

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PD_forums

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: harshal25
Can you choose between your mother and father???

I guess no... Then why are you expecting Indu to choose between Seher-Ishaan & unborn future kids! She will never do that...

Usa ka swabhav hi nahi hai aisa...And she has a valid reason for that...
There may be a chance that Inshi if lived there in SN may be able to raise the childrens of SN (Sehar-Ishann-Antara-Mantara) properly and make them good and responsible citizen...
Atleast a good hearted citizen!

But there is no chance that Seher and Ishaan will not become Munna part-2 😆 and Munni Part-1 😆 if Inshi is not there to guide those kids properly...
Varna vo bhi selfish ban jayenge...😒 Indira will never want that...Forget about Indu leaving SN.

i second u bro...
Indira cannot be that much selfish to leave Ishaan and Seher for her unborn...
she can balance her future with Ishaan and Seher - Rishi and her children...

no need to take care of whole SN after marriage but Ishaan and Seher needs Indira

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ashish.sachi

@ashish.sachi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -shalz-
are bhai ashish bhul jaao...wo SN nahi chodegi for the obvious reasons
and inshi zindagi bhar uss pagalkhane me sadte rhenge no privacy,no future and nothing bas inshi ka 1 kaam rhega roz ka ka ki daily SN ke pagalo ko unhi ki creat ki hui problem se bahar nikalna nothing new 😆

I know Shalu. But this is the thing to be dreaded.

Already we all are quite pissed to see Indira , not able to give complete time & attention to Rishi as her husband. Rishi has some how accepted this situation. But many times , he has also started being impatient with her on many occasions.

Think after her kids are born , the same attitude of Indira continued then? That will be real injustice to them.

That is why I think Indira should contemplate whether there is space in her life for family or not. If not , she should call it quit with Rishi. It will be much better than having lot of problems later.

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Nancy

@.ByGod.Nancy

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: dhanya.r

wicked thought😈

Hahah I know 😉

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Harshal

@harshal25

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: ashish.sachi

I know Shalu. But this is the thing to be dreaded.

Already we all are quite pissed to see Indira , not able to give complete time & attention to Rishi as her husband. Rishi has some how accepted this situation. But many times , he has also started being impatient with her on many occasions.

Think after her kids are born , the same attitude of Indira continued then? That will be real injustice to them.

That is why I think Indira should contemplate whether there is space in her life for family or not. If not , she should call it quit with Rishi. It will be much better than having lot of problems later.

@bold: Ashish...you are forgetting one major point...Her kids(Antara mantara) will be called and considered her family too like rest of SF... Antara mantara won't be called Neighborhood's kids...😆

Till now we are listening the taunts of SF for Inshi "Bcuz" they are not officially married and yet to register their marriage.
After the marriage, I seriously don't think any of the SF will have the guts to say to Indira: Is paraaye ke liye apno ko bhul rahi hai tu...!
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Ye lagta kaun hai tera...???

Half of the problems like taunting and all will solve by itself after their marriage... Then its very obvious for a mother to take care of their own child...The world can go to hell...But Rishi...The poor guy will always remain in the "Taken for granted" zone! 😆

Just think...Indira is such a good mother to Ishaan-Seher who are not her kids...then how good she will be as a mother for Antara mantara...I guess perfect!👏

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