I don't blame Paridhi for packing

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB
I don't think cvs are highlighting chauvinism. they r showing it to be wrong. But such elders do exist. and matured conversation and handling like Yash and aarti is needed. Leaving the house without even one try is not the solution and is immatured.
Prateek used the policy-"Offense is the best defense" so I don't support him totally. I would hv supported him whole heartedly, if he had not given Pari false assurances, and convinced his dad before the wedding. Telling him " u hv not given us the right" is not the solution to the problem. If he was so modern, he would never hv even hoped that pari would leave her job. But he did. He chose the easy way out- a lie! Even when Yash was willing to go and convince SP about Pari's job.

I agree that Prateek is to blame here as well. I had said that in another post. Prateek lied, kept lying, and was all for Paridhi's continuing to work in secret. It could've gone on and on, and there would've been no problems from him. He was perfectly happy to let it continue.

But at the same time, I think Prateek was right in what he said to his father. He's seen how his father is. How he doesn't relent. He was afraid. And everything he said to his father, was right after he observed and saw his parents' behaviour, tactics and actions with his own eyes.

My point is that Aarti herself is now handling these things maturely, but not too long ago she too acted with her emotions. I'm not saying Acted acted immaturely, but it really wasn't that different than Paridhi's acting on her emotions. Aarti came to the point she's at now because of all that had happened, because she saw Yash take a bullet for Ansh, which changed a lot for her and in her.

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Telly.Addict
@Ilakarsh,

You said Arti spoke to Cas in a rude way, etc when her son was kidnapped. I'm not saying there is any wrong done by any of the youngsters here. BUT to be rude, to shout, to behave like a lunatic when your child's life is in danger...we the audience can forgive her her outbursts.

But I do agree with you, Prateek did not raise his voice to his father once, when he was defending his wife or his actions. He was disagreeing with his father, which Cas took to be back backchatting to him ! All I can say is, he hasn't brought up.any teenagers 😆 Because that's all you get from most of them mist of the time 😉

Any teenagers on the forum, please forgive an old mum 😳 😆

Sungum

I agree. The audience can forgive her for her outbursts. All I'm saying is that both have acted with their emotions. Both Aarti and Paridhi.

And I'm also pointing out that Aarti too was once willing to leave the house, just as Paridhi was. She later fought to stay in the house after Yash got shot. The reason I bring that up is because I don't think you can just compare and contrast Aarti's current determination to stay in the house regardless of ill treatment, to Paridhi's hasty decision to leave because of Scindia's harsh words.

They both are not exactly similar situations. There is more history to Aarti's current situation. It took her some time, it took certain incidents for her to get there. Just as there is a different history to Paridhi's situation. She expected something else. She's adjusted to a lot. But when she hears her father-in-law say those words, demean her and completely take away her rights, of course she will react in the way she reacted.

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: samantha1987200

Totally agree with you, Cvs should lighten chauvinism ... I'd like to see more interaction bw yash and arti rather than a family saga... but-yeah Paridhi is totally right... I actually wished that Paridhi should have left... I really applaud Prateek for standing up to his dad... what he said about his father is 100% true!!!!

I think the CVs are highlighting Scindia's chauvinism as well as some of Gayatri's wrong thinking in order to show it to be wrong.

I do find it a bit problematic that it all still revolves around getting 'permission' from Scindia. But well, I guess that's the family dynamics (as well serial dynamics).

We'll see how long this lasts.

I don't blame Paridhi, either. The words coming out of the man's mouth were downright insulting.

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Tanzia Scott

@latanzia

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

I absolutely agree with u guys, paridhi should leave that prison where ones opinion and thought don't have any value in that family. The FIL is a control freak who think his word is law. Prateek what a wonderful performance yesterday, guess the truth is a bitter pill to swallow.
I want to c more assertive men and independent woman in these soap, this is the 21st century n not the 3rd century for crying out loud, where woman were treated as a commodity instead of a free thinker.
Paridhi FIL is a male chauvinist pig who needs to b knocked into the 21st century, this particular DIl will find it difficult to adjust to this household because of the freedom she is accustom to, as would any one who is used to working.

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

Stunner

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: latanzia
I absolutely agree with u guys, paridhi should leave that prison where ones opinion and thought don't have any value in that family. The FIL is a control freak who think his word is law. Prateek what a wonderful performance yesterday, guess the truth is a bitter pill to swallow.
I want to c more assertive men and independent woman in these soap, this is the 21st century n not the 3rd century for crying out loud, where woman were treated as a commodity instead of a free thinker.
Paridhi FIL is a male chauvinist pig who needs to b knocked into the 21st century, this particular DIl will find it difficult to adjust to this household because of the freedom she is accustom to, as would any one who is used to working.

Agreed. It's not for nothing Paridhi keeps saying she will suffocate. This is not the environment she's used to. And she's tried her best and adjusted concerning many things. But to be relegated to the kitchen and household chores, she can't do that.

She has a job. She went back to it. Good on her. There's nothing wrong with that. It's not her fault Prateek didn't do what he had promised her. It's her choice, right and decision and she did it. I hate the idea that the women and the younger generation need 'permission' to do things. 🤢

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gafulu14

@gafulu14

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

My point in bringing up Aarti was to point out that there are faults in the "Aarti acts maturely, while Paridhi acts immaturely" statements, which conveniently forget that Aarti's fighting to stay in the family despite the elders' spite is a different situation than Paridhi's haste to leave the family.

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

Stunner

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

^Err, thank you for repeating my words? 😕 😃

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