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Posted: 13 years ago

i noe bua is evil. but this explains her persona so much. papa sindiya is a mysognist who belives women shouldn't work or have a second chance at life. bua is so evil in this episode but i cant help feel bad for her bc her sorrow is the result of scindya sexism. it is her brother who refusing to let her get married a second time, caused her to become so bitter. at the same time yash has not wronged bua so she should not take it out on him

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Posted: 13 years ago

You know trust me when I say this that I absolutely hate hate hate bua ji too 😡😡 But also like you i do agree that the reason she's so bitter is because of the many forms of double standards in their house. If we were to put ourselves in her shoes we too would feel that it's so unfair that a boy can remarry (that too a guy that has kids) but a woman cannot even if she has no kids and she's a widow. Bua must have been so hurt when she lost her husband and her brother didn't do another marriage for her and on the other hand he was so eager for his son to live his life happily with a second marriage.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

I do not feel bad for her at all.There are lots of people in life who are in much worse situation than she is; homeless, raped and abused and treated like an animal. Yet here she is with a home, never have to worry where her next meal is coming from, and are surrounded by people who give her respect and even love. Her past and her bitterness against her brother is no excuse for her behavior. A lot of times situations are out of our control in our lives but there are also lot of times where you have the power to change the course of your life. If Bua wanted she could have done a lot of positives with her life rather she chose to dwell on the negatives in her life and be a cruel and vindictive person. No sympathy for her whatsoever.

But you are right, today's episode did give us an understanding of why she is the way she is.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: angake
I do not feel bad for her at all.There are lots of people in life who are in much worse situation than she is; homeless, raped and abused and treated like an animal. Yet here she is with a home, never have to worry where her next meal is coming from, and are surrounded by people who give her respect and even love. Her past and her bitterness against her brother is no excuse for her behavior. A lot of times situations are out of our control in our lives but there are also lot of times where you have the power to change the course of your life. If Bua wanted she could have done a lot of positives with her life rather she chose to dwell on the negatives in her life and be a cruel and vindictive person. No sympathy for her whatsoever.

But you are right, today's episode did give us an understanding of why she is the way she is.

I disagree w/ the notion that one has to go through much worse to have their behavior justified. in fact many times the emotional pain is worse than the physical act. as for bua respect and love, she does not recieve true love/ nor respect from her bro and sis. her brother did not get her remarried and left her alone for the rest of her life. she could not have gotten remarried herself bc if in arti is having trouble getting remarried now imagine in bua marriage years? plus her sis-in-law only likes her bc agrees w/ her. at the slightest disagreement w/ g, G will stop respecting and loving bua. she might respect but only out of fear.

Furthermore, i want to bring the point of pple overcoming tragedies. i find that we find sucess stories bc they appeal to us and are singled out by the media. but for every 1 person who has overcome sorrow there is 100 pple who havent. that 1 person is the exception not the rule. and generally that 1 person has someone who truly cares for them (family, friend) who goes above and beyond their duty. or the person has someone to live for like their children or a responsibility ( a younger sibling) who will suffer if they themselves don't exceed. i doubt that anybody in the scndya family ever cared for bua like so her chance of overcoming her troubles are 1/ 10000000. again bua is in the wrong but she has been much wronged by her family who are half responsibile for creating this monster

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Posted: 13 years ago

agree vth u dear.even i thought te same

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: angake

I do not feel bad for her at all.There are lots of people in life who are in much worse situation than she is; homeless, raped and abused and treated like an animal. Yet here she is with a home, never have to worry where her next meal is coming from, and are surrounded by people who give her respect and even love. Her past and her bitterness against her brother is no excuse for her behavior. A lot of times situations are out of our control in our lives but there are also lot of times where you have the power to change the course of your life. If Bua wanted she could have done a lot of positives with her life rather she chose to dwell on the negatives in her life and be a cruel and vindictive person. No sympathy for her whatsoever.

But you are right, today's episode did give us an understanding of why she is the way she is.

@bold: perfectly said!!!!

her own sufferings cannot justify wat she's doin wid Aarti n Ansh, Yash n his daughters!!!!!

She is an evil lady with cheap thoughts n bitterness in her heart which is making her spoil d lives of so many ppl...hated her yesterday wen she said 'Aarti kisi aashiq k saath gulcharre uda rhi hogi!!!"

n if she was gud enough in past or had she been a gud DIL, why didn't her inlaws keep her after her husband's death??? She's plain jealous of Aarti coz she got such wonderful inlaws in form of Dubey's who got her remarried n and a second chance in life that too wid a wonderful person like Yash!!!!!!

She must hav been this way (useless n badmouthing everyone n grumbling all d tym) even wen she was young that is why her inlaws didn't keep her!!!!!!!!

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