Toasty, her mom and our thinkings - Page 2

Toasty's mom and dad are very loving parents and while Toasty's dad is more level-headed (like Toasty), her mom is more impatient, she has good intentions and good heart but she reacts too fast, she thinks from her heart rather than her mind (in most cases). Most of us, including me, are like Toasty's mom especially when it comes to protecting the loved ones.

However, the point SBS tried to make was how too much interference from girl's mother can ruin girl's relationship with her in-laws example being Malti and her mom. Lifestyle and expectations will always be different between girl's own family and her husband's family. In Toasty's case, it was a MAJOR difference. She realized it early on that she had to work harder to develop trustworthy and friendly relationship with her in-laws. Considering what she went through at Tej's house from day-1, if it was all up to her mom, Toasty would not have survived this marriage at any cost.

I liked how in the beginning SBS showed that Toasty didn't share with her parents, each and every difficulty she went through at her husband's house because they would have never let their daughter go through this kind of disrespect and suffering. It was ESSENTIAL for Toasty to wean her mom off from her married life. She realized it was a very complicated situation at Tej's house and if she wanted to live there amicably, she had many sacrifices to make...she did all that and look how much she is loved today in C-house. It all paid off in the end.

Parents just want to see their daughters happy at their in-laws, now that Toasty is happy, they are also relieved. They need not know what happened in between. C-family members were not bad that they would burn their bahu down or do something criminal like that but they were all good at heart but very disturbed people, Toasty literally gave 1 year of her life to them and results are there for everyone to see. At least, I am happy for her and for all the good things that have happened in C-family due to Toasty's efforts.

Toasty loves her mom very much but she just doesn't want her interfering in her married life. May be viewers would have been more happy if SBS showed a good balance of Toasty's life at in-laws and with her parents but then the show is called Saas Bina SASURAL so focus will automatically be on BAHU in her SASURAL not BETI in her MAYEKA.

Hope you all can understand my point of view.

Originally posted by: julle1234567890

she really has a superiority complex this toasty of ours! mother knows best doesnt exist in her world.

she always is looking out for her inlaws, their feelings, their fears, their respect, their well being.

she never does that for her parents. and if her parents do something for her or someone close to them like nikita and ved, then they are in the wrong.

im sorry but if my friend became homeless overnight, i dont care whose business it is, they are coming home with me even if i have to drag them out. and sudha has considered nikita like a daughter, more than jsut toastys friend.

jeez ! toasty gets mad when she MOM interferes but when toasty MANIPULTES, LIES and decieves in order to "show people how wrong they are", THATS completely right.

you should get fake restraunt bills and fake electricians for the fridge to get others to understand. 😕

it seems as if she in some competition to prove the best DIL in the world n doesn't care if in this process she insults her mom. at times even her dad shows that Sudha doesn't have brains and the way he keeps calling her 'sudha lalit kumar sharma' irritates me big time 😡 it would be interesting if some day she replies back with 'lalit sudha sharma'.. his male ego would tumble down Im sure 🤣

absolutely support what u wrote, if she does something it is good, beneficial for the Chaturvedis but if her mom would do exactly the same then it is interfering.

how dare she speak to her own mom like, aap mere mamlo se door rahiye

shame on toasty 😡

Originally posted by: abc113

Sorry I am not able to understand what point you are trying to make here 😕

Nitika is an adult and can make decisions for her life. She has always loved Ved and when her parents were forcefully trying to marry her off to an unknown/unseen guy and Ved's family was more than willing to help her escape that life-changing situation, Nitika followed her heart and married Ved. She didn't shun her parents, but they did and refused to give her the blessings. Since then Nitika has been a very realistic yet sweet and understanding bahu as well as wife. I don't see a reason to make complaints about her.