Bedias--their support and opposition

It's easy to say would've could've should've. But I'm going to do so anyway. 😆

yup its easy to say would've, could've, but we like doing it anyway.😆
I think even if Sugni had spoken up things would have gone badly for her since Jwala surely had this thing preplanned. Vikram being a newcomer could somehow manage to give her a chance to speak but I don't think anyone or anything could have stopped the punishment from happening.

Firstly, if Sugni gets everything without fighting, it would be unrealstic, plus there would be no storyline to pursue. For me, this made an interesting contrast to the first confrontation where she told JT, quite cheekily, that she also forgives him ! In a village completely ruled by thakurs, she couldn't get away with such audacity twice. So they showed her a little broken down this time, albeit due to her mother's promise.

Second, this opens up the possibility of Vikram misunderstanding, or at least having mixed feelings for her. Also it will make her situation desperate enough that further interference by Vikram (and maybe Aditya?) is warranted, thus allowing the story to move forward.

And you are right about the other bedias, they are downtrodden and afraid of the thakurs, the pleading was more or less the limit of what they could have done realistically.

Regarding Sugni speaking up, my problem with that is that it would have looked a little unnecessary. Given that the punishment was bound to happen, her speaking would have achieved some sort of emotional satisfaction in us viewers, but it had the danger of becoming a sermon, much like the sermons spouted by the self-righteous bahus in many other serials, every chance they get. Given that she couldn't effectively defend herself this time, in the interest of the story moving forward, I felt it was better she kept completely silent. I did feel bad looking at her so quiet at the panchayat, but now I feel it was probably a good thing. She is, after all, a naive eighteen year old, she's by no means a seasoned warrior, she should be simply defeated by circumstances some times, its normal. That way, we get to see her growing from her failure, fighting to find new ways for her dreams to come true.😊

Regarding Sugni speaking up, my problem with that is that it would have looked a little unnecessary. Given that the punishment was bound to happen, her speaking would have achieved some sort of emotional satisfaction in us viewers, but it had the danger of becoming a sermon, much like the sermons spouted by the self-righteous bahus in many other serials, every chance they get.

I also felt Gulabiya gave a nod to Sugni to speak up and thought she would do but no she did not maybe there was a editing error or something chopped off from that scene.
though all Bednis seem to support each other but finally its everyone has to save their skin.
Takurian JS looks more wicked and wants to take revenge from Gulabiya and family for the public insult to herself(1st time also because of Sugni when her son wanted Sugni his own illegitimate sister and TJS publically insulted her) and family and also maybe that she was one time TJS Bedni.🤢

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

Lubbed your post 👏..🤗Specially the bits in bold.The tribe here is not shown as a heartless bunch of women but really warm ,live people who actually stand up for each other but at the end of the day all are humans who have a family of their own to fend forYa me too specially lubbed the second episode where all the bednis stand as a shield in front of Sugni ...

But at the end of the day ,all are real human beings who belong to a strata of society who have to strive and struggle to live every passing second

Oh and Regarding the muteness of Sugni..I too agree that if her mom really wanted her to speak up ,she should have better spoken up 😕

Thakurain is an angry, frustrated lady who has never got any respect or love from her husband. The other relationships she had, such as with her muh-bola brother Haldi, were also broken due to circumstances. She has her sons support, but she knows that her hold on him is tenuous, she can't really stop him from doing anything he wants. If she was the quiet sort, she would have cried and possibly committed suicide, like many other thakurains must have (Haldi's wife). She has a strong, aggressive personality, but not the vision to plan any major changes in her life. Hence she is thirsting for revenge against Gulabiya and her kin who keep coming in her way.

Think about it from her point of view. First, Gulabiya probably got much more of the thakurs affection than her at one point of time. Then Gulabiya's daughter was the cause of her sons public humiliation. Of course, as a mother, she knows her sons faults (e.g. warning him in the mela), but again, just like she did as the wife, she prefers to blame the outsider. Then Gulabiya came to ask her husband for money, to her it must have seemed like an attempt to get him back. So to her frustrated, warped soul, Sugni and her mother keep jumping into her life, and she just wants to finish them off.

I quite enjoy seeing things from thakurain's point of view. If only she had been able to dream, she could have been another Sugni, but without that one crucial component she became cruel and evil.😃

Originally posted by: atria

Thakurain is an angry, frustrated lady who has never got any respect or love from her husband. The other relationships she had, such as with her muh-bola brother Haldi, were also broken due to circumstances. She has her sons support, but she knows that her hold on him is tenuous, she can't really stop him from doing anything he wants. If she was the quiet sort, she would have cried and possibly committed suicide, like many other thakurains must have (Haldi's wife). She has a strong, aggressive personality, but not the vision to plan any major changes in her life. Hence she is thirsting for revenge against Gulabiya and her kin who keep coming in her way.

Think about it from her point of view. First, Gulabiya probably got much more of the thakurs affection than her at one point of time. Then Gulabiya's daughter was the cause of her sons public humiliation. Of course, as a mother, she knows her sons faults (e.g. warning him in the mela), but again, just like she did as the wife, she prefers to blame the outsider. Then Gulabiya came to ask her husband for money, to her it must have seemed like an attempt to get him back. So to her frustrated, warped soul, Sugni and her mother keep jumping into her life, and she just wants to finish them off.

I quite enjoy seeing things from thakurain's point of view. If only she had been able to dream, she could have been another Sugni, but without that one crucial component she became cruel and evil.😃

This is an interesting point, Atria😳...She is such a coldbloodedly venomous woman...but still a hurt woman too...Thakurs and their clan have created such a horrible society...that women all across..inside or outside their house are being exploited in one or the other way..both women are being abused and used by the philandering Thakurs..and now are ready to be against each other...

Nice post...I really loved the way the bedinis stood up for Sugni against a thakur in second episode...even though they r under then they stood to help bedinis...they r very well supportive to each other n to be with each other in need...

So can someone please clarify this for me. I don't feel like watching again.