OMG...Its not just child abuse BUT SEXUAL abuse - Page 4

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@fathima : so proud of u to speak up abt it
@all who have been touched by perverts: u r some of the strongest people cause u ddnt break when they tried to mishandle you. they are more than perverts. even animals are more cautious when it comes to a baby animal. shame on them , i wudnt call them human
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Posted: 13 years ago
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show ko present bahut acche se kiya aamir ne , work shop bahut accha tha, kisi ko bura bhi nahi laga aur baccho ko samjh bhi aa gaya hoga
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: simplypurple

A while back I had heard of a story where foreigners (pedophiles from all over the world) would come to India and they would go to these places where children were provided for them to assault. How can we allow this to happen in our country?


Remember the movie "Page 3"? I guess it was based on these true incidents of exploitation of street children, as Aamir described the notorious Anchorage case where those 2 British naval officers set up a kids shelter and lured poor street kids into their shelter to molest them! What disgusting monsters! To take advantage of their poverty and helplessness and use them for their depravities! 😡 They shd have been hanged! But Indian penal code has no clear laws on child sex abuse so these 2 monsters case has been pending for last 10 yrs!!! Is there anything more shameful than that in the history of Indian justice system?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank Goodness that you are safe 😊 You acted wisely at the right time.

BUT there are some unfortunate children who do not even understand what all is happening..& thus become a victim of this heinous crime. The abusers who do this horrifying deeds with naive children must be hanged till death.

Aamir's show is indeed an eye-opener for every parent out there. It is very necessary to educate children..to let them know about this thing.. It must not be considered as taboo as some parents do consider it.
Aamir's workshop at the end of the show must be recalled and repeated with children in every 6 months(as aamir rightly put it) whether in schools or at home.
...I just hope that parents DID learn something from those hair-raising experiences narrated by those brave people! 👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Long time back a friend of mine told me something so horrendous and asked me not to tell it to anyone. It was her own uncle and she was a little girl. I have lost in touch with her but still her story haunts me to date. I'm wondering how she must have felt after watching this show :-(
You had the sense to run away but she couldn't 😭 as she was just a child.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nieda

Long time back a friend of mine told me something so horrendous and asked me not to tell it to anyone. It was her own uncle and she was a little girl. I have lost in touch with her but still her story haunts me to date. I'm wondering how she must have felt after watching this show :-(
You had the sense to run away but she couldn't 😭 as she was just a child.

I hope your friend recovered from her childhood trauma!
Often this happens to kids so young that they dont even know whats going on, I mean they dont understand they are being touched in a bad way or something is being done to them! Thats why its so crucial to teach kids as little as 3 yrs old that only parents can touch those parts! Thats why the workshop is so important for even little kids so they know whats what. Its unfortunate that the little kids cant remain in innocence anymore but thats to protect them from evil pedophiles who take advantage!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kelta

For me, personally, the voice at the back of my head, that gut feeling, I always trust. Many times, we get a lot of cues about a certain person's behaviour; eg. when you think they're being too nice - we should never ignore these alarm bells and always be on our guard and never make ourselves too vulnerable.

bful post
You know this voice in back of the head is very strong and very very young children also know wrong from right BUT
and it's a big BUT what makes a diffrence is the reflex time
if the kid is told abt this before hand e.g. the workshop and he has made a deal with his parent to talk about it (oh GOD I wish parents wld make such a deal with their kids in childhood ) then the child will most likely be safe his reaction time will be fast and he will go to his parents
but if you have not spoken to ur kid about it then the time he takes to decide and the conflict with respect, the confusion , the guilt ... all this may make it worse for the child.
One more thing I want to point out is Mothers start protecting their girls at a young age but what they dont realise is that it can happen to a child also and to a boy also ... so 'sex education' an open platform to talk abt sucha thing is very very essential !

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