OMG...Its not just child abuse BUT SEXUAL abuse

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smriti

@FollowYourHeart

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Posted: 13 years ago

OH CRAP...I had no idea its going to be on sexual abuse of children..I thought its going to be on child abuse u know how we make young children work in factories and our own homes and beat them and snatch their childhood and innocence away?..I thought it was going to be that...but this is OMG...I feel nauseous...

the first story about that teacher abusing a lil girl triggered a reminder of an incedent that happened with me.. I havent shared that indecent with I think even the closest CLOSEST CLOSEST people I have met here...maybe because I completely forgot about that indecent, maybe because I was able to get out of that situation before it actually became an incident...I don;t know but I had totally totally FORGOTTEN about it until right now...and just remembering that right now and hearing all these stories i feel OMG...I just want to thank god for saving me...for giving me the sens to realize whats happening before something major happened and for giving me the courage to just freaking run away from it all...I was in Delhi in hostel my first year of graduation I think it was 2002 or something...i was 17...even my parents don't know about this till date...I had just told my room mate and she made me talk to her mom...if I had told my parents about it they wouldn't have been able to take it even though NOTHING happened...something could have happened if I didn't realize instantly that something is not right... it was my good fortune god was with me that I escaped what might have happened...but still my parents won't have been able to take this...they would have come and taken me home...and I was scared and scandalized for for two days...I never ever attended that teacher's class ever again...but ya thats it...I learned a huge huge lesson...learnt that just because somebody is a teacher u CANNOT trust them...God...its creepy...I was so stupid...but I thank thank THANK GOD to have saved me...to have given me the enough freaking sens to know in time something isn't right and to give me enough sens presence of mind to just RUN..and I thank my room mate's mom who consoled me and lectured me like my mom would have if she knew...but because i was able to escape it all because nothing happened this incident faded away it had no impact on me what so ever...it just u know acted as a lesosn an eye opener which made me more cautious but thats it...it had no emotional impact on me i was scared for two days...but uske baad I wasn't even that I went bindaas in exams which he invigilated and I made sure to let him know that I knew his intentions and I wasn't scared and if he even freaking DARED to do anything he would be the one in trouble not me...he knew that...thats why he never tried to make any advances what so ever ever again...I used to get extra time of one hour in my exams...because I have vision problem..and in that extra time the whole college was empty it was just me and the invigilator...and after first incedent I was scared for two days and i didnt want to give my exams...but then I was like to hell with him dekhte hai kya kar sakta hai...went and bindaas gave exam...and that pissy pants didn't even had enough balls to come give me the exam paper khud se...🤣 ...it was hilarious...🤣🤣

point is am laughing right now coz I was lucky...and nothing happened...but all these people all their stories they weren't lucky..so many girls every freaking day they don't get this lucky they don't get a chance to later sit back and freaking laugh it off...and thats scaring the crap out of me...I can't watch this epi or hear their stories...m just feeling DISGUSTED DISGUSTED...DISGUSTED at people who do this...just DISGUSTED

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m134_99

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am happy that God gave you the senses and saved you. May HE does the same for other vunerable children.

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Judi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thanq for sharing ur story..i feel more happy nd proud that u stood up with ur confidence nd god gave u the power 2 sense those evil people...

Even the same thing happened with one of my friend..Her family friend whom she considered like her uncle tried 2 do something wrong with her during the childhood..But like u she recognize it nd tey used 2 go 2 their home every weekend for prayer..nd my friend said this 2 her mom indirectly lik the uncle is bad nd he is touching her somewhere whch makes her uncomfortable nd she said i vl never come 2 that home fr anything..nd their parents stopped the relationship with them..She shared wit me a while ago..But 2day wen i saw the episode i felt the pain nd thank god that she was able 2 recongnize it in the 1st time itself..nd that made her safe before something wrong happens...2day episode was indeed a eye opener show..It happens wit most of the child by the elders whom they give respect..But as aamir said..Respect their behaviour not them...👍🏼

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smriti

@FollowYourHeart

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: m134_99
I am happy that God gave you the senses and saved you. May HE does the same for other vunerable children.

Actually if something would have happened it would have been my own stupidity because come freaking on i was 17,18 then...I shouldn't have been so stupid...God would have laughed at me or just been mad mad MAD for being this badly stupid...🤣...even my roommie laughed at me and thrashed me and scolded me for being so dumb...😆...but ya thank god i stopped being dumb IN TIME and realized whats happening...omg..I was so stupid... 🤣🤣...but its not my fault man he was a teacher...I had my maths exam that day and it had gone horrible i panicked i was blanked out and he was the invigilator he saw all through paper I was panicking...toh after paper he was like come i want to talk to u about how to handle stress how to not panic other wise u wld spoil all your papers...so i went with him to his tutorial room...i had no reason to doubt him and well i was dumb he was a teacher and i didn't even think ki it could be unsafe...coz he was a teacher...and in my life teachers have played the role of God..they truly have..so I went...and two minutes into the room and I realzied something is wrong..and i just bolted and RAN...lol..😆.. and got a ten hour long thrashing from my room mate...my mistake was that I went with him...but i learnt a huge lesson...uske baad se even if I had to clarify doubts with ANY XYZ teacher i would always go with someone...infact thats what we should do...when outside in a diff city in hostel we should make it a point we move in groups...not just out side even in home town...its cruel and unfair that we girls have to as a freaking RULE move in groups but thats the reality at least of India it is...

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smriti

@FollowYourHeart

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ..StarAngel..
Thanq for sharing ur story..i feel more happy nd proud that u stood up with ur confidence nd god gave u the power 2 sense those evil people...

Even the same thing happened with one of my friend..Her family friend whom she considered like her uncle tried 2 do something wrong with her during the childhood..But like u she recognize it nd tey used 2 go 2 their home every weekend for prayer..nd my friend said this 2 her mom indirectly lik the uncle is bad nd he is touching her somewhere whch makes her uncomfortable nd she said i vl never come 2 that home fr anything..nd their parents stopped the relationship with them..She shared wit me a while ago..But 2day wen i saw the episode i felt the pain nd thank god that she was able 2 recongnize it in the 1st time itself..nd that made her safe before something wrong happens...2day episode was indeed a eye opener show..It happens wit most of the child by the elders whom they give respect..But as aamir said..Respect their behaviour not them...👍🏼

oh man how old was your friend?...she seemed to have been a baby girl or a lil teen then right?

this is scary...creepy...why do people do this just freaking WHY?

u know all this...this sexual abuse of children rapes and all the grossness attached to sex has seriously made me crapped out on the whole physical intimacy concept itself... i just hate the way people treat sex...they treat it like a commodity a thing which they have to HAVE and they would stoop to no extent to have it...its just ARGH...disgusting...sex is supposed to be something beautiful...its not even supposed to be called "sex"...its supposed to be MAKING LOVE...its supposed to be a beautiful spiritual journey a medium to commune with God...to find heaven...to create life...but what people and the world has made this into is just...pathetic...disgusting

and don't feel proud for me because trust me NOTHING happened...i wasn't any hero Infact I was plane stupid and dumb to even have let the incident happen...it was my stupidity...but ya i feel good and proud that at least I had the guts to recognize whats happening smack the so called teacher and run...otherwise if my dumbness had continued I might even have let whatever was happening happen...OMG...eww thats scary...no...nooo even I couldn't have been THAT dumb...😆...and THANK GOD for it...loool🤣

but no seriously m no hero...these people...all of these peoiple who actually survived this disgusting thing and came to the other side and spoke up...they are the heros...any amount of salute is less for them🤗🤗

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Judi

@..StarAngel..

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: FollowYourHeart

oh man how old was your friend?...she seemed to have been a baby girl or a lil teen then right?

this is scary...creepy...why do people do this just freaking WHY?

u know all this...this sexual abuse of children rapes and all the grossness attached to sex has seriously made me crapped out on the whole physical intimacy concept itself... i just hate the way people treat sex...they treat it like a commodity a thing which they have to HAVE and they would stoop to no extent to have it...its just ARGH...disgusting...sex is supposed to be something beautiful...its not even supposed to be called "sex"...its supposed to be MAKING LOVE...its supposed to be a beautiful spiritual journey a medium to commune with God...to find heaven...to create life...but what people and the world has made this into is just...pathetic...disgusting

and don't feel proud for me because trust me NOTHING happened...i wasn't any hero Infact I was plane stupid and dumb to even have let the incident happen...it was my stupidity...but ya i feel good and proud that at least I had the guts to recognize whats happening smack the so called teacher and run...otherwise if my dumbness had continued I might even have let whatever was happening happen...OMG...eww thats scary...no...nooo even I couldn't have been THAT dumb...😆...and THANK GOD for it...loool🤣

but no seriously m no hero...these people...all of these peoiple who actually survived this disgusting thing and came to the other side and spoke up...they are the heros...any amount of salute is less for them🤗🤗

She was around 13..he was the person who used 2 conduct prayer meetings in his home..nd my friend nd her family used 2 go fr the meetings..But see wat happened..Seriously punishment are very little for this kind of cruel people..

Yeah u are right..Everyone gave the different meaning 2 this term..nd as u said itz like a commodity..But itz just disgusting 2 hear these kind of stories..nd itz happen wit boys wait..God i was seriously shell shocked man..nd those victims...seriously i loved the textile boy who said..i forgive the abuser..Man really any kind of gratitude is less 2 show for him..👏nd yeah even i heard many stories nd read in newspapers that own parents do this kind of abuse wit their children..lik father 2 the child nd even i read that a woman who did this kind of abuse wit her relative boy for nearly 10 years...from his age seven or something..nd this woman age is above 40..it was hell crap 2 read nd hear this kind of stories...

I would say aamir's workshop is really a thumbs up way 2 save our children..Every parents,teachers should teach this..Schools should intoduce a special class 2 bring awareness about this issue 2 the children..nd Yeah Law must be passed by the government..nd i hope it vl be passed after this show impact..as u said...any amount of salute is less for them who stood nd spoken up fr their side🤗🤗

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simplypurple

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: FollowYourHeart

Actually if something would have happened it would have been my own stupidity because come freaking on i was 17,18 then...I shouldn't have been so stupid...God would have laughed at me or just been mad mad MAD for being this badly stupid...🤣...even my roommie laughed at me and thrashed me and scolded me for being so dumb...😆...but ya thank god i stopped being dumb IN TIME and realized whats happening...omg..I was so stupid... 🤣🤣...but its not my fault man he was a teacher...I had my maths exam that day and it had gone horrible i panicked i was blanked out and he was the invigilator he saw all through paper I was panicking...toh after paper he was like come i want to talk to u about how to handle stress how to not panic other wise u wld spoil all your papers...so i went with him to his tutorial room...i had no reason to doubt him and well i was dumb he was a teacher and i didn't even think ki it could be unsafe...coz he was a teacher...and in my life teachers have played the role of God..they truly have..so I went...and two minutes into the room and I realzied something is wrong..and i just bolted and RAN...lol..😆.. and got a ten hour long thrashing from my room mate...my mistake was that I went with him...but i learnt a huge lesson...uske baad se even if I had to clarify doubts with ANY XYZ teacher i would always go with someone...infact thats what we should do...when outside in a diff city in hostel we should make it a point we move in groups...not just out side even in home town...its cruel and unfair that we girls have to as a freaking RULE move in groups but thats the reality at least of India it is...

Even if you were 18, it would never have been your fault. It's not the victim's fault. It's the attacker's and they are the ones who should be ashamed of themselves and be punished. I'm not sure what happened but you were smart enough to run away when you felt danger. Many kids don't have anywhere to run or don't think they can run. I'm glad you were safe and you can look back and laugh and be proud of yourself. You should be. I hope that teacher didn't get to hurt anyone else.

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smriti

@FollowYourHeart

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ..StarAngel..

She was around 13..he was the person who used 2 conduct prayer meetings in his home..nd my friend nd her family used 2 go fr the meetings..But see wat happened..Seriously punishment are very little for this kind of cruel people..

Yeah u are right..Everyone gave the different meaning 2 this term..nd as u said itz like a commodity..But itz just disgusting 2 hear these kind of stories..nd itz happen wit boys wait..God i was seriously shell shocked man..nd those victims...seriously i loved the textile boy who said..i forgive the abuser..Man really any kind of gratitude is less 2 show for him..👏nd yeah even i heard many stories nd read in newspapers that own parents do this kind of abuse wit their children..lik father 2 the child nd even i read that a woman who did this kind of abuse wit her relative boy for nearly 10 years...from his age seven or something..nd this woman age is above 40..it was hell crap 2 read nd hear this kind of stories...

I would say aamir's workshop is really a thumbs up way 2 save our children..Every parents,teachers should teach this..Schools should intoduce a special class 2 bring awareness about this issue 2 the children..nd Yeah Law must be passed by the government..nd i hope it vl be passed after this show impact..as u said...any amount of salute is less for them who stood nd spoken up fr their side🤗🤗

what makes me sad is we r in a situation where these work shops have become NECESSARY where we deliberately have to talk all this bull crap to the children...shit man...is this the age to talk this bull shit with them or to tell them fairy tale stories of glass shoes and castles and white horses and god mothers?...talking all this to them is like denting a blow to their innocence their care free care free innocence...hell this is the age for them to believe ki nothing bad happens...ki there is good happiness MAGIC every damned where...but because of pathetic pathetic adults like these we have to break their bubble and show them the reality...which is so damned DAMNED UNFAIR...i don't want work shops I don't want laws i freaking want a world where there is no freaking NEED to talk this shit with children coz no one NO ONE wld dare to this crime...crime against the most innocent form of God's existence...

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ambar

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I always wanted to come in this forum but when i watched today's epd... i was like what is happening in this world which kind of people live here... Thank God this kind of thing never happened to me... ya i also went alone in tuition, but my teacher was really good he treated me like his own child actually (he is married but he doesn't have own child) but now i don't why i m thanking God again and again... because i always was the safe and hope i will always be the safe from these kind of people...