But check out this Article that came on Telly Tadka...I think the writer has beautifully penned down what actually happened, and what is expected off etc...Do have a look
Show: Diya aur Baati Hum
Episode: 18th May 2012
Breaking News!!!! Sandhya Rathi has lost the ability to speak….She has lost her Voice!!!! What else would you name/call everything that happened today?
I am not taking sides here. There is no way one could blame Suraj and Sandhya. But if there is someone who needs to be blamed its both Suraj and Sandhya….
Sandhya: I don't think the decision of never leaving Suraj just came out of the blue today, it was there inside her from the day she got married to Suraj…The culture, the traditional values instilled in her will never allow her to do so…So why the hell did she keep those divorce papers with her? She should have disposed it ASAP…..
Suraj: Yes it was shocking for him when he came across the Divorce papers…..But what he has been doing since that day can never be justified….He chose to not talk about the Divorce papers assumed that Sandhya wanted divorce from him and based on that he started to behave rude on the pretext of helping her so that it would be easier for her to leave them.
So if you wanna blame somebody blame them both…..Anyways leaving all that aside…..I can see and understand where Suraj is coming from…..Suraj is doing all this for the one promise he has made to Sandhya during their marriage -That of keeping her Happy. So he is doing everything in his power to upset her, hurt her….And today was the final blow where he called Sandhya "JHOOTI, CHALAK & MAKKAR"….Hoping that this would strike Sandhya right where it hurts….The TRUST that she has invested in him!!!
But i don't understand Sandhya…her actions and her words…But wait a Moment was there any of it today??? NOPE!!! NONE!!! Where is the bold and daring Sandhya? Did the cat got her tongue…..I mean what the hell was that? I understand that its easier said than done…Anybody in Sandhya's place would have been hurt on being accused of something they did not do….But i am talking about all those times (TODAY) when she could have actually said something substantial….Had she taken a stand today it would have been all the more difficult for Suraj to put his plan into action….To make his final move (Of calling her JHOOTI, CHALAK & MAKKAR)….What happened to her words " Ab toh maine woh sunna hi band kar diya hai jo unke hoth kehte hai, ab toh sirf woh sunti hoon jo unki Aakhen na chahte hue bhi keh deti hai"????
The last part that is after being called a liar and Suraj confirming that he does believe she is one it would have been hard for Sandhya to continue there…..Coz just like she mentioned "Trust is truly the foundation of every relationship". Suraj saying those words, accusing her was more than enough for Sandhya's final breakdown…..
All in all what Sandhya did today, by actually not doing anything was very upsetting……Though DABH has cited several examples where Sandhya has been able to bring about a change in the society, today i can say for sure that Sandhya can never be a successful IPS officer…..How can a person, unable to solve her own personal problems, bring about a change in the society, and country???? Well that's for you to answer….So do you guys agree with me???
Author: Vijitha Rajan
Telly Tadka
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